I was reading an unpopular opinion titled, “Anal and the ‘ass culture’ is pretty disgusting”, Now the OP didn’t mention sexual exploitation of women as a reason for thinking “ass culture” is disgusting but they did mention porn’s influence. The comments are interesting. A woman said she is tired of men asking her to do it, she said she wished men would just assume no unless the woman brings it up since it’s their butthole at risk. She is getting pushback for not being “sex positive” 🙄🙄🙄

Ladies what do you think? Should PIA be reserved for marriage? Personally I am not into it at all but even if I was I feel like it’s too degrading to just do it with your bf or worse fwb (like you are risking pain and doing all this “preparation” mostly for his pleasure when you could just have regular sex). Also men who are that into it are that way from watching porn. It’s a red flag if a dude is asking for it especially early on imo and if he pressures you after saying no drop him like a hot spoon.