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Never thought about this until I came across the idea today. The comments miss the point but I think you all would appreciate this type of discussion.

Lolita_Loquita

April 9, 2021
288 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

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Title Never thought about this until I came across the idea today. The comments miss the point but I think you all would appreciate this type of discussion.
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Lolita_Loquita

Upvotes 288
Comments 27
Date April 9, 2021 10:54 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mnsppy/never_thought_about_this_until_i_came_across_the/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/never-thought-about-this-until-i-came-across-the.1187195
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Comments

[–]AlextheAnalystFDS Newbie 156 points157 points158 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I hate it too! The word pornography literally is from the Greek pornographos, ‘writing about prostitutes’, from pornē ‘prostitute’ + graphein ‘write’.

Bonus etymology: Prostitute, from Latin prostitut- ‘exposed publicly, offered for sale’, from the verb prostituere, from pro- ‘before’ + statuere ‘set up, place’.

It really makes no sense to describe your enjoyment of something non-sexual as pornographic in nature. Like, imagine taking pictures of baked goods, and then saying to your parents, "Would you like to see some cake porn?" It's not porn! It's wholesome, you can't call anything wholesome "porn."

[–]Charming-Bee-2337 55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Always kind of confused me why porn is legal to make but prostitution isnt legal, porn is just filmed prostitution.

[–]AlextheAnalystFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly! I guess because the johns are never in personal contact with the "actors" - yet if you pay people to let you watch them in person, it's clearly an act of prostitution.

[–]Lolita_Loquita 47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for explaining the etymology. I get that people are trying to be cute but it just isn't.

[–]ShinygoldendragonflyPickmeisha™️ 69 points70 points71 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've always despised the terms foodgasm and foodporn. Couldn't point my finger on why I cringed everytime I heard someone use them unironically.

[–]WhoDatSayDatFDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think as women we recognize there are better ways to be in this world besides crass and demeaning.

[–]UnstrirringCoffee 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's perhaps because many women have never had an orgasm in their lives. It cheapens the word and strips it of meaning.

[–]OrangeyPanda 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! Thought I was the only person who felt this way.

[–]_queeeen_FDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Interesting take! Consider it deleted from my vocabulary.

[–]islandmaiden15 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

When I first encountered the words, I was disgusted by it. But then after seeing it lots of times, I started to rationalize that it's not that deep, when it actually is. Now, I know better and I will be extinguishing foodgasm and foodporn from my vocabulary, too.

[–]Lolita_Loquita 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah this concept is new to me too.

[–][deleted] 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]_queeeen_FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When a man uses the b word, it’s over.

[–]aquietswordFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not to mention the word "wh*re" - I'm not a fan of either.

[–]IndividualRoutine661FDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Slightly off topic but on a similar theme pornifaction of stuff like make up - I’m looking at Urban Decay and Nars here. Calling products names like Perversion and Orgasm - which is a mascara and a blusher respectively- you just lost my dollar.

[–]_AmarantosFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

NARS has a mascara called climax and another blusher called deep throat. Gross.

[–]IndividualRoutine661FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah that alone turns me off the brand. It’s definitely male centric advertising hive mind sex sex sex sex rinse repeat etc

[–]thehappiestelephant 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"While you make yourself fuckable, don't dare forget that's the whole point."

[–]Lolita_Loquita 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd say that's still on topic because it's about how everyday things are named needlessly around sexual gratification. You know that there are women that have been so sexualized that they will buy the products because they think it makes them sexier.

[–]ccro7FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Great point. That has always been so tacky. I remember my first trip to Paris, I didn't want to forget a thing and I still recall that the burgundy-coloured nail polish I wore was called 'Temptation.'

[–]IndividualRoutine661FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I just had a google and there’s even worse names out there for makeup products. What’s the bets it’s a man at an advertising agency thinking of this vulgar tat

[–]UnstrirringCoffee 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I have been feeling this way ever since I discovered the truith about porn and I am happy more people are starting to feel this way.

[–]Lolita_Loquita 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm new to the rejection of porn so this hadn't crossed my mind yet.

[–]UnstrirringCoffee 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you can stomach it watch The Price of Pleasure and Hardcore. These fimls firmly put me in the porn = hate speech camp. It's not just hate speech against women. It's also racist AF.

[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pornography means female slave. The etymology isn't exactly straightforward, but essentially that's what the word means.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's this hypersexualization of society where anything positive is seen as inherently and automatically sexual. This is what you get when Society is run by men.

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