This just makes me so sad :((

bigsquishycatface · 2020-11-15T20:46:54+00:00

reminds me of my younger self, with no self esteem :( i want to give her a huge hug and tell her horny male validation means nothing! horny men will fuck a mcchicken, you are too good for them

furstlast390 · 2020-11-15T20:46:23+00:00

Why would you put aside your hopes and dreams, a long-lasting career, and your dignity for... sex work!? I’m glad my 11-year old self would watch me get my master’s degree in developmental psychology next semester.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-11-15T20:24:57+00:00

God. I feel so sorry for her. She'll learn about life the hard way.

iggystarlust · 2020-11-15T20:46:03+00:00

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eatchickpeas · 2020-11-15T22:38:19+00:00

the thing i really hate about it all is how casual it all is. can you imagine telling someone 10 years ago you were going to create a subscription service for your nudes? that sort of stuff was reserved for porn stars, not to create an 'othering' sort of effect but in the sense that if you wanted to get into sex work you were either in it 100% or you werent. now most youtubers or streamers do a bit of onlyfans to cater for their mature fans. people will argue 'b-but shes earning money right? whats so bad about that'

those pics will be online forever, men have shown what they do to nudes in relationships so what would stop them from taking any girls nudes and sending them to her employer for her to get fired. if weird men get your real details then its over. the money is only good when you are young, the men know this but they insist on hiding that fact

skyerippa · 2020-11-15T22:04:46+00:00

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2020-11-15T22:15:22+00:00

We're slowly become an episode of Black Mirror

samina_ · 2020-11-15T21:01:22+00:00

It's so distressing seeing other girls my age do things like this. And you can't even talk to them about it because they start telling you that you suffer from 'internalized misogyny'. Like pls I just want yall to think critically about this whole 'sex work is empowering' idea. I just don't want them to fall victim to this shit, its a terrible feeling :(

BlueTul1p · 2020-11-15T20:34:32+00:00

Oh dear 😕

2020-11-16T01:29:07+00:00

Awful. I blame everyone who refers to lingerie modeling, selling blow jobs for pennies, and everything in between collectively as "sex work". The only function of the term "sex work" is to conflate the worst, most violent forms of men's sexual exploitation of women and girls, with the sexy empowerful choosy choices that privileged women have the privilege of choosing.

FFS stop telling girls that porn and prostitution are "jobs like any other". Anyone who says that this is a pro-woman position instead of a pro-rapist position is such a fucking liar.

Fujoshi-kun · 2020-11-15T22:43:19+00:00

I know so many girls like this in my grade and it’s so sad :(

2020-11-16T02:41:43+00:00

It’s a scary world to raise girls in. Thankful to be childfree, but I will try to teach my nieces and cousin as much as I can about respecting themselves and their bodies, and protecting themselves from manipulation, abuse and exploitation.

emtoots · 2020-11-16T02:26:14+00:00

Ugh remind me again how sex work is positive for women when we have minors glamorizing posting naked pics online for money before they can even drink! And crusty grown men drooling over women who are barely older than a literal child.

JiltedGroupie · 2020-11-16T10:20:11+00:00

It’s not too late for her to go to veterinary school. I hope she realizes that before she throws her future away.

Title	This just makes me so sad :((
Author	samina_
Upvotes	241
Comments	35
Date	November 15, 2020 8:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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