Why get married?

U-94 · 2020-02-04T11:25:50+00:00

What is interesting there are replies where they say she doesn't owe him sex.

So tell me... Does he owe her money then if there is no sex?

And even more shocking is she would be thrilled to have an open marriage. It's all right there guys. Yet she wants him to keep providing.

So why bother?

rocko20002 · 2020-02-04T11:54:22+00:00

Women: I don't have to sleep with you even if we're married! That's rape!

Also women: you can't get erect? Either you take your Viagra and satisfy my urges or I'm leaving you for the hot poolboy!

Or at least that's my impression of ads for both testosterone supplements and erectile dysfunction. They're not made as much for the men as for the women these men are associated with. Even when it comes to sex, women can demand it while men can't.

usrname001 · 2020-02-04T11:38:25+00:00

“You don’t owe him sex. If anything he owes you respect.” lol

Phantom_Spark · 2020-02-04T12:28:52+00:00

I love the expression on men’s faces when you explain this to them. They don’t want to admit that sex dries you after marriage and your only role is to pay her bills. LOL.

However sometimes when I take a cab, the guy starts a conversation off going full MGTOW. These men come from different countries and living here they see it’s all the same game and many can’t be bothered.

Men are withholding commitment because we already understand women aren’t offering anything. That’s why pump and dump is so popular. That’s honestly one of the last things women are offering.

hrm0894 · 2020-02-04T12:37:05+00:00

I don't want to pay for your housing, food, utilities, or clothing. I just don't want to.

ValhallaWillCome · 2020-02-04T14:19:23+00:00

A post from her on r/adultery:

Why are we here?

We're here because we're trapped in the gulag of monogamy. We're here because unwanted sex is forced labor. We're here because learned helplessness caused us to swear exclusivity to another human. We're here because our partners won't accept who we are. We're here because a mistake made 20 years ago shouldn't be a life sentence. We're here because we love our kids too much to leave. We're here because capitalism has destroyed housing availability. We're here because we believe that romantic love is a state we all deserve to partake in. We're here because we might drown in loneliness otherwise.

Unwanted sex is forced labor? Wtf do you think his money taking care of them both is?

I can't leave him right now with no negative ramifications for the kids.

I'm willing to bet she's one of those gender study graduates that hasn't ever gotten past a part time Starbucks job after graduating and he hasn't paid back her college debts (yet). Ungrateful cunt.

Car_Racer · 2020-02-04T12:44:43+00:00

I don’t have much sympathy for the husband. He married a radical feminist.

CutterPillar · 2020-02-04T11:51:58+00:00

Guess the reaction if roles were reversed.

ShugokisMoobies · 2020-02-04T12:56:55+00:00

I don’t want anything to do with women at this time or ever again.

Zachjsrf · 2020-02-04T14:07:10+00:00

This is a marital duty and part of your job as a woman or man is to fuck your s/o whenever and wherever they want. Period

GenericOscout · 2020-02-04T14:19:44+00:00

heck 2 years into marriage I could see there being no sex in the bed rooms.

Grant1412 · 2020-02-04T15:28:55+00:00

Marriage is a commitment to life long devotion to one lover. Woman cannot do that, they do not have the capacity.

https://www.reddit.com/r/adultery/comments/3mydvq/women_how_many_of_you_have_pretty_decent_husbands/

The only woman who is potentially capable of a commitment to life long devotion to one lover, is one who was a virgin when you started a relationship with her and has never had sex with anybody else except you. But even if she does have the capacity for life long devotion to one lover, doesn't mean she wont cheat.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/es2nq6/signs_that_shes_cheating_on_you_or_about_to/ff8doa5/

Jaooooeee · 2020-02-04T14:20:26+00:00

The open mariage thing holy shit i really hope the worst for her in life

five_eight · 2020-02-04T14:33:45+00:00

He might feel the same at this point. Either win/win or lose/lose. What a nightmarish existence. This shit makes me feel so grateful. Right now I can either get dressed and go for a swim. Or flop back in bed. Or anything else I feel like.

civcinco · 2020-02-04T16:35:41+00:00

To be fair we don't know if the guy gained 100lbs and never takes a shower and has old sandwiches stuck between his folds of flab.

We men have to do our part its not just open up our wallets. it's stay in shape; groom ourselves; smell good; dress nice; positive attitude. don't do it for a chick do it for yourself and the chicks will follow if that's what you're looking for. sometimes you don't even have to open your wallet.

hillbilly_mgtow · 2020-02-04T14:15:03+00:00

Women.are.mad.retarded.sometimes.

Obermarschall · 2020-02-04T14:36:15+00:00

Ok, if she doesn't want to have sex with him, he should get it from another woman. BUT I guess he will be 'cheating asshole' 'abuser' etc.

GuiltyEngineer · 2020-02-04T15:23:24+00:00

Typical women type of rant.

What makes me giggle is that she doesnt understand he will fuck on side or divorce here cause kids are probably school age by now.

She really doesnt have to give him sex but he really doesnt need to tolerate it so its a win win

Rottinghere · 2020-02-04T15:48:23+00:00

For any lurkers here (and I know there are more than a few), what goes through your mind when you read posts from women like this? Do you still see marriage as being a viable, healthy option for men?

If so, how? Why?

silly_birb · 2020-02-04T15:01:08+00:00

I bet if he says no to pay her alimony she would disagree

PhineasC · 2020-02-04T20:23:43+00:00

From a comment in that thread:

I understand that, but it's important to keep in mind that while empathy is a good thing, it's part of male socialization to not reciprocate empathy even when they're given it.

Because there's so much empathy in that thread - look at all the posts trying to see things from his point of view. There are so many of th- ... wait, no there isn't.

2020-02-04T16:40:02+00:00

"for the kids" aka money. She can't squeeze him now so she's gonna wait a bit.

I-will-not-serve · 2020-02-04T17:17:20+00:00

Just another in a never-ending list of post-wall, solipsistic females that will end up alone with her children resenting her because she wants to chase tingles.

peepeeandpoopooman · 2020-02-04T17:28:35+00:00

Why get married to him? So he can buy her expensive jewellery and take her on expensive holidays probably.

PipBoyTInkerer · 2020-02-04T17:34:11+00:00

"I have everything I need from this man, including half of everything he'll ever earn, so I shouldn't have to fuck him anymore"

pangolin001 · 2020-02-04T18:17:48+00:00

The children are always the excuse for whatever a nasty parent wants to implement.

She's painting the picture that the kids would suffer if she left. Well, we all know she doesn't mean she's going to leave the kids with him. So what she's really saying is that if she left, with the kids, she'd be broke (and therefore the kids would be broke), at least until all the divorce stuff was done, and she's not quite ready to pull the trigger on that yet. Probably because the kids would be constantly asking "why can't daddy live with us?" "Why did you leave daddy?" (this was my story growing up).

There's nothing wrong with her man and I'm sure he's the main breadwinner. She feels 'oppressed' simply because she's bored and he doesn't give her the feelz anymore. And because she doesn't have the feelz, she's coming pretty close to calling him a rapist because she doesn't really want to fuck him but she knows if she completely cuts him off, he may just go find it somewhere else which puts her financial status at risk again.

She's doing the bare minimum while continuing to expect him to continue fulfilling all of his responsibilities. She fucking yada, yada, yada's over the 'backstory' because there's nothing to report except she's bored and some minor quirks of the husband drives her absolutely insane. She probably sees red when he accidentally slups his coffee 3 times a week.

A man can be bored without hating his wife. When a wife is bored, she wants him fucking dead.

Rex-Holes · 2020-02-04T18:32:15+00:00

negative ramifications for the kids

Becuase conniving, emotional games, and deciet among the family are so much healthier...

RevolutionaryPea7 · 2020-02-04T19:16:19+00:00

I don't have a problem with people having long term relationships. It can be good and frequent, easy sex with someone you find attractive is great. But why the fuck would anyone sign a contract that says you're not free to leave when this kind of shit happens? And that's not even the worst part about the marriage contract. She can decide to leave at any moment for no reason. It honestly beggars belief how any man of sound mind could think it's a good idea to sign.

teelolws · 2020-02-04T19:33:32+00:00

Curious if anyone suggested she hire him a hooker, and what the reaction was. I can probably guess what the reaction would be.

flibbidy_floob · 2020-02-04T19:38:14+00:00

It's like buying a lifetime subscription to a product you know will go obsolete in a few years.

MGTOWManofMystery · 2020-02-04T19:52:25+00:00

So many marriages end up like this. Just check out the dead bedroom subreddit. Marriage kills libido. There are absolutely zero incentives for modern Western men to even consider marriage.

fuckoffplsthankyou · 2020-02-04T20:14:33+00:00

I remember when my wife told me she didn't want to sleep with me anymore. Gut punch. The way she said it. With a sneer. I knew it was over.

There's no reason for a man to marry. I thought I had a unicorn and I did everything I could and really didn't get anything back. Finally learned my lesson.

ThanksTedBell · 2020-02-04T20:46:22+00:00

She is one of the kids

HungryBrain1 · 2020-02-04T23:12:52+00:00

Lazy useless whore. He’s paying and she’s not providing the service he took her in for.

jackstorm79 · 2020-02-05T05:16:23+00:00

It's females like this that make me look around my house and think do I watch another 1940s movie or do I play some video games or do I goto bed? I answer to me and only me and no female in my life trying to dictate anything I say or do. This chick is a horrible person and is very me me me and the quicker that guy leaves this witch the better. But sadly he'll be the one that gets raked over the coals when it all goes down cuz modern society has this female good male always bad mindset about it.

badgerninjacow · 2020-02-04T19:11:26+00:00

Conjugal rights were abolished in all states over 25 years ago. So legally, she doesn’t owe him sex.

escalover · 2020-02-04T17:24:27+00:00

What men are repulsing men at record rates.

downzeitor · 2020-02-04T18:43:10+00:00

this reminds me of u/FreezyArigato 's friend.
Hey dude, this could be your friend's future with that thot that said "he is safe"...

mind him that.

washingtonpanther · 2020-02-04T18:47:19+00:00

Again, I'll just link this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ul-cZyuYq4

blaizken_420 · 2020-02-04T20:33:53+00:00

So she can milk him

Devilarms14 · 2020-02-05T00:25:20+00:00

Typo: She said for the kids instead of for herself. Dumb bitch

pentin0 · 2020-02-05T09:53:27+00:00

Of course, we are to understand that "the kids" refers to her and only her 😉

fuckallwhitesheep2 · 2020-02-04T17:35:54+00:00

Curiosity killed the cat. Had to check out this sub and ya. What a collection of worthless flesh. Nothing multable colored hair cunt telling me what it's supposed gender is. Fuck your gender and fuck your political view because it's just as FUCKED!

Altro83 · 2020-02-04T20:15:24+00:00

17 years of you have no idea how her life has gone with the fella. Some of you are acting like dicks just for the sake of hating a woman.

Title	Why get married?
Author	NamasteFelicia
Upvotes	625
Comments	164
Date	February 4, 2020 11:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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