Preach.

Hampered-Siren · 2019-12-17T03:24:55+00:00

I LOVE THIS!! Reason I am no longer with exboyfriend. I was very stressed out about teenage son and actually had to ASK for some comforting words to feel better. His response, "Well, I have never been very good with words." Seriously, you couldn't think of anything to say or even just giving a hug? Good riddance! Yes there are basics and if you have to ask a grown adult man for them, it is beneath you!!

XHelheimX · 2019-12-17T06:10:46+00:00

The whole im busy thing is just his way of saying you aren’t a priority until I’m horny and I’ll hit you up when I want female attention.

It’s such a small thing but if a guy won’t make time for you or cancels plans more than just once then he just doesn’t care. Just move on.

PicklesNBacon · 2019-12-17T02:06:13+00:00

This! I’ve been waiting for a dude to text me back to tell me when HE is available to see ME.

Fuck that.

pokersnob · 2019-12-17T05:19:30+00:00

Last year I had a guy wait 3 days to clarify a text he sent me. When hw said he was busy and would call me back I said ok. By day 3 I saw that he didnt call, I kindly text him "delete my number" he called me back, I pushed him to voicemail, no voicemail. No call from a different number. No showing up at my door. No facebook message. Decided that Im way better off without him and moved right along.

s_slayer · 2019-12-17T05:08:26+00:00

Fuuuuuckk I needed to see this today.

2019-12-17T03:08:59+00:00

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PieOfMine · 2019-12-17T05:27:44+00:00

This! Had a long conversation with my friend about her bf, about how she doesn’t need him but wants him to want her and wants him to care even though she’s talked to him multiple times over... Excuse. Me!

EDIT: He dumped her. Of course.

NorthrnSwede · 2019-12-17T03:44:16+00:00

YES. If being a behaving like a decent human being is a special ask, please stay the f away from me.

RayneSinclair · 2019-12-17T16:43:38+00:00

“Don’t be afraid of the solitude that comes with raising your standards.”

mmerrill450 · 2019-12-17T03:52:16+00:00

I needed to see this today. Have had a one sided friendship for far too long. Never had time to spend with me but never had a problem asking for favors. Stepped all over my feelings without a thought. Time to find better friends.

EllieBellie222 · 2019-12-17T13:08:46+00:00

For me this applies to the people at work. They are nasty, vicious mean girls. I had to learn to not let them bother me.

And in a relationship should I ever be in one again, hell no. Not gonna happen.

lolumadbr0 · 2019-12-17T13:06:37+00:00

Goddamnit this is what I needed to hear.

Now to block his number.

penelaine · 2019-12-17T04:13:32+00:00

Thanks! I needed to read this.

BadWolfDVM · 2019-12-17T05:00:44+00:00

Needed to read this today. Thank you!

MonicaLSolis · 2019-12-17T05:05:20+00:00

I love this

cannedboelyn · 2019-12-17T16:49:58+00:00

Literally was waiting for a guy to message me on Facebook who I knew was ignoring me. Why do I keep doing this to myself

bunnyhouseinyoursoul · 2019-12-17T21:20:32+00:00

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2019-12-17T02:40:14+00:00

👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

turquoiseblues · 2019-12-17T07:57:12+00:00

I love the “I’m Dat Feminist” IG.

HockeyBasics · 2019-12-17T14:01:45+00:00

This 🙌

PerpetuallyPonderous · 2019-12-17T16:41:17+00:00

Wise Words, wish I had always respected myself enough to demand no less.

circescircus · 2019-12-18T03:58:36+00:00

The root cause of this behavior is that women are conditioned to seek male validation, while they are simultaneously conditioned to be averse to self-validation.

The women who need to read and absorb this message, are too busy lying to themselves. They'll focus on the small, meaningless "nice" things the guy said or did, the "potential", and they won't see themselves in the real situation they are in, so they won't think this message is for them. Denial. Or if the relationship is more explicitly toxic, they'll just ignore the message because they are addicted to the highs of their situationship. Really loser pickmeishas would personally attack the woman who delivered the message, or they'll try to find some way to intentionally misinterpret her.

Title	Preach.
Author	freyday18
Upvotes	3613
Comments	44
Date	December 17, 2019 1:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ebomaq/preach/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/preach.686807 https://theredarchive.com/post/686807

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