FOM = female on male

Whenever you bring up that women also rape men and boys (and they certainly do, in MUCH higher numbers than many realize or will even admit to), besides the usual rebuttals of saying that "men do it more!" or "It's like saying all lives matter" or "Nowhere near the same number" or "Stop silencing women when they share their stories," I've even seen some say that bringing up the fact women also rape men and boys is taking attention away from male rapists and mentioning that women also rape is disingenuous. I mean WTF, how is that not a sexist comment? It further plays into the bigoted misandrist belief that men are inherently rapists and deflects from the fact women are also capable of rape. I hate this, anything to demonize men and further bury the fact that plenty of female rapists and sexual predators also exist.