Purposeful Impregnation

thatusenameistaken · 2024-07-28T00:37:22+00:00

paternity test stat.

the crazy that would do this would 100% get railed raw by randoms because she sees you as a wallet.

LiveComfortable3228 · 2024-07-28T00:37:21+00:00

How is that not the equivalent of stealthing?

BoomBoom4209 · 2024-07-27T23:21:23+00:00

Christ on a bike... What a situation.

Lawyer up bud.

DrewYetti · 2024-07-28T01:45:45+00:00

She did what?! Nah she abused your trust and denied your autonomy. This does happen a lot but like usual there is always skepticism, disbelief and ridicule because men are told to “keep it in their pants” as women can do no wrong. It’s also one of the reasons why women end up being single mothers.

mrkanu · 2024-07-28T04:05:33+00:00

There is a high probability that she is bluffing and she may be carrying someone else's child. Disbelieve her and try asking for a pre-emptive paternity test. Better maybe you can bluff about you being sterile and disown the foetus and see her reaction. Her reaction would probably give some important clues. But you should not discount her going through your social media feeds and she may well be aware of you seeking advice on reddit. You should definitely talk to a lawyer as others have advised. If this incident can be proven in the court of law this could serve as a seed for more fundamental changes with the law.

OkSundae3514 · 2024-07-27T23:09:00+00:00

I would consult with a lawyer to explore my options of a possible civil suit

Ouroboros_Anima · 2024-07-28T04:53:47+00:00

Wow, absolutely disgusting. If she wrote this to you or mentioned in text, please keep for proof and immediately get legal help. I'm so sorry she did this to you and abused your trust.

Frird2008 · 2024-07-28T00:07:12+00:00

Jesus Christ on a motorbike chowing down chicken fried rice.

Lawyer up.

SomeoneRandom007 · 2024-07-28T00:00:57+00:00

I believe that is a correct statement of the law.

Affectionate-Yard899 · 2024-07-28T02:29:44+00:00

In uk?

I don't know about the laws but I'm pretty sure since you are a man you'll be guilty until proven

I found out a liberal party came in power there too , so i think the laws are going to be worse , wanting to move out from india but don't know where to go where atleast the laws aren't misandrist

officer_shnitzel_69 · 2024-07-28T03:10:05+00:00

The absolute state of modern women

mzbc · 2024-07-28T04:34:04+00:00

This is why we teach our brothers to guard their semen like it’s money. Because it is.

Hothead361 · 2024-07-28T06:01:32+00:00

Get a dna test ASAP if she refuses then you'll know what's up if someone has so little respect for your boundaries I can only imagine what else she's capable of she might be trying to pin the pregnancy on you.

desultorythought · 2024-07-28T06:30:03+00:00

Lawyer up fast. That is a new, creative level of terrible human.

Imaginary_Form407 · 2024-07-28T11:17:55+00:00

She's raw dawged someone else, tested, realised she's pregnant and is using this as a way to trap you OP. Run for the hills and don't look back also go get an std test.

HonestlyKindaOverIt · 2024-07-28T07:12:14+00:00

Well, first thing first, don’t have any more intercourse with her - she clearly can’t be trusted.

But holy fuck man, that’s a shit situation.

Appropriate-Use3466 · 2024-07-28T14:33:57+00:00

Accumulate evidences, be as quiet as possible while making her answer to you in written form (such as whatsapp or sms) while you ask her the reasons why she did this and also other stuff that could be classified as abuse (such as slapping, insulting, etc.).

After having accumulated the evidences (and if she slaps you just go to the hospital to have the report of what happened, without her knowing that you went to the hospital, for example tell her - not write her - that you are in a friend's house), legally ask for paternity testing.

In the meantime go to a psychiatrist in order to have a PTSD certificate for an allegation of abuse, and use it and the rest of the evidences and sue her for abuse.

Then ask for divorce, and move away.

Then when/if the child is yours, let her ask for your money. Do not answer, if she goes legally, let her do it. Then pay once after/if she wins, then decide:

Either ask for complete custody of the child (because she is a bad mother, see the abuse allegation)

Or pay once and then not pay anymore, and let her legally ask for money. You then pay for one or two months, and then she needs to do it again.

After a while she will avoid asking for money, because she will spend more on lawyers than the money she will need.

In the meantime, see everything that is yours and legally ask for the renstitution every. Single. Time. She goes to a lawyer asking for money.

In the meantime, block her on every single social media, whatsapp, number, sms, etc. She will only talk to you by lawyer.

Let her see that to contact you means losing money and having other struggles.

Darkwing-Official · 2024-07-28T02:25:15+00:00

This is one of the most fucked up things I've ever heard. You don't get to force someone on impregnating you against his will! Can you take some legal action?

VacationDependent709 · 2024-07-28T05:49:35+00:00

Is she saying that the child is yours?

Salamadierha · 2024-07-28T11:54:48+00:00

We can see what's coming next: child support. Alternatively, find a way to get her charged with sexual assault, take custody of the kid once it's born, and she can pay the support. [very unlikely, but I'd love to see it]

You have our sympathy mate, good luck.

Acousmetre78 · 2024-07-28T18:33:57+00:00

Get her to admit some of this in text so you have some proof

Spins13 · 2024-07-28T08:22:54+00:00

The first step is to block her out of everything and never see her again. You may want to consult a lawyer for safety as others have said. 98% that it is not your child too

Successful_Video_970 · 2024-07-28T10:50:06+00:00

That’s so fucked up!

solar-garlic1776 · 2024-07-28T11:02:29+00:00

Are we at a point where it is necessary to record all conversations when I'm a relationship just to CYA

Specialist_Mood_4170 · 2024-07-28T18:20:59+00:00

Document, Document, document!!!!! Don't sign anything!!!! Lawyer up, don't do anything untill DNA test is back and proven 99.99 yours. Document TEXTS, get the truth outta her in texts so she can't deny later, bc she will lie for a good life set up for her!!!

phildu57 · 2024-07-28T22:54:53+00:00

Sadly, this is becoming more and more frequently... One thing to do that I've learned is to always flush the condom in the toilet or take it with you. This is especially the case for one night atands or just a random as it's best to be safe than sorry, in my honest opinion

Wise_Transition_7188 · 2024-07-29T19:00:08+00:00

Sorry you got fucked but you NEVER go out with shady chicks with kids. I had a crush on a woman once and turned out she had 4 kids to 3 guys and was wild in a bad way. I checked the fucked out FAST and avoided a disaster.

KaramLevi · 2024-07-29T21:42:36+00:00

Never let you semen out of your direct control. Women may want steal your seed rather then go to clinic to buy a donors seed.

She can attempt to get 18 years of income from you while other feel sorry for her she’s a single mom, and call you a dead beat.

I’ve caught 1 chick on toilet, legs in the air, condom from trash between her legs, dumping it in her.

As I respected the environment, I trashed the condom. Now it toilet every time, and never let them do it for you.

Your government condones her trickery and lies.

Acrobatic_Sport_7664 · 2024-07-28T07:31:27+00:00

You sir are TF'd.

2024-07-28T21:29:45+00:00

Dump her ass, and seek support. And a better lady.

mycatsha · 2024-07-29T07:58:14+00:00

Simply inserting her fingers after oral shouldn’t be enough to get her pregnant? Are you sure yous didn’t have sex at all?

KaramLevi · 2024-07-29T21:43:39+00:00

It’s totally finacial and mental gRape from her to him or any one she victimizes.

InfamousInsurance377 · 2024-07-30T00:20:43+00:00

That's honestly disgusting. She can't do this to you without your consent. I'm so sorry man.

jacare_o · 2024-07-31T13:29:22+00:00

This is why voluntary rejection of paternal rights and responsibilities should be a thing. You should be able to say "No I don't want this kid" and give up all rights and responsibilities within, let's say, two months.

If you didn't consent to being a father, you shouldn't be forced in to being one.

YourBestFriend__ · 2024-08-01T17:23:23+00:00

Should be jailed for such behaviour.

HotStreak73 · 2024-08-02T12:13:39+00:00

Paternity test, save any evidence of admission e.g. text messages, get a family law solicitor

Brw_ser · 2024-07-28T05:58:55+00:00

Now that's not cool. Have you spoken to legal counsel to see if that's actually true or just this just something you read on the internet? If you can prove that you declined to have vaginal intercourse specifically to prevent pregnancy and she intentionally circumvented you with her finger you may have a case. The first step is you need to get her to say that she used her finger to get pregnant in writing or something otherwise it's he said/she said and that's never a good situation to be in.

What I can tell you for certain is if that child is indeed yours, you're responsible regardless of how you feel about her. I would see if you can get full custody if you can prove she's mentally unfit.

momz33 · 2024-07-28T11:52:08+00:00

I had similar woman i known 14yrs we finally hit i got tested first too respect. Cos she told me how shes allergic to latex and natural skin ones sound gross.

So... i went all in no care shes on the pill she said. I didnt believe her then. I just didnt care. There you go.

Afew weeks later shes dropping hints sick and this that. Defo not pregnant though. Until she is i dont care though. But then she lost it a month later infront of me. ewww. Mayb that killed us something did. She was the most keen i ever experienced damn. Then she got weird.

Youre sweet. And stuff like that reply instead of contributing to the chat. Shut downs instead longer unwread and less chat. But she adamant nothing wrong. It really is though i feel it. She wont admit it.

Then i stupidly lent her some money and that was it. Ghost.

xertz3 · 2024-07-28T00:08:20+00:00

I think you need a biology lesson cos that is not a thing. Just sayin

SidewaysGiraffe · 2024-07-28T00:13:00+00:00

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Title	Purposeful Impregnation
Author	Humble-Relief-3719
Upvotes	451
Comments	93
Date	July 27, 2024 9:07 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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