Finally some sanity

leftajar · 2020-09-15T02:17:57+00:00

I bought a sandwich from Subway the other day. It was dry, and flavorless, and I regretted buying it. However, that doesn't mean the Subway employee tackled me on the sidewalk and force-fed me a sandwich.

Battleship1239 · 2020-09-14T21:33:19+00:00

Finally, not another "He ToUcHeD yUo SuE hIm" poster

Neveah_Hope_Dreams · 2020-09-15T01:42:47+00:00

Thankyou! It's not that hard to grasp.

StingRayFins · 2020-09-15T05:27:51+00:00

Also makes no sense to me how you can "change your mind" and it can suddenly become a crime.

What if I, a man, regrets it as well because she decided to change her mind and accuse me of "raping" her? Will that count?

I thought she was 100% able to consent and meant it but turned out she wasn't... And I regret trusting her.

It's like your college sending you a letter and demanding your diploma back because they decided you failed three courses that you "passed" last year and now you don't have enough credit to keep it... And you have to oblige AND pay fees because you're using an illegal fake diploma.

gorix2 · 2020-09-15T05:22:26+00:00

Awesome!

We can make another one:

"He doesn't call you anymore?

No, don't call the Rape crisis center...you know it wasn't rape."

annierosewood · 2020-09-15T11:15:16+00:00

My favorite is when they say the woman couldn't give proper consent because she was drunk. But no one ever says anything if the man was drunk. So she gets a pass because she was drinking but he doesn't?

That argument drives me crazy because it's the opposite of the empowerment that today's women are chasing. It says women are weaker than men and can't handle their alcohol. Doesn't it? Feminists aren't very smart.

JoeRoses · 2020-09-15T03:41:07+00:00

While most men that get falsely accused don't get convicted, they still loose their social reputation. So great job. 💙

Or those women just need to learn to be kind to all.

Nerfixion · 2020-09-15T08:18:34+00:00

To be honest this is a pointless poster, this doesnt really send the right message, as the women who do this shit dont care. They know it's wrong they just lack empathy.

japanese-bo1 · 2020-09-15T10:39:06+00:00

im so used to seeing feminist bullshit that i was confused for a second here

Kryto-Kun · 2020-09-14T20:35:16+00:00

This should be gender-neutral, but I agree with the message lol.

DiamondDiggler · 2020-09-15T07:21:12+00:00

This is pretty much why majority of rape cases doesn't even make it to the court.

It's mostly women trying to save their face from being one-nighted or money hungry criminals.

Starmind0 · 2020-09-15T05:33:38+00:00

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whosthatcreep · 2020-09-15T08:28:18+00:00

Sadly not a real campaign poster, but a parody by avfm

memelack · 2020-09-15T12:06:40+00:00

I have never seen this, it's amazing

JoeRoses · 2020-09-15T09:42:14+00:00

💙Men are beautiful and valuable human beings, and Women would not exist if it wasn't for both working together. 💙

We are capable of doing the same things a Woman can.

We are not restricted to male stereotypes or anything toxic in nature, and all men have the same confidence level Women do.

Our lives are free. Just like a Woman.

Men and Women were made to be ONE.

Men have hearts too means MEN HAVE HEARTS TOO.

Men have a right to be innocent means MEN HAVE A RIGHT TO BE INNOCENT.

A man's sexual thoughts are not any different than woman's.

Love is Love.

By Femboys Matter, we mean we matter TOO if you're curious on what it means. We support men and women both, we are just filling in the gaps so men have their chance also as much as women do.

💙Do not ever underestimate that. 💙

Be kind to all.

-TheThrone- · 2020-09-15T01:34:18+00:00

TALK TO EM

odelio · 2020-09-15T04:22:30+00:00

I did some research on rape and there are common misconceptions that men and women need to be educated in really badly:

1) It's actually really surprisingly common for rape victims to dissociate. That means that they can't fight back or resist the rape. It's as if their spirit leaves their body and they aren't even there to resist.

2) There's the flight and fight response. But a very common response to danger is freezing. Women and men often freeze when raped. Also, this causes the appearance of a consent, but they were frozen due to the three Fs. Freeze, flight or fight. Men may not realize how afraid she was and take not resisting as agreeing.

3) Women are much more likely to black out than men are from alcohol. Black out doesn't mean unconscious. It means you don't remember what happened. You can be giving a speech, dancing, and black out. Women may assume she was incapacitated because she has no memory and accuse you of rape based on that assumption.

Jesus_marley · 2020-09-14T23:14:15+00:00

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JoeRoses · 2020-09-15T08:58:01+00:00

Men are human beings, and can express themselves too, can say no to sex, don't have to be held accountable, and have the same sexual thoughts as women do, and are more closer to women than we think. #FemboysMatter

sportsdude523 · 2020-09-15T04:57:04+00:00

Edit: I suppose I need to explain more clearly. This is not a "women are special fairies that men must praise and give special standards to because women" comment. This is a this is the current reality of the world, and we would do better to let men know this (the lack of self-agency in women out there, therefore resulting in a rape accusation even if they do say "yes"). Yes, it's dumb that it happens. But if you want to protect yourself from a rape accusation, if she's saying "yes", but the body language and tone says "no", then don't proceed, in order to protect yourself from an accusation.

I want to add another dimension to this:

I think a core issue is that society teaches women they have no self-agency. So because of that, even though she might agree to the intercourse, she genuinely feels raped because society has told her since day 1 she has no self-agency to make her own choices and in effect, conditions her to cave to and act like she is into another person's desires. Or the lack of self-agency teaches her to be overly sensitive to the point that she thinks anything sounds like pressure to have sex, when it's not actually someone trying to pressure her, therefore saying 'yes', but genuinely still feeling raped.

Society needs to teach self-agency to women, so she actually says what she wants, and we don't end up in situations where she says "yes" but ends up truly feeling she was raped.

On the other hand, we need to teach men to understand this. Because the way the world should be (people speaking thier mind), is different form what it is (explained above). So to avoid this situation, it's useful to teach men there are women that are this way, so scan the body language and tone, and based on that don't continue intercourse even though she said "yes", to avoid any sort of bad situations/court where from one side says it is rape, while the other side says "I don't get it, she said yes."

2020-09-15T20:43:00+00:00

incredible how many rapists liked this

odelio · 2020-09-15T14:26:56+00:00

Me being downvoted so much and people saying what I said isn't relevant.

I'm just outlining situations where the man could believe he's falsely accused, but from the woman's perspective it's rape.

These situations are the most common actually. If you check the online forums for rape victims, they froze and so they weren't sure if it's rape because they didn't fight back.

I see these types of comments constantly on these rape victim forums.

That I got down voted so much just shows how unreasonable most of you are, and most likely are rapists. Everytime I see this sub you are mostly unreasonable in so many comments and responses.

kkwoopsie · 2020-09-15T02:41:49+00:00

Except that the incident of false reporting is incredibly low while the rate of people being raped... pretty fucking high. What good does it do to flip a paradigm you don’t like, especially in a context that excludes the possibility of male victims? This is gross from top to bottom.

82many4ceps · 2020-09-15T05:34:16+00:00

Yall think rape accusations come from bad sex? Why aren’t you all jailed yet?

Kalamanga1337 · 2020-09-15T09:31:35+00:00

While I agree with the idea, the poster sends a wrong message. It says "it's your fault that you got raped", not "falsely accusation of rape is bad"

Title	Finally some sanity
Author	sohum-the-KAWI-boi
Upvotes	3265
Comments	115
Date	September 14, 2020 7:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/issd39/finally_some_sanity/
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