What The Hell

ahsjsklslsnxnx · 2021-04-19T08:20:47+00:00

What happens in someone's life that they start dating with somebody that hates them?

matt_the_raisin · 2021-04-19T13:54:35+00:00

This is why I tell everyone who will listen to run from anyone using the "it dismisses x peoples lived experience" because it predicated on a pretty dumbly narcissistic stand point. What she's saying here is "it doesn't matter what your lived experience is, what you feel you've done etc. you ARE bad because of MY lived experience"

It decenters your sense of truth and substitutes it for her sense of truth. This is a intellectual type of narcissistic behavior to cause those around her to only trust her sense of truth rather than your gut, making you then dependent on her.

This is just another example that feminist figures are largely just personality disorders running wild because they have exactly 0 accountability.

Silver_The_Bard · 2021-04-19T13:56:45+00:00

You do have to accept reading that women are bad though, because unfortunately there's currently too much bad to exclude the good. The system has failed us, the way people exist in it is too flawed. You were raised a woman, you grew up with this privilege, probably influenced by the same stereotypes that influence other women to abuse their power over men, so maybe the system didn't fail you completely, but to a certain extent it has failed all women - think of toxic femininity - and all of us (lack of sexual education, and so on).

Hey! It looks like the exact same BS when you swap the gender roles!

Maybe trying to blame gender on more complex issues is not such an intelligent idea. Also as a professional writer this person's grammar made me cry to write.

iAntiMage · 2021-04-19T09:53:44+00:00

She could have easily said that her partner is a Simp

Any man with some self respect would have been away from her long time back.

thatgirlanya · 2021-04-19T14:47:55+00:00

These people are fucking insane.

DanteLivra · 2021-04-19T14:12:28+00:00

Poor guy, he mist hate himself to be with a person like that.

Metraxis · 2021-04-19T14:10:53+00:00

My responsibility ends with the reach of my choices. Fuck your collective guilt trip.

arronbursar · 2021-04-19T21:06:53+00:00

Oh boy, I sure do love my male privilege, waking up knowing the overwhelming majority of my city hates me because I have testosterone

Terror-Error · 2021-04-19T17:53:27+00:00

I tell my black friends that I HATE black people. But they know im not talking about them.

And that makes it okay.

ACG_Wander · 2021-04-19T11:30:02+00:00

Men have built literally everything you currently take for granted.

SC2sam · 2021-04-19T16:55:24+00:00

"the system has failed us", "the world is horrible", blah blah blah blah. Who do they think built this world and or system? Wasn't a lot of women wearing hard hats made out of leather smashing almost molten bolts into thousands of pounds of steel hundreds of feet in the air to make a building. They act like this world is the most awful thing that's ever existed but fail to recognize that right at this very moment there isn't a single predator stalking them for food.

SonOfHibernia · 2021-04-19T16:27:41+00:00

Only they matter. Those men who were born men through no fault of their own, well, they don’t have feelings worth mentioning apparently. You’re also either lying about your man, or he needs more help than you do. Bring in relationship with a gaslighting bigot has ruined him

BlueDoes2 · 2021-04-19T20:15:28+00:00

Sigh. This is just stupid at this point. They need to calm the hell down.

Responsible_Wash_430 · 2021-04-19T21:26:49+00:00

It must be easy to type all that with electronics that were mined and designed by....men.

It’s much harder to complain about the patriarchy when your belly is empty and you’re chased by predators.

Men have got to leave these things for the streets. They don’t even qualify for casual fun. Let the boxed wine and 13 cats enjoy her company.

vwatchrepair · 2021-04-19T22:51:58+00:00

So similar to the anti-white narrative too. If you're a man AND white, you're basically Hitler times a thousand. It's so ridiculous.

ASCIITable · 2021-04-20T02:16:42+00:00

man, I hate all women?

oh, you're upset?
I just mean the less than 1% that commit murder!

silent_thunder1618 · 2021-04-19T17:24:03+00:00

This seems like something a fanatic priest would say, it sounds biblical, no wonder why many people buy this shit.

It's like a brainwashing way to spread hate through guilt.

HatAccurate1578 · 2021-04-19T23:00:08+00:00

This makes me want to cry and give up any chance at dating a women

LegendaryEmu1 · 2021-04-20T02:11:04+00:00

Hating an entire gender because they are 'bad' is called being a sexist arsehole.

Their reality is not objective reality. So yes, i will dismiss their reality because it is incorrect.

It boggles my mind that any man would tolerate abject man hating. That relationship won't last, how long would it be until he exhibits "toxic masculinity". And if they have a son? Any normal boy trait will simply be a problem, rather than just how things are.

But i know once the relationship fails, she'll blame him and his privilege and whatnot, and so she will stay the same and likely end up alone unless she actually changes her sexist thinking.

Rumney1king · 2021-04-19T21:53:55+00:00

Bring back "toxic masculinity" aka just masculinity period. Men grow a pair, run your home, make babies, and raise your sun's yo be men!

Comet_Hero · 2021-04-19T20:59:10+00:00

Sex Ed has nothing to do with their spiel up to that point wtf?

88mmAce · 2021-04-20T04:52:57+00:00

What privilege lmao? The privilege to be forced to serve? The privilege to be utterly disposable in the eyes of society, and a convenient scapegoat when needed, considering I am a poor, minority male?

The dubious privilege to have to provide and serve and give in order to be seen as 'worth' being in an almost parasitic relationship? Oh and please do inform me about how losing half my belongings if - or statistically speaking, more likely, when that person leaves - is a privilege?

Manux005 · 2021-04-20T09:22:12+00:00

Her Partner is a traitor to his own gender. Society won't stand up for us men, so we gotta defend each other.

somerandomuser295 · 2021-05-05T08:31:01+00:00

What the fuck did i juat read?

random-guy59 · 2021-04-20T21:26:12+00:00

I quote her “Saying All Men is the same kind of comments as a!c!a!b (all cops are bastards). It’s the acknowledgment that a system has failed the people and is overall flawed.” Yup I’d say she’s pretty messed up.

Popo405 · 2021-04-19T22:55:59+00:00

Don’t get why your upset it’s not like it isn’t true

Title	What The Hell
Author	arn456
Upvotes	194
Comments	55
Date	April 19, 2021 7:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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