Poor girl

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-05-04T17:00:42+00:00

You're crying for your lost dignity from staying with a pig who fucked multiple other women behind your back. Stop doing this to yourselves, ladies. He cheats, he's dead to you. Respect yourself more than he "loves" you.

Pickled_Tink_Tea · 2021-05-04T17:14:54+00:00

Yup, cheat once and we're done.

He's wrecked this poor woman to the point that she's crying daily. She needs to get out.

Golden_Lavender · 2021-05-04T17:21:50+00:00

She should've left him 2 years ago when he cheated is what I want to say but I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't leave BC of her support network. I feel like a large majority if people who come online or write to advice columns do so because they don't have any friends or family that they can trust that want the best for them. Either that or they just ignore everyone even when they're right and they go to the ends of the earth in search of someone to validate them.

lucidlotus · 2021-05-04T19:01:47+00:00

He’ll cheat on her again. People like that rarely change. I’ve seen men stay with women they don’t want to be with after cheating is discovered just because they don’t want to be the bad guy. She’s gotta get out.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-05-04T19:23:21+00:00

How can she claim that he loves her when he obviously does not and openly proves so? Also, how can you love someone who treats you like this? Why, oh why some women are like this? Who broke them? 😔

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-05-04T20:14:52+00:00

He not only cheated, but also proposed to one of them. Did they say no and that's why he chose to marry OP instead? If you're crying daily you should leave. That means you're worried he'd cheat again. That isn't a marriage at this point, it's more of a prison that reminds you of past actions daily.

Only_Lime2520 · 2021-05-04T20:08:57+00:00

Why do they always have to include the love disclaimer I truly love my husband at the beginning of every single post of this type? It's like they're so scared of being found out they don't love their husband?? is it like a crime or something??

I love him uNkOndiShEnAllY, but he [insert terrible garbage ass behavior]

I bet this stems from the husband/ boyfriend always equating their parters' love with compliance / putting up with their absolute garbage ass behaviors.

That's not love, sis, that's self-harming.

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-05-04T20:51:23+00:00

“Should I just call it quits and move on? This is the only way I believe I’ll get over this.”

She said it herself.

sveji- · 2021-05-04T22:46:46+00:00

You. Should. Have. Never. Married. Him. You're not a consolation prize because the other girl said no.

laffytaggy · 2021-05-04T19:53:07+00:00

This gave me a headache :(

alichuchu · 2021-05-05T04:40:17+00:00

I couldn’t even take this seriously. I’m sure she’s hurt but... how does breaking her trust, and then proposing to another woman mean that he loves her? Plus they’ve been married for 4 months but he knew her for 6 long years before he proposed?? He also makes her cry... This is a mess.

fdsonlynoscrubs · 2021-05-05T12:41:26+00:00

What did Annie say back?

the-lonely-spirit · 2021-05-06T03:06:06+00:00

I'm just imagining the comments of this for some reason like: "wOmEn cHeAt tOo" and I can't get it out of my head.

Seriously though, if she's crying constantly then she needs to wake TF up and dump his ass!

Title	Poor girl
Author	FunkaTech
Upvotes	216
Comments	18
Date	May 4, 2021 12:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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