Recent increase in male anger/frustration

nowheyrose · 2020-08-24T19:46:53+00:00

I keep saying it's the pandemic. Harder to meet people + more time to use the internet + the myriad of impacts on mental health = more people getting sucked into anti-woman ideologies

minty-coral · 2020-08-24T19:21:55+00:00

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RadioactiveJoy · 2020-08-24T20:25:33+00:00

Children are having regression issues during quarantine. Phases you thought they were over are cropping back up and often worse then they were the first time around. Bed wetting, picking fights, acting out and tantrums are all spiking. Pediatricians and child psychiatrist are saying it’s common and these men just need to go home to mommy/daddy and leave the rest of us alone.

teaandcoffee717 · 2020-08-24T21:10:40+00:00

Ever since the word "simp" became popular, it's being thrown around and making men feel bad about treating women with respect. It has become such a derogatory word for them they will avoid whatever it takes to not be called a simp.

I was on a MrBeast binge the other day and saw an older video of him sending women on twitch money for the sake of respecting women and all the recent comments underneath are calling him a simp for it. I'm so worried for the next generation of men.

sexxxybae · 2020-08-24T20:54:53+00:00

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rachelx02 · 2020-08-24T21:32:30+00:00

I've noticed a lot of them are extremely frustrated that they don't have the energy or ability to improve themselves like TRP or PUA advises them to, nor the will to ignore and not focus on women like MGTOW advises them to.

They're trapped in a prison of their own making.

Their testosterone levels are shattered from a lifetime of cucking themselves by watching porn and conditioning their orgasms from watching strangers have sex, also leaving their dopamine levels fried and ruined. There's no energy left to put all the stuff they read online to action, so it's just endless browsing of women hate and victimhood, and feeling fake satisfaction from living in their revenge fantasies.

All we can pray for is they don't hurt any strangers when they lash out or get violent. Just stay in your world of video games and porn, and don't hurt anyone.

radfemmaf · 2020-08-24T20:07:31+00:00

Yes I've also noticed with the pandemic that men have become more bold in harassing/groping women in very open or more public places than usual, probably due to there being less chances for them to do it discreetly.

spoons723 · 2020-08-24T23:08:06+00:00

yes. As a female I also feel more anger, resentment, and self pity which has caused me to become disillusioned and quite honestly, not pleasant to be around. Moreover, every guy I’ve talked to on a dating app has lost their shit when I tell them I don’t want to meet in person (note that I live in an area where covid cases are rapidly rising still every day). Like really gotten angry or upset with me, a person they’ve never even met. I’ve never really experienced this from perfect strangers, and coupled with my distaste for the disrespect, just makes for a very bleak outlook on life in general.

I’m going to try and dedicate more time to self care and setting boundaries with friends who take up energy. It’s exhausting but I’m even more exhausted. I don’t know what everyone else is doing. This pandemic has taken a toll on a lot of us.

Moira_Spice · 2020-08-24T20:40:19+00:00

I've noticed that, some of my male friends did some RP stuff on me. One man was blocked, another was given the silent treatment.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-08-24T21:51:35+00:00

They're on the internet, radicalizing each other, masterbating and not going to work. They're all over the place.

TheOGJammies · 2020-08-24T23:21:45+00:00

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TheOGJammies · 2020-08-25T01:21:22+00:00

You can't "heal" men, you just have to ruthlessly reject and ignore them until they get their shit together and rejoin society. If all we had to do was "communicate" would we need feminism? Men do not learn from communication, they learn from, force, consequence, or failure. The sooner women start enforcing boundaries against their bullshit the sooner men will either drop out or step up to our liking. The winners take all and the losers sit around with dry balls crying about feminazis on the internet.

We need to "let men be men" why? So they can terrorize and murder us? Invade some country and rape all their women and take all their shit? We're "sensitive" because they're fucking crazy and it doesn't take much at all to set them off. They're confused AF about what it means to be a man because being a man for much of history has been about raping and pillaging and we're off that. We live in the age of nuclear weapons, they need to calm the fuck down. The stakes are too high to be letting them run around monkey-braining their way through life like centuries past.

They're mad at women because they no longer have the patriarchy providing them an affirmative action bride. And yes I said affirmative action bride. A lot of these angry men would have gotten wives and lovers on a curve in years past because, women were so disenfranchised legally, socially, politically, and economically we didn't have a choice but to exchange sex or domestic labor for stability. We nope'd the fuck out of that clearly unfair exchange and now they can't deal because their concept of being a man was always based on our oppression.

I've concluded FDS is important for men to read because if they actually pay attention they'll figure out how to get the fuck over themselves and grow up to get the respect and adulation (and consistent sexual attention) from women they clearly crave. We're giving them a new blueprint to build their manhood around, they should follow it, that would be the best outcome. But of course a lot of them are just going to keep circejerking to emotional abuse tactics and patriarchal fantasy porn provided to them by the manosphere forever and wonder why they're always depressed.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2020-08-24T22:59:26+00:00

Maybe it's that more women are getting FDS "enlightened" and LVMs are getting less attention?

sexxxybae · 2020-08-24T23:47:36+00:00

Ahh yes the "you're being over sensitive." Part of femininity is sensitivity, and they talk about loving feminine women, they should be expressing their aggression with other men, because real men are gentleman and do not do that around women. These guys are full of it. I've seen maybe 1 or 2 who had decent ideas, a little more rational than the others, but even then they just complain. There are a couple that tell men that if they want a feminine woman they need to be making enough money to allow her to stay at home because a woman can't stay feminine if she has to work full time and take care of the house and kids. It takes her out of that energy. But there are some really bitter ones who I think just hate on younger guys who have their lives ahead of them. I feel like these older ones are trying to convince the younger guys not to date so that they really have all the women. Yea they can work on their hobbies and careers, but some men have admitted their lives being grey, no love nothing. Boring basically. And some of them complain about how some bipolar woman or someone with issues destroyed them, aka he fell in love with her and she left him broken. How did they fall for her if she was such a bitch tho? I don't feel bad for too many of them because in the end it looks like they liked that treatment. They liked the sex, the bitchiness, the drama etc. But you're supposed to be a big man right? so how did they fall for it? these guys are bitter and full of it. on a side note i have a friend who is back and forth with his ex, i have to believe it's a sex thing, he's no angel but she cheated on him awhile ago. I don't feel bad for him, at this point i lost respect for him. she dangles him back and forth, this is what they like.

ontherailstoday · 2020-08-25T02:54:58+00:00

I think a lot of dudes are feeling the frustrations of the various social distancing and lockdown measures. The sensible ones have probably done some combination of partially giving up for the moment with different methods of finding new contacts and increased attention to the few contacts that are made. The dumb ones are just pushing on with their usual and then when that works even less well than normal, deciding there is something systematically wrong with women having freedom to choose.

It is an archetypical story. Distract from the responsibility he must take for his own actions by blaming the woman for the fact he desires her, blame her for the things he chooses to do, blame her for the consequences of what he chooses to do, blame her for the hardships of life in general, lie about his own role in everything, insist the woman must be the one to be made to pay, start making moves to apply force. Adam blaming Eve and God but not himself even a little "It was this woman thou didst give me..." or the Aesir burning Gullveig three times because with her around they desired different things to what they used to desire. Once you start looking it is a story that has elements duplicated all over the place.

Really quite appalling in the current supposedly educated times... especially considering that the majority of the still quite vital and functional older folks who die when covid is let romp free are going to be men. Guys... we're doing it mainly to save you or your dad or your grandpa, bro, the virus kills middle aged men at a much greater rate than middle aged women, calm the fuck down, stop being angry and blaming others for the hardships. Stop being worse than the actual problem, just knuckle down and help us deal with the problem.

smokeweedlovewomen · 2020-08-25T03:23:07+00:00

Yes. It makes me beyond angry. I often find myself venting about my increasing frustration with men to my SO, and despite being a great partner, he often is like- do you mean me?And I’m like hey. If you’re getting offended, there may be an issue somewhere inside you, so go ahead and talk to that therapist. No, it isn’t about you, but yes, you have to listen to educate yourself and friends around you

cleopatrasincarnate · 2020-08-25T01:17:08+00:00

yes yes i have its infecting young boys like 17 yos too

berned-out · 2020-08-25T03:59:33+00:00

I might have some insight as to why.......I noticed that all over my city (state capitol), on the railings by stoplights are stickers for this shit. New ones. Not that have been there a while, not where others put stickers. Active campaigns in their neighborhoods for their websites. I noticed it two weeks ago, mentioned that I need to hire those guys for my own business, because they can sure spread an idea. So. It's got to be intentional recruiting campaigns targeting their home areas. Of course. We always are fighting a system men are marketing to each other on how to use us up. EDIT: Probably targeting key areas to mainstream it as much as possible, probably.

plummyjellyfish · 2020-08-26T03:28:57+00:00

In my corner of the woods I'm seeing/hearing a LOT of domestic violence. In Perth, a woman was set alight by a man. In Brisbane (my city) a woman was stabbed repeatedly in the middle of the street. The couple in the apartment across from me scream like cats and dogs periodically. I've been trying to figure out which apartment they are in because it doesn't seem like anyone else is doing anything about it and I'm worried for the woman's wellbeing.

And yesterday, our apartment property manager (male) got punched in the face by some man, not sure who. The shouts and screams in the lobby freaked me out, I'm ashamed to say I didn't go to the property manager's aid. I hesitated by the door because I thought, 'well, there's nothing I can do to help except maybe get beaten and killed by whoever this scumbag is'.

Male aggression truly is a scourge that has no value in civilised society. All the fear and pain it causes isn't worth it. I couldn't bear living with a man who even raised his voice. Simply terrifying.

RamenUndergraduate · 2020-08-25T04:02:25+00:00

Those men are beyond help!

Title	Recent increase in male anger/frustration
Author	2staypresent
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Date	August 24, 2020 7:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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