I will be divorced on Monday

anonymaccount666 · 2019-09-19T19:33:52+00:00

Haha man ! You should be happy. You dodged a fucking nuclear bomb here, and you dodged it by the skin of the teeth !

-no alimony.
-you keep everything (your house etc).
-no kids

You avoided the humiliation of:
- having your child being raised by another male 1 out of 2 week - having your child earing your exwife being banged by other dudes in your own previous bed. Etc.

There is a risk that she change her mind before monday, so continue to play the victim card when interacting with her until everything is signed.

[deleted] · 2019-09-19T19:42:53+00:00

Dude, you dodged a bullet here! Be happy it‘s happened now, not two kids and a mortgage down the road. And the fact that you are keeping your money... common, it‘s just a breakup.

I know, it hurts and sucks, but you really, really got a good outcome here. Consider her next victim, could be a bluepiller who‘s going to learn his kids are not his, once he‘s 64.

Celebrate my friend. And if by any chance you pursue women again, only pursue them with the intention to find a mother for your kids. And never marry again!!!

swankvagabond · 2019-09-19T18:57:55+00:00

Never kill yourself for any bitch, EVER. It's not worth it.

Cheers up, man, this is the best thing you can get. Mostly men get divorce raped in family courts and forced to pay an high ridiculous amount of money in alimony and child support.

And after monday, you will start the rest of your life in your control. And for fuck's sake, don't ever get married again.

death_ray_mx · 2019-09-19T20:10:40+00:00

You are a lucky one, you caught her early (1 year of marriage), you kept the high moral ground and you get to keep your money and stuff, it just doesnt get any better than many many cases we see and hear every day. Wanna try again go for it or else take your time and think whats your next move.

[deleted] · 2019-09-19T23:26:43+00:00

Women want the wedding, not the marriage. They want a slave, not a husband.

zsera15 · 2019-09-19T23:40:03+00:00

Man all your comments really cheered me up! Thank you so much everyone!!!

Ba11d5ack · 2019-09-19T19:10:13+00:00

She says "Why do you think I was with another?" Translation = It's your fault I'm a cheating whore. A.W.A.L.T!!! I know it sucks right now, but it could have been much worse. You found out before you ended up raising his kids as your own, or she had enough time in to divorce rape you. Many divorced men would be envious of your early escape. Best wishes on your new life. Don't re-marry. AWALT, AWALT, AWALT!!!

Vaxel00 · 2019-09-19T20:21:22+00:00

This is the best thing that could have happened to you.

krisdang111 · 2019-09-19T23:12:27+00:00

Hey man. You're lucky. In my case, the alimony is 3000usd per month. Let thank sink in and thank the lord for his mercy.

henrysmyagent · 2019-09-19T23:50:08+00:00

Divorce is a red pill shoved up your ass sideways.

pharmd718 · 2019-09-19T22:52:13+00:00

You may not see it now, but I promise you that It will only get better and better....starting Monday.

betterforitall · 2019-09-19T18:51:17+00:00

Congratulations on dodging a bigger bullet.

kaydawg23 · 2019-09-19T23:53:50+00:00

AN ABSOLUTE FUCKING VICTORY! 💪

tedshreddon · 2019-09-19T19:43:32+00:00

My wife did the exact same thing. They have no morals or care for others. Pure selfishness and self-centeredness. You didn't mention any kids between you two. If none, count your blessings. The grief you feel will pass. You will find new passion and energy with hobbies and making money. The divorce is a gift dressed up as the worst thing to happen to you. I'm seven years divorced and living a drama free life. Love it!

thefudmaster · 2019-09-19T20:35:51+00:00

Light at the end of the tunnel. Best of luck in the future.

Sciguy314 · 2019-09-19T21:00:39+00:00

Man you’re lucky, you may not see it now because emotions cloud logical thinking, you are fortunate. And all killing does it end the possibility of it getting better. You’re worth more than that. Go forth young man, breathe deep, shoulder back, head up, and fucking take life by the horns and ride this bitch like you own it, cause you do!

omg_ppl_are_stupid · 2019-09-19T23:01:01+00:00

HOLY HELL! How lucky for you she showed her true colors so early. Remember!!!! She was never yours, it was just your turn.

Alexius_von_Meinong · 2019-09-19T23:03:24+00:00

It will get better.

Once you've recovered from the divorce, you will count yourself lucky that you wasted as little time as you did on this marriage, and lucky that you came out of it with most of your money intact.

alphastrike212 · 2019-09-19T18:50:24+00:00

Hard time. Stay strong, bro. Things will get better.

MiddleAgedMGTOW · 2019-09-19T18:58:51+00:00

I know from my own experience that no matter how right you are it still feels like having your guts ripped out when it ends. I can promise you that you won’t always feel like you do now. In time the pain will fade and you will be better off. So stay strong brother and come here as often as you need to.

SpiritedProgrammer · 2019-09-19T23:18:42+00:00

If she suddenly comes back and says she is pregnant get a dna test immediately .

tower-rounder · 2019-09-19T18:50:58+00:00

You may feel bad now. But welcome to freedom my brother

NoThirst · 2019-09-20T00:08:43+00:00

Congratulations.....now your job is to make sure it doesn't happen again.

Content_Not_History · 2019-09-20T00:21:45+00:00

"why do you think I was with another ?"

Because she was a cheating bitch?

Look at them - always trying to make excuses.

801735 · 2019-09-19T18:46:57+00:00

Congrats.

What's next, once you're free?

strongandhappy · 2019-09-19T19:15:11+00:00

It's the transition that sucks. We're glad you're here so you can get your head straight and rebuild your mentality stronger, with you at the center for the rest of your life. Trust us, it doesn't just get better, it gets great.

Buchwild · 2019-09-19T22:41:51+00:00

Make a lot of the positives and negatives and compare this to others going through divorces. You came out with bruises, you're a lucky one

TruePolarWanderer · 2019-09-20T01:11:11+00:00

This is the best thing that has happened to you. I was super upset 20 months ago. But this week me and my boys had a solid run of mornings with NO DRAMA OR STRESS. My wife kidnapped my kids in spring 2016 and today I have custody and we are all finally safe and happy. In time you will be way better off.

autoeroticassfxation · 2019-09-20T01:16:01+00:00

Congratulations...

"I will keep everything, even my money..."

You are one of the luckiest bastards to walk this earth.

She can't stay with a single man? Well that means she will only date cheaters. I wonder how that's going to work out for her. All I can say is, that's not your problem anymore. Bullet dodged Neo style, you didn't even get a graze.

LkTahoeNV · 2019-09-19T19:32:19+00:00

It will be better from here... sure there may be some bumps along the way - but you’re through the tough part. Head up, chest out, and GYOW my friend.

jstrockmeyer · 2019-09-19T19:40:58+00:00

Push trough! It is really worth it.

Happened the same to me, I only needed a text conversation ti get the hell out, you won't believe what awaits on the other side.

And congrats on no alimony/CS!

PS: Its not your fault, don't believe that for a second. I lost a lot of time trying to be "better" for the future, and you will see AWALT everywhere.

anti-hypergamist · 2019-09-20T01:48:19+00:00

Other than the heartache, this was the best possible outcome.

turbineseaplane · 2019-09-20T01:55:02+00:00

No need to buy any lotto tickets...

You just won the lottery

500dollarsinprizes · 2019-09-20T05:29:03+00:00

Keep crawling through the shit. You WILL thank yourself for having earned your newfound freedom.

Part of the pain is burying and mourning your misplaced expectations. You’ll find yourself lighter, once you finish the process of letting go.

Congrats, and welcome to the best part of your life.

Nathaniel66 · 2019-09-20T06:55:39+00:00

Dude, it's a WIN WIN situation! You keep your stuff and get rid of bitch. She could take half of your hard earned belongings and laugh in your face.

BitcoinBoffin · 2019-09-20T07:16:55+00:00

I realize it's going to be really hard to see it this way, but man, you just made out like Arnold Schwarzenegger in Commando getting out of that shit show without taking any lead. Well done!

KikoVonCito · 2019-09-20T01:42:12+00:00

It gets better friend. I promise.

macheagle · 2019-09-20T01:49:07+00:00

Brother, congratulations on your divorce. Use the time to rebuild yourself. Don’t get into another oneitis - go into monk mode for awhile to purge yourself of all your emotional baggage. Rebuild your self-esteem that is independent from women and your relationship “status”. Only then will your true self begin to emerge. Keep us posted!

Darmstadtium110 · 2019-09-20T02:10:35+00:00

Throw that hitch in the garbage. She does not deserve you.

On Monday after signing the papers, enjoy your new freedom!!

[deleted] · 2019-09-20T02:13:01+00:00

Congratulations

Crusader599 · 2019-09-20T03:36:39+00:00

>I will keep everything

BASED. It's ok my man, a part of you will always stay with her, because women can never outgrow their past men. But you can forget that she ever existed, move somewhere else, find a better woman, and act as if it never happened. You lost less than two years, things have set people back much farther than you and they bounced back.

MrMagtow · 2019-09-20T04:05:18+00:00

congrats on getting your life back

JamesFannin · 2019-09-20T04:54:35+00:00

Just more proof that MGTOW does indeed SAVE LIVES!

Shipbldr2000 · 2019-09-20T04:56:32+00:00

Feel like shit?

Hell buddy, YOU WON!

You danced with the devil and you are walking away intact.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-09-20T05:15:06+00:00

LOL...! You have forgiven her? She lives in the reverse world, man. Forgiven means you haven't forgiven her. But it doesn't matter in the end, sign that paper and get the hell out. Never bother with this crazy bitch again. You're lucky it's only been one year. You should be thinking how you can enjoy your life without her nagging, taking time and energy from you.

Hot5oup · 2019-09-20T05:35:07+00:00

Hurts like hell but it’s good you’re grateful you didn’t lose everything. Focus on you and the pain will subside.

Thatweirdguy22 · 2019-09-20T05:55:12+00:00

Enjoy the freedom for the rest of your exciting adventurous life. Congratulations.

na9791 · 2019-09-20T08:43:58+00:00

That first red pill always tastes the worst. But as more time passes you realize that bad taste is medicine. Go your own way and live it bold.

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-09-19T19:11:10+00:00

OP. To help you set free: explain me, like I'm a six year old, the difference between this and setting your garbage at the side walk on garbage day.

throw-away-140214 · 2019-09-19T19:20:06+00:00

"why do you think I was with another ?"

Because you lack self-control and self-discipline.

JihadNinjaCowboy · 2019-09-19T20:02:49+00:00

Actually it was the BEST thing that happened to you. The WORST thing would be if you were married to her for 11 years, and she got alimony, half or more of your property, and excessive child support.

I wish I had only been married one year.

JUST REMEMBER. AWALT means All Women Are Like That. Some are just better at hiding it for longer.

mightymigtow · 2019-09-19T20:10:44+00:00

Yep, this sounds like a favourable outcome to me.

If you are of the disposition that this went really badly, I would advise to never go near another woman again, Cuz you are gonna end up hanging from a rope.

[deleted] · 2019-09-19T22:04:29+00:00

Congratulations!! I don’t know how you get to keep everything but boy you won!!!

z31fanatic · 2019-09-19T22:15:22+00:00

It's actually the opposite. This is one of the best things that happened in your life. You caught her early and ended it right away.

Now you will be much better prepared for your future.

kubicas · 2019-09-19T23:54:07+00:00

You ended up really well tbh. Feeling like shit is normal but please never kill yourself. I don't know If you believe in god but If you don't find solace in him then seek solace with the abandoned one, the light bearer, the one who understands abandonment and betrayal. Align with your inner beast, primal you and be proud of yourself!

delongpike · 2019-09-20T01:25:58+00:00

You are BY FAR the better person in this scenario.She was not worth your time and efforts. Luckily you learned early on that she has nothing to offer to you - or anyone else for that matter.

Opportunity is now at your door. You can make your life whatever you wish! If the depression continues for more than a couple of weeks after the papers are signed - go see your doctor. And go out to dinner after the divorce, somewhere nice, and buy yourself a nice gift. Take a friend and enjoy their company. Harming yourself does nothing worth while in the end and will only hurt the family members you love. Stay occupied and remind yourself several times daily you are very much of value.

Remember, this woman is going to be texting you and will at some point try to win you back. Ignore her, deny her any contact. Be done with her.

Keep your chin up! You won!

[deleted] · 2019-09-20T04:02:09+00:00

Sounds like victory! Enjoy your space, and take it easy.

yettymonkey · 2019-09-20T11:48:29+00:00

Please for the love of God don't rock the boat.... You are getting to keep everything!!!!! With all of those resources you can and WILL REBUILD. It's going to take some time and its going to hurt/suck but its what needs to be done. Read the sidebar and FOCUS ON YOU. Meditate, workout, and fulfill your dreams!

writefromwork · 2019-09-20T13:15:53+00:00

In time you will realize how fortunate you were to escape with all you worked for. The person you fell in love with didn't really exist. She created a persona, a lure to draw you in.

You didn't have a child with this woman. She will not have a hold over you for the next two decades. Once she signs the divorce go not contact and ignore any and every attempt she will make to reenter you life. Rest assured such a fool will try to comeback especially when her looks and figure have completely depreciated and no one will have her.

By the little you have shared of her and her behavior she sounds like a narcissist. Look up the behavior, especially for covert narcissist. I was married to such a creature. There is no reasoning with them. There is nothing genuine about such a person. They thrive on the pain and suffering they inflict on those they should hold most dear. If you find that your former wife matches such behavior patterns consider yourself lucky that she found sport elsewhere and that you have escaped at little cost.

berite1day · 2019-09-20T13:58:31+00:00

Man, I'm so happy for you. You will heal and she will find another sucker to suck the life out of. Go through the pain, you'll be grateful for it in the end. And last but not least, don't touch the fucking stove a second time. It's hot, it will be hot, it's always been hot.

HotAndColdSlaw · 2019-09-20T14:16:41+00:00

I understand that you have taken a big hit here, and you have lost a lot of trust and money and time and energy etc.

But, it was only 1 year. You have no kids from the relationship (I guess). You got off rather cheaply.

Now, you can think about yourself, for yourself and go forward and make your own life as you want.

AvailableGuava · 2019-09-20T15:09:30+00:00

a year from now you will see just how lucky you are,

JayJayEcks · 2019-09-20T16:57:39+00:00

Doesn't it feel good to Payless?

You know why divorce costs so much?

Cause its worth it!

Fuzi0z · 2019-09-20T17:13:06+00:00

Well no 1 said. Congrats you are free again

jackalhead · 2019-09-21T01:53:23+00:00

How did you manage to dodge alimony, child support and losing your home?

markhamONT · 2019-09-21T13:53:56+00:00

It’s your fault, it’s my fault, I’m not sorry, not sorry, I can’t change, you change, don’t ever change: Chaos.

Title	I will be divorced on Monday
Author	zsera15
Upvotes	371
Comments	78
Date	September 19, 2019 6:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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