I told one of my girl friends that when i am in a relationship, i still get std tests a few times a year. She said she has not gotten one and she has been in a relationship for 4 years. She said i should trust my partner.

Ummm... okay, i get it IF you are constantly checking his phone and accusing him of cheating etc... that is not good.

BUT, i really think getting std tests is important for your health. If you get an std and you do not know it, you might not be able to have kids anymore, you might get cancer, you might get aids...

Also, cheating is a possibility and it is better to make sure that you are not getting any std’s. And if you do not have any std that’s great. If you do, then he cheated on you.