NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before him

aclick1999 · 2020-12-10T16:13:40+00:00

Ayayay. And women are emotional and stuck in the past? Men who cannot and do not comprehend your autonomy as a human with life experiences ain't shit. It's fine if it made him feel sad, I get that. But it's unacceptable he treat her this way. At least she won't waste years with him. The grossness exposed itself expediently.

2340000 · 2020-12-10T16:14:12+00:00

Considering the boyfriend didn't know about the sex tape with "Mark", gives us enough information about their relationship. She knew he'd act like that.

Two points I want to make are:

(1) Male entitlement has no bounds. He's not entitled to the acts she performed in an abusive relationship. He crossed the line and breached her privacy.

(2) If a man can't accept your past, then kick him to the curb. Seriously. It's not worth the anxiety of moderating your language so as not to divulge information. We should expect better of men in order to keep our personal standards high.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-12-10T16:41:23+00:00

This is why you NEVER share sexual trauma with other men, or your bad sexual experiences with other men.....even a man you been married to for years and thinks is an HVM. Tried anal with a guy in the past and didn't like it? Too bad, new husband will be MAD you won't do anal with him, regardless of your feelings on it.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-12-10T17:32:07+00:00

This is why you don’t tell men about your sexual past. They literally can not handle it.

SavvyInNYC · 2020-12-10T17:34:58+00:00

So he broke into her laptop and WATCHED her sex tape without permission?

And she’s worried about HIS feelings?? I would be FURIOUS. Like consulting with a lawyer type of livid.

What a piece of shit to violate his own wife in that way. And then to give her the silent treatment.

IwillMasticateYou · 2020-12-10T18:19:54+00:00

Can someone help translate? Why do men always want to be the first of something? And if not its ruined? Like I want to be your first sex tape. Or your first time trying anal or something like that? I had an ex who didnt want to go to the same date spot I'd been with other men.

2020-12-10T19:30:47+00:00

[deleted]

daisy_0720 · 2020-12-10T18:41:07+00:00

Men really can't seem to grasp that fact that women are actually humans and didn't just spring into existence the moment we met them. It's like the realization we actually have a past and experience outside of them actually breaks their brains.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-12-10T16:18:26+00:00

Thank god she found out he’s a whiny creep before having a kid with him. I call incel fanfic tho, (assuming her terminology is correct) recovering a busted hard drive is like thousands of dollars and doesn’t always work, there’s zero chance this happened if she’s using the right wording. Even if it was just a dead laptop and the HD still worked (and this actually happened), it takes effort and money to pull it and make it accessible, the amount of effort he put into this is truly stalker level.

Sewud · 2020-12-10T21:41:56+00:00

This is what you get for being a cool girl who tries to please men by doing cool sexual stuff. Trying to please men only leads to heartbreak because they don't appreciate it.

Can't he understand that he's just like Mark and when she was with Mark she had no way to know that it would not work out just like she thinks it's going to work out with him. The only difference is Mark eventually messed it up whereas he currently has the opportunity for their relationship to take a different course.

DrippingWetPeach · 2020-12-10T23:45:36+00:00

Don't share your dating history with men, ladies. ❤️

honeybeeroll · 2020-12-11T07:26:30+00:00

I could get the husband being sad or upset if he was a very traditional, conservative guy, but he fucking asked her to make a sex tape. That tells you all you need to know about him. he has no fucking right to react this way. Especially when she made a sex tape with someone who she said used her sexually!! If someone told me that story I'd feel horrible for them, like this guy used you for sex and then coerced you into making porn with him to memorialize his using you?? How awful. But no, all this guy thinks about is how his kink isn't "special" anymore, cuz she did this once before, even though she really wasn't on board with it. I hope she dumps him.

Squidwrd_Tortellini · 2020-12-10T16:44:31+00:00

[removed]

NiBBasBeCrazy · 2020-12-12T12:29:57+00:00

What subreddit is this from? I wanna go see the comments

Title	NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before him
Author	AlienUtterings
Upvotes	104
Comments	32
Date	December 10, 2020 4:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kahwf5/nvm_digs_through_wifes_computer_gets_upset_that/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/nvm-digs-through-wifes-computer-gets-upset-that.586833 https://theredarchive.com/post/586833

Comments