CHAD IS NOT THE ENEMY, LARRY IS

I don't think the problem is really that women only want to fuck "chad" if that was the case then dating would be a lot fairer than it actually, sure if we define "chad" strictly as a man who "has sex with lots of women" that makes sense. But I know plenty of real-life chads who are unsuccessful with women, and fat ugly losers who are. Because those fat ugly losers are smooth as hell, and subtly remind women of their distant and emotionally neglectful father. So while it is true that a minority of men get the majority of casual sex, they are not all chad, they are just guys who know how to move on women who have daddy issues, emotional problems, and are addicted to the constant chaos of a toxic relationship.

Those are the guys having sex with lots of women, they may not be particularly attractive or handsome or even fit, but they have confidence, charisma, and know how to emotionally play with women who are desperate for any sense of male validation, this is not CHAD, this is Larry, he is the one who is behind AF/BB because CHAD is in the gym, CHAD is on his grind, CHAD is the one counting his macros. CHAD is the man pursuing education. Chad is the one stacking his money. Chad is the one working on his goals. CHAD is the one searching for real emotional love beyond empty meaningless sex. CHAD is your ideal, not the enemy. Larry on the other hand...

THE TRUTH BEHIND AF-BB

if women only wanted handsome GigaChad, that would at least make sense, but that's not how it actually pans out. while it is true that women have casual sex with a minority of men, it's not because those men are genetically superior to the plebs around them, it's because those men know how to play mind games with women, especially women with daddy issues. They know how to be toxic. rather than being an "alpha male" these guys are just really good at manipulating. These are the minority of men who get most of the casual sex, not the chads not the alphas but the guys who represent a woman's emotionally distant father, and can push-pull, to get her addicted to his toxicity. so men who are more handsome, more intelligent, and more athletic, lose out on the casual sex game because they are not toxic enough.

on the other hand, once these women have finished being run through by larry, once they are older and flabby, they go to the CHAD, with a nice job, who are physically fit, etc, and they expect chad to fall for them and provide for them and raise Larry's children. They are so entitled that they think that after they have been run through by a million drunk guys in the back of a Denny's. that CHAD is going to drop everything to provide for them when chad refuses they go to Billy Beta and he actually does provide for her because he has no self-respect. however they still feel entitled to chad, and miss being young when they could fuck larry in the back of the trunk

(someone with the physical appearance of CHAD, who learns toxic game, to sleep with lots of women becomes THAD, a mixture of larry and chad)

THIS IS NOT TO SAY THAT LOOKS DON'T MATTER IN CASUAL SEX, BUT IT IS NOT THE BE ALL END ALL

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