Remember to treat yourself every day queens 👏

lival42 · 2020-07-18T23:26:47+00:00

To realize you can buy your own flowers is to see how your best life can begin.

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-07-19T02:22:08+00:00

Been doing it for a year straight now. Empty and replace vase with cool water as needed. Trim the ends on a diagonal for more hydration, mix flower food separate in warm water before adding to. Swear it keeps them for a whole week or longer ❤️

--wellDAM-- · 2020-07-18T23:55:01+00:00

I always buy myself flowers. I’m so good to me 😭

whiterabbit818 · 2020-07-18T21:49:45+00:00

Impulsed purchased myself 4 nights in Waikiki on a travelzoo special (fully refundable just in case) hoping a friend or fam member can come with - if not what the hell? I’ll go alone.

My LVM ex-fiancé and I were supposed to get married in Hawaii before I kicked him out a few months ago. Feelings are still raw but I draw some strength in knowing it was the right thing to do even if I am 38 & overweight and not sure if I will find someone else to marry & have children with. Anyhow, I wanted to elope in Italy but he wanted Hawaii. Hawaii & Alaska are the only states I have never been to so I said yes. Part of the reasons I had to call it off were A) imagining him getting drunk on our wedding day/night and B) planning the whole trip and ceremony with no hep from him. PRICK 🤬

skyerippa · 2020-07-19T02:51:54+00:00

Nose gay?

HoneyBouquet · 2020-07-18T21:20:55+00:00

Whether it be eating a favourite food, listening to a nice song or getting yourself a bouquet of lovely flowers - remember to treat yourself every day my sisters!!!

Just organized my day trip to Paris with my aunty for my 25th birthday.

I remember last year my narc NVM ex told me he wanted to organize a trip to Paris but backed out when I said I could only do a day trip. He wanted to "spend a few days" with me, however I said no as I thought that holidays was wife stuff. And he remarked that a day trip was a waste of money 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Cant believe I dropped hundreds on this loser and spent most of my time trapped in hotel rooms and he couldnt even be bothered to organize a day trip for me.

MissFifi1097 · 2020-07-19T04:22:01+00:00

This is sad tbh men need to do better. Maybe it’s just me, I come from a culture where it’s customary to give women flowers often.

2020-07-18T21:52:36+00:00

Noted because I LOVE putting flowers in my kitchen 💕

MissFifi1097 · 2020-07-19T02:57:28+00:00

Is it just me or it’s not very common to give women flowers in the US ?

2020-07-19T04:52:13+00:00

Men Really need to step it up. And not just buy a dozen red roses. Put some effort into it. I like seeing other types of flowers in bouquets. A little effort goes a long way.

breadandbunny · 2020-07-19T05:32:52+00:00

I have a hydrangea bush now that I planted. Men don't give a fuck about doing nice things for women.

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-07-19T03:24:17+00:00

I was going to buy myself some flowers this week actually! Saw some beautiful Lillie’s in the shop. I just need a nice vase.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-18T23:34:57+00:00

This is gorgeous!

CharTheCatMom · 2020-07-19T15:44:45+00:00

These are absolutely beautiful.

My Aunt got me into purchasing flowers. I was never a flower person, but now I buy different arrangements every week or so. I can't imagine not having them now!

Also simple additions like baths, soothing body wash, candles...they really bring a calmness and peace to my life that I would've never imagined. It really is the little things that make the biggest impact.

Abderral · 2020-07-19T22:21:20+00:00

this is important, when you treat yourself so well you unconsciously raise the bar of how well your partner treats you.

missmelissa187 · 2020-07-20T05:27:06+00:00

My ex mother in law would buy herself flowers ever week because she likes them and didn't feel the need to wait for occasions to get them from others.

FurryBellyButt0n · 2020-07-19T20:58:26+00:00

Going to order one for myself this week, thanks for the Queen inspo!

Title	Remember to treat yourself every day queens 👏
Author	HoneyBouquet
Upvotes	1133
Comments	41
Date	July 18, 2020 9:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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