Accept being insecure and/or controlling

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-07T00:02:13+00:00

You can be controlling all you want. Accept that no one has to tolerate you wanting to control them. Who is telling you otherwise?

yeahrum · 2023-11-07T00:01:03+00:00

You can be insecure and controlling all you want. Don't be surprised when people won't put up with it though.

mrs_seng · 2023-11-07T00:04:55+00:00

Be as controlling as you want. Your rights end where other people's rights begin.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-11-07T00:12:11+00:00

I accept that im controlling and insecure

Good for you, but nobody else has to. You can't complain if people don't want to be around you if even you admit that you're not pleasant to be around.

Flightlessbirbz · 2023-11-07T00:39:58+00:00

You can accept it if you want, but you also have to accept if nobody wants to be around you because of it. You don’t have to hate yourself for your negative traits, but imo if you really love yourself you’ll want to work on those things, because they only hurt you and others. They only “don’t hurt anyone” if you live in isolation, and then it still hurts you.

CradleCity · 2023-11-07T01:00:43+00:00

But dont change who you are, because they wont accept you.

How about 'change who you are, not for others, but for your self, and to become a better person'?

MyLastBestChance · 2023-11-07T01:00:35+00:00

If you accept those things about yourself without doing the work to change them, you also need to accept that you’re going to be alone and it will be your own fault.

AceOfSpadesGymBro2 · 2023-11-07T00:18:06+00:00

A person who accepts themselves cannot be insecure. So you are not quite there but you are barking in the right direction.

YouShouldGetLaid · 2023-11-07T00:15:46+00:00

What does this have to do with this sub lol.

TSquaredRecovers · 2023-11-07T00:56:27+00:00

*Accept these toxic traits of mine, because that’s just who I am.*

You can hold those toxic traits, but don’t be surprised when women don’t want to date you because of them.

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Title	Accept being insecure and/or controlling
Author	KeyAcan
Upvotes	0
Comments	63
Date	November 6, 2023 11:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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