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[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist 224 points225 points226 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You're crying for your lost dignity from staying with a pig who fucked multiple other women behind your back. Stop doing this to yourselves, ladies. He cheats, he's dead to you. Respect yourself more than he "loves" you.
[–]Pickled_Tink_TeaFDS Newbie 128 points129 points130 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, cheat once and we're done.
He's wrecked this poor woman to the point that she's crying daily. She needs to get out.
[–]Golden_LavenderFDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She should've left him 2 years ago when he cheated is what I want to say but I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't leave BC of her support network. I feel like a large majority if people who come online or write to advice columns do so because they don't have any friends or family that they can trust that want the best for them. Either that or they just ignore everyone even when they're right and they go to the ends of the earth in search of someone to validate them.
[–]lucidlotusFDS Newbie 65 points66 points67 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He’ll cheat on her again. People like that rarely change. I’ve seen men stay with women they don’t want to be with after cheating is discovered just because they don’t want to be the bad guy. She’s gotta get out.
[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How can she claim that he loves her when he obviously does not and openly proves so? Also, how can you love someone who treats you like this? Why, oh why some women are like this? Who broke them? 😔
[–]creamtart_FDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men.
[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
He not only cheated, but also proposed to one of them. Did they say no and that's why he chose to marry OP instead? If you're crying daily you should leave. That means you're worried he'd cheat again. That isn't a marriage at this point, it's more of a prison that reminds you of past actions daily.
[–]splendiddiamondsFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That isn't a marriage at this point
Agreed. He broke the terms of the contract. Why is she still beholden to her side of the deal when he can't keep his?
[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably because she's already wasted so much time on him and is scared to start over. It's probably all she knows at this point. I wish women would embrace the unknown and just leave :( It's scary but the huge weight off your shoulders is breath taking. She's slowly withering away and aging being with him.
[–]Only_Lime2520FDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Why do they always have to include the love disclaimer I truly love my husband at the beginning of every single post of this type? It's like they're so scared of being found out they don't love their husband?? is it like a crime or something??
I love him uNkOndiShEnAllY, but he [insert terrible garbage ass behavior]
I bet this stems from the husband/ boyfriend always equating their parters' love with compliance / putting up with their absolute garbage ass behaviors.
That's not love, sis, that's self-harming.
[–]pickadaisyFDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve forever wondered what the heck people think love “means”.
[–]miphasgracefulFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because if they said how they truly felt about him, they’d answer their own question. If you have to reach out to an advice columnist, have to Google advice because of his behavior or actions, you already instinctively know it’s time to leave.
[–]Lost_Kale90FDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Should I just call it quits and move on? This is the only way I believe I’ll get over this.”
She said it herself.
[–]sveji-FDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You. Should. Have. Never. Married. Him. You're not a consolation prize because the other girl said no.
[–]laffytaggyFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This gave me a headache :(
[–]alichuchuFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I couldn’t even take this seriously. I’m sure she’s hurt but... how does breaking her trust, and then proposing to another woman mean that he loves her? Plus they’ve been married for 4 months but he knew her for 6 long years before he proposed?? He also makes her cry... This is a mess.
[–]fdsonlynoscrubsFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What did Annie say back?
[–]the-lonely-spirit 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm just imagining the comments of this for some reason like: "wOmEn cHeAt tOo" and I can't get it out of my head.
Seriously though, if she's crying constantly then she needs to wake TF up and dump his ass!
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