CMV: Equal relationships don't exist.

MissMaude · 2015-12-29T01:42:13+00:00

You really don't get it... You can have a relationship based on equality and the man can still be dominant in the bedroom. This idea that it's all one way all the time is dumb and sounds insanely boring.

FletcherReedAMA · 2015-12-29T15:24:11+00:00

Keep in mind that the women ITT about being in an equal relationship are lying

https://uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/bitstream/handle/10012/6958/Yeung_Amy.pdf?sequence=1

Their perception of equality actually means special treatment

VirgoRooster · 2015-12-29T04:10:51+00:00

Perfect equality would probably be like a Cold War situation where both sides are distrusting of each other and are constantly seeking to gain a competitive edge over the other.

dallasdarling · 2015-12-29T19:00:59+00:00

Women don't fantasize about a man who respects her and treats her like an equal. They fantasize about being dominated and degraded by a superior specimen of Homo sapiens.

According to whom, exactly? Besides, sexual fantasies are not relationship fantasies. It's a fantasy for a reason.

If you want to succeed at dating

I think this is the problem here. Your definition of "success" is different. Do you want to have as much sex as possible with as many women as possible? Or do you want to form a long-term relationship that involves raising future humans to pass on your genes and your knowledge?

I sure hope you all are just in it for the sex. You'll all be selecting yourself out of the gene pool in your desperate attempt to have as much PIV as possible while also not having any responsibilities for offspring and definitely not getting married.

freebumblebee · 2015-12-29T21:34:07+00:00

I cannot believe I have to do this again but this:

This is true in the animal kingdom

Is fucking wrong. Why does this come up all the time on pill subs? It drives me bananas. These subs discuss human behavior and yet people like to make these grandiose statements as though all animals have the exact same mating protocol as humans. Why?? Just talk about humans. Not all female animals want a superior male animal. Some animals can reproduce asexually. Some lizards literally do not need males to reproduce at all. Have you seen how anglerfish reproduce? It's terrifying and clearly has nothing to do with male superiority. Google sexual cannibalism (and click a scientific looking link). Can we not make grandiose statements about how all of the animal kingdom mates?!

dundundundone · 2015-12-29T01:28:35+00:00

i doubt it'll change your mind... but i'm in a hierarchy-free relationship with a man i love. i have no interest in dating a superior or being dominated, and thankfully, i don't have to deal with someone who has such an absurd goal, to be with someone he can feel superior to. these relationships may not exist for you; you don't seem to believe in them and likely wouldn't accept them. however, they exist for other people.

HansProleman · 2015-12-29T11:11:18+00:00

As people have said, your assumptions are simply incorrect. They may apply to some women, but certainly not all of them.

belletaco · 2015-12-29T04:40:48+00:00

For a woman to love a man, she needs him to be superior to her.

no. if my boyfriend said he was superior to me i'd laugh in his face then tell him to cook me breakfast, then I'd give him a blowie because we are in an equal relationship :)

lvnatone · 2015-12-29T01:32:05+00:00

have you acquired these assumptions through personal experience?? observation? where are you drawing this from? i am somewhat interested

Taylor1391 · 2015-12-29T03:52:36+00:00

Like dundundundone said I doubt it'll change your mind but I'm also in a hierarchy free relationship. I'd never in a million years submit to a partner, but I'd also be horrified to be in a relationship with a submissive person. I neither am a doormat nor want one.

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Superfluous_Toast · 2016-01-02T10:05:39+00:00

Why do these guys keep posting the same CMV over and over? You aren't going to believe anything we say anyway.

oryxic · 2015-12-29T08:01:25+00:00

Not really sure how you expect people to 'change your view' on this since it's an opinion.

My relationship goal is balance. I'm better and more dominant at some things, he's better and more dominant at some things, we recognize and appreciate each other's strengths and function as a team.

I don't know any billionaires, but I work with doctors all day and although they are undoubtedly rich, most of them are also neurotic, touchy, and high maintenance. Pretty much every woman in our department has a 'no docs' dating rule.

ShiningWizard91 · 2015-12-29T07:28:56+00:00

I agree, which is why I find relationships distasteful. It's a primitive, caveman mentality. If you want to like like a savage beast, fine, but I prefer to be civilised. People who want to be "dominant" in relationships are narcissistic, sociopathic scum.

wtknight · 2015-12-29T04:09:28+00:00

My relationship is a successful egalitarian relationship, as are those of many non-Red Pillers. There's really no way to challenge or change a view like yours except for a bunch of people to post that their relationships are, in fact, equal or roughly equal and not based upon captain/first mate.

Title	CMV: Equal relationships don't exist.
Author	BitterSedditer
Upvotes	5
Comments	72
Date	December 29, 2015 1:18 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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