When a pickme says she needs to test for “sexual compatability” before entering into a relationship with a man:

“But your logic appears to have landed you in bed with men that were bad in bed and had small packages so…🤭”

Ladies, you can vet for how “good” a man will be in bed without sleeping with him. A man’s impatience and lack of interest in getting to know you is telling you everything you need to know.

If a man tells you he needs to see if you are “sexually compatability” before being in a relationship, he is trying to manipulate you. Also, “sexual compatability” for a man NEVER means, “I want to make sure I can bring you to multiple orgasms.”

It is the mark of a selfish man. If he is healthy and even nominally attracted to you, then he will have an orgasm. It is unlikely that you will. And any many that is lazy about courting you is going to be lazy in the bedroom.

If you want to get pumped for 3 minutes and dumped, then proceed. Btw- the only men who have ever tried this on me had weird sexual fetishes that they told me about WITHOUT me sleeping with them. So it wasn’t about mutual pleasure at all.

If you need to know package size before sex, then do that without PIV. Stamina? Then walk up stairs for 10 minutes and see how he does. Selfishness? Is he stingy or asking to go 50/50?

Also, these are the women who expect your free emotional labor when it turns into a situationship. And they also get angry with you when you assert boundaries and let them know that you are not a free therapist.

It is NOT my intention to be mean. But as women we need to unlearn expecting emotional labor and “unconditional love” from other adult women. Boundaries and accountability are healthy!

And notice how Pickmes just parrot 🤡 propaganda…