All men should NOT Marry

BitterDivorcedDad · 2010-09-08T18:17:26+00:00

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icky_boo · 2010-09-08T18:27:49+00:00

To marry or not to marry don't mean shit in Australia once you live with a woman for a year because the law sees you as a de facto couple which gives alot of protection and laws like a legally married couple. Either way men are screwed here, this is also the case for quite a few countries like Canada and America (some states). I believe its called common-law marriage

SnakeJG · 2010-09-08T19:48:36+00:00

Getting married was the best choice of my life.

You should not get married just because society says you should, or just because you've been with someone for a certain amount of time or have moved in together. You shouldn't marry someone spiteful, mean spirited, or selfish. You shouldn't marry someone who spends money like it is going out of style. But if you can find someone who works well with you, who you love, who will be an equal partner through life, and who is just generally awesome, marriage is great.

I hate how MensRights sometimes devolves into women hating. Men and women are just people. Some people are great, some people are horrible and neither gender has a monopoly on being one group or the other.

The common factor in all of your dysfunctional relationships is you. If you've never had a positive relationship with a women, you are at least partially at fault. Look closely at how you treat your partners or how you pick them.

Pocketcup · 2010-09-09T00:27:07+00:00

The first argument brought up at least 5 times in this article point to women only being after money. Sure, there may be some women like that but there are also plenty that are not.

The second main argument is that women want to crush their husbands hopes and dreams. Seriously? Firstly it's not going to be deliberate in most cases - you wouldn't marry someone with the intention of making them unhappy. Secondly, we all have decisions to make and being in a relationship means considering their wife and kids. Just like for a wife, being in that relationship means considering their husband and kids. If you aren't willing to make those compromises then yes, you shouldn't be in a relationship regardless of whether you are a man or a woman. However there is so much to gain from a loving relationship, so you have to decide what's more important to you.

The third thing I take issue with is that the poster implies that he shouldn't need to pay child support. Maybe sometimes the amounts are unfair, and if that is the case I see the point, but why shouldn't both parents be equally involved in the upbringing of their kids?

If you really have this hatred for marriage then maybe it is best you don't marry. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone that resented me.

Redfel · 2010-09-09T03:02:01+00:00

Is it possible to be with a woman for a decade or longer and not be considered legally married?

tomek77 · 2010-09-08T18:34:20+00:00

I'm glad the MR's movement hasn't devolved into a purist ideology that encourages a single lifestyle for all men just like the feminists of the '60 endorsed a one-size-fits-all life for women!

happybachelors · 2010-09-08T18:47:59+00:00

This is an article for all men going their own way and shun marriages... at least not getting that government marriage certificate.

tancend3d · 2010-09-08T23:03:47+00:00

Most men are confusing the argument. It's not about saying NO to relationships. It's about saying NO to the feminist state marriage contract which is very different from a functional relationship with a woman.

You can have a great relationship with a woman WITHOUT dooming yourself by entering into a business contract with the feminist state. That's the key point.

http://manhood101.com/principles101.pdf

liberal_texan · 2010-09-08T23:00:17+00:00

The only legitimate reason I can see to marry is that deciding not to can severely limit which women will consider a relationship with you.

melb22 · 2010-09-08T21:56:06+00:00

I agree that marriage is being reconfigured, and society is being reconfigured, in ways that are likely to make marriage increasingly less relevant and appealing to men.

Even so, I married eight years ago and am glad I did so. A good marriage is a great blessing in life, even though it does require sacrifices, work and commitment.

I like being a husband and father. I like the fact that my family depends on me for its well-being. I like the fact that I'm raising some well-adjusted children to carry on my tradition.

Yes, divorce laws are a major issue. But it's not the case that every marriage is equally at risk of divorce. Some marriages have an 80% chance, some only a 20% chance depending on your circumstances in life. Until we get the divorce laws reformed the best thing to do is to make sure you're in the 20% category and not in the 80%.

A marriage strike will not greatly help the men's movement, not when Western women can so easily replace us with men from abroad. Better to lead in relationships and to be politically active for reform.

ilovebackne · 2010-09-08T18:53:32+00:00

mens rights= painting woman in a horrible light. your no better then the feminist aka "man haters" you despise so much.

Liverotto · 2010-09-09T01:23:42+00:00

Isn't it remarkable that by the time gay men can marry, straight men no longer can?

skooma714 · 2010-09-09T04:38:48+00:00

Wait wait, I have a choice?

Scribblenerd · 2010-09-08T18:47:19+00:00

Ah, but who will care for you when you're old and sick? Who will donate a body part in an attempt to keep you alive? Who will push your wheelchair when you can't walk? And who will warm your bed every night through it all?

tancend3d · 2010-09-08T22:34:28+00:00

The problem is not the exposing of the hypocrisy of feminism. There are many sites and resources dedicated to doing exactly that night and day. But time and time again, they fail to DO anything about it other than to tout the snail's pace legal system "victories" (oh look! today we won a victory for men. now we're allowed to manscape our eyebrows on tuesdays AND fridays. yay for men's rights.)

It's not enough to expose hypocrisy. That's like a nerd who gets his milk money stolen by bullies every day going around polling other nerds to make sure he has enough evidence to say he's on the moral high ground.

Who the fuck cares about the moral high ground if it's located in the toilet?

Sure men are victims of feminism today. But unlike women, they can't do anything about it other than whine about unfair conditions, legal hypocrisies, unfair treatment, etc. Yeah we get it.

But even though a lot of these men on here are more informed about their rights being stolen or in jeopardy, still 99.9% of them are UNABLE TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT PRACTICALLY. They STILL cower in front of women. They STILL feel like it's a privilege to talk to women. They STILL defer and cater to women. Look at all the faggot mangina white knights that are so fucking spineless, they let WOMEN run a MEN'S RIGHTS REDDIT. That is the epitome of embarrassment. Men are fucking cowardly faggots in this reddit. Fucking sackless faggots with pussies between their legs who don't have the spine to stand up for themselves.

For all the talk about men standing up for themselves, I have yet to see a man show some fucking spine.

Ever see a Marc Rudov youtube video? For a guy who boasts about handling women, he sounds like a hen-pecked husband on any of the newscasts where he's pitted against some feminist cunt. And the comments from manginas are telling: "oh he sure told her"... NO HE DIDN'T FUCKFACE. He didn't do SHIT. All he did was state facts and expose the hypocrisy of the feminist position. But practically speaking, even though the bitch sitting next to him was dead wrong, she RAN THE SHOW. She was the one in charge of the interview. She was the one causing Rudov to constantly defend his behavior and views. Not once does Rudov stand up for himself and say: "SHUT UP CUNT."

Sure he can't use 4 letter words on TV, but the point is, he never has the spine to call on a bitch on her behavior. Instead, like most manginas, all he does is try to JUSTIFY HIMSELF TO WOMEN. This is an epidemic in men's rights. It's as if men are constantly worried about being wrong, constantly worried about having their facts, figures and arguments in order. Do you think the yapping bitch fighting Rudov was worried about her accuracy? FUCK NO. She was just busy making Rudov look like a fucking clown. That's because she wasn't worried about justifying herself to Rudov. She had won the argument before she even started fighting him.

And this is what most pussified manginas fail to grasp. When dealing with women, being right is highly IRRELEVANT.

Being IN CHARGE is the only crucial factor when dealing with women. Look at how the women deal with manginas when confronted with facts and logic. These bitches simply point to the man's behavior or try to shame them. Instead of arguing over the actual merit of the argument, suddenly the man finds himself arguing about HOW to argue. He's accused of being a "troll" (the favorite tactic of these cunts), he accused of being unoriginal, he's accused of making the woman feel bad, he's shamed about HOW he talks to women, his sexuality and sexual prowess are called into question, he's shamed about his relationship with his mother, he's shamed about his grammar, education and social status, etc.

And what do the manginas do? What they do best--PANIC. They try to dig for more facts and figures. They try to come up with better reasons and sound logic. They try to come up with the best justifications and excuses for their behavior. They continually kneel before women like scared little puppies, BEGGING for forgiveness, BEGGING for approval, BEGGING for permission. But they completely fail to realize that women are not moved by logic. They don't care about reason. No matter how many justifications and excuses you have, they aren't going to accept them and start cheering you on. Women could give 2 fucks about rational & reasonable replies.

Women care about WHO THE FUCK IS IN CHARGE.

Manginas care about JUSTIFYING themselves to women.

Enough with the faggotry already. Look, you have all the stats, logic, facts and figures on your side. The hypocrisy is readily apparent for anyone willing to do honest objective research. So to think that more reason and debate is what's called for is fucking naive as hell.

What's called for is a SET OF BALLS. It's time to STOP arguing with women. It's simply time to put your foot down where your spine should be and start telling women to: SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP. If you must argue, at least argue with MEN, stop wasting your time humoring women with your intelligence. Not only is it completely retarded, it's counterproductive to actually changing bitch behavior.

Simple.

Stop citing stats. Stop pointing to links. Stop trying to reason with women. Any man who tries to reason with a woman without FIRST having her respect his authority is a fucking FOOL. Listening is a skill developed from self-discipline. Women lack self-discipline because very few men in their lives will ever have the balls to tell them NO. If you can't tell a woman NO, it doesn't really matter how right you are or how reasonable you are. Just like children don't respond to calculus proofs to change their behavior, neither will women respond to a series of well thought out arguments and govt. supported facts just because they make the most sense. You are living in a dream world if you think women will be swayed by all these reasonable arguments. And you are fucking stupid if you think it hasn't already been tried a billion times over.

Women respond to guys who have the balls to tell them NO. Stop acting like a whiney fag BEGGING women to listen to you. Start acting like a man. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ppd6LHfhkd0 http://manhood101.com/principles101.pdf

Title	All men should NOT Marry
Author	happybachelors
Upvotes	57
Comments	114
Date	September 8, 2010 5:47 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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