Sis, Are We Dating The Same Guy? Facebook groups paused as admins fear legal risks

ziekktx · 2024-10-14T04:14:04+00:00

They're acting like running those pages in the face of defamation lawsuit risk is bravery, while entirely ignoring the simple matter that truth and fact is a defense against defamation.

In other words, don't lie about people and you won't have trouble.

Have they considered, if they want to fabricate drama, maybe just making up imaginary people in addition to the other lies? No victim, no defamation litigation.

DrHashshashin · 2024-10-14T11:57:20+00:00

I went through a similar experience where an ex posted a picture of me in a group, asking if anyone knew who I was. Someone I knew saw the post and sent me a screenshot of the thread. When I confronted my ex about it, she filed an Order for Protection (OFP) against me, claiming she was afraid I would expose her and damage her image and career. The OFP was denied since she used false claims and I defended myself. I haven't spoken to her in two years since, but I often wonder if, with the right resources, I could have taken legal action against her. It caused me a lot of stress and wasted time. She is way better off then me financially, it's why I ever considered it.

raging_pastafarian · 2024-10-14T08:20:36+00:00

I would love to see someone make a fake account, and post their own photos to that group to see if any random women claim they dated him and start making up lies.

calmly86 · 2024-10-14T07:06:47+00:00

So… are women ever going to address the elephant in the room with regards to how so many of them all end up pursuing/falling for the same men? They thumb their noses as the “misinformation” that the majority of women only want the same 20% of men, but these Facebook groups sure say otherwise.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2024-10-14T08:59:41+00:00

Such pages are obviously illegal. You simply cannot post personal data and photos of other people in such a way. Top it off with lies and slander and you got a shitshow.

NCC-1701-1 · 2024-10-14T04:59:44+00:00

gosh, so trashing men's reputations is not protected? only a fucking progressive could think that

Chains__of__Heaven · 2024-10-14T20:00:29+00:00

Make these admins bankrupt & homeless

TheNattyJew · 2024-10-14T22:26:58+00:00

Let me get this straight. This was a MAN who was running these FB groups? What a disgrace

Capable-Mushroom99 · 2024-10-14T16:05:08+00:00

I have no problem with the idea of groups like this but anyone with a realistic perspective on dating has to know that they will be abused. For every real cheater they might expose there are going to be multiple revenge posts against innocent men. You could reverse it and the same thing would happen. Human nature makes the groups useless because the true predators are hidden in a mass of false accusations.

MikiSayaka33 · 2024-10-14T04:21:58+00:00

MSN article (archive)

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-10-15T03:11:39+00:00

This is only in Australia I bet. Too bad.

Confident-Cod6221 · 2024-10-15T22:31:35+00:00

i hope each one of these bitches burn

FunRoad7167 · 2024-10-14T13:50:25+00:00

Remember men women are pure evil

Narrow_Honeydew3956 · 2024-10-21T04:29:22+00:00

Hey, I am on these groups and I’ve lost my career and everything. I’ve been tortured for years about this. I didn’t do what it says I did. Can somebody give me the posts it says about me?

Commercial-Year-3893 · 2024-10-23T11:35:09+00:00

It's back up

Appropriate_Let_7876 · 2024-11-25T05:19:08+00:00

So I was looking for this group on Reddit and came across this chat! I’m a woman and I agree with what some are saying about just stating the truth and stop lying! unfortunately there are a lot of women out there that are being put into situations trusting the other person and find out after yrs of commitment that they were not the only one! Keep in mind we all have body clocks, if u don’t see urself with that girl... Let her go to meet someone who will give her what she wants. There are also alot of women who get upset when they are ghosted etc and just want to vent or hate the fact their ex moved on so lies come out...

Guys if u just want sex, say so otherwise dnt waste a woman’s time and go to a professional or get a fuck buddy! Please stop mentioning about sex at all in person or in chats....if the girl wants to have sex, u will know by her body language, her eyes and the talk will happen naturally.

Secondly, there are a lot of woman out there that are a piece of shit due to lack of emotional intelligence and give the 40% of woman a bad name who actually are genuine, smart and beautiful… heart, mind and soul!

At the end of the day, we are all human and want someone to be with, either party should just be honest and open about what they want, acknowledge and respect each other… if it doesn’t work, let that person go and be happy for them.

The community of dating lack emotional intelligence, miscommunication and acceptance of rejection. It is the key to all these issues! everyone deserves to learn from situationship, the right to understand where they stand with the other person and know if u r rejected, that isn’t a measure of ur worth - you are just not that person’s type and be ok with that hence one of the many reasons these groups exist!

Date with kindness, honesty and acceptance of rejection is not a measure of ur worth!

P.s probably haven’t expressed the above as well as i could but hopefully you all get the idea! Do what you want with it!

I wish you successful dating!

chewtobacc0 · 2025-08-16T05:31:00+00:00

The page is back up and has 14.5k members! Unreal.

My ex gf, whom I have a good and civil "friendship" with, just messaged me saying that someone posted about me. She didn't share any screenshot, but wondering how is a group like this still up and running? Is there any room for legal action against the person posting (if I ever find out who and what was posted)?

FarRequirement5794 · 2026-01-30T09:08:16+00:00

If his names renn Beattie yes he's cheating on you haha

Title	Sis, Are We Dating The Same Guy? Facebook groups paused as admins fear legal risks
Author	EricAllonde
Upvotes	431
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Date	October 14, 2024 3:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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