One of my best friends works in the restaurant industry and sees firsthand the nightmarish dating culture of her employees in action. She's in management, but works with a lot of 16-25 year olds and holy shit I want to shake some sense into some of these girls.

Case in point. This 19/f pickmeshia (a lot of us where at that age) has starting "hooking up" with a new scrote 19/m and sure enough drama has ensured. At first, she was playing it cool that she was okay with causally having sex (they never are) and the next few days the scrote was going around telling everyone that "she's a cool girl". I've come to realize that when a scrote says a woman is a "cool girl" he is really saying "she has no boundaries and will let me have sex with no commitment or effort on my part". It's not a compliment to be called a "cool girl." After a week of this, she has inquired about starting a relationship and when he shot that down she got upset. He now has labeled her "crazy and emotional" because she cried. He confided in my best friend (his boss) that he wants to work different shifts than her because she "too emotional right now". Despite trash talking her, he's still sleeping with her and she's letting him 🙄

Moral of the story, no causal sex and reflect your behaviors if you're ever called a "cool girl."