Cock carousel or commitment???

CharlieLightningDick · 2015-12-24T13:48:30+00:00

Commitment basically stops the carousel from moving.

Mm, not exactly. People cheat.

Feminism promotes in a certain extent the CC because there's some who have the school of thought that being promiscuous = female empowerment

Feminism, whilst it can be used to pressure men to commit in some cases, it's more likely to make women not commit.

It's more of a societal pressure on men to commit, the ideal that a man isn't a 'real man' if he doesn't take a girl out to dinner, respect her throughout the entire relationship and of course, if he doesn't commit = not a real man, he's a boy. If you need to see proof, log into any social media platform of your choosing and search any failed musician with 10k+ followers.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2015-12-24T13:37:49+00:00

I think a lot of men use the word "feminism" to describe the female imperative, and your two example are a result of this confusion

FleetingWish · 2015-12-24T16:30:09+00:00

Feminism advocates what women want. If a woman wants to dress modestly, it advocates that woman should be allowed to dress that way, without be shamed for it. If a woman want to dress sluttily, it wants them to do that without being shamed for it. If a women wants to be a SAHM, she should be allowed to do that without shame. If she wants a career, there should be job opportunities available to her (oh, and not shamed for choosing it).

If a woman rides the cock carousel, she should be allowed to do that unashamed. If a woman wants to get married there should be a man (of certain attractiveness) available to make that happen... no matter what kind of women she is. Because, remember, no shame allowed.

Cyralea · 2015-12-24T15:14:18+00:00

Well, there can't be a carousel if there's commitment, because commitment basically stops the carousel from moving. So which is it?

This is the fault in your assumption. Look up AFBB -- Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. It's the dualistic mating nature inherent in all women.

Feminism promotes the female imperative by simplifying the path towards both Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks. Not all women can reliably get both in the same man, and resultingly the environment becomes one where women can ride alpha cocks during their peak SMV years, then safely land on a beta cushion once she hits the wall and her SMV dips.

The current system doesn't favour men in any shape. Men outside of the top 20% aren't involved in the CC. Further, women aren't attracted to the beta men they commit to, not in the same way they were to their alpha flings. They're used, and often discarded down the road when their provision isn't as necessary.

Commitment doesn't stop the CC because it comes after the woman has already done a dozen laps around it.

darkmoon09 · 2015-12-24T17:16:17+00:00

It's simple: The CC is for high quality alpha males and while beta providers are pressured to commit. That's why it's called Alpha-Fucks/Beta-Bucks.

exit_sandman · 2015-12-24T11:26:23+00:00

Whatever the woman in question wants - carousel riding without consequences or the right to expect commitment as a reward for sex.

Villaintine · 2015-12-24T19:37:05+00:00

Well, there can't be a carousel if there's commitment, because commitment basically stops the carousel from moving. So which is it?

If there was loyalty in commitment then absolutely, but either person is free to leave a committed relationship (with varying repercussions) as he/she sees fit. So no.

grendalor · 2015-12-24T15:26:07+00:00

Lane changing -- i.e., CC from 15-26, BB/commitment from 28-35, then back to CC after 1.6 kids are over 6 years old. Lane changing.

See Sheryl Sandberg's bestseller "Lean In", where she openly advocates for women to date unsuitable but fun guys when they are young and then settle down for the sensible guy when they are older. Lane changing.

gavinok · 2015-12-24T16:59:09+00:00

The idea is this: Feminism promotes the sexual freedom of women, and thus allows an environment, like in college to be created, where many women have a sexually adventurous phase in their lives. Normally, this phase involves trying out various sexual activities in a fashion void of commitment, which a focus on attaining personal pleasure. However, the guys involved in this type of sex are normally of extraordinary status and attractiveness, such as male athletes, frat bros, school government officials, tattoo artist types, etc.

This is the cock carousel. Feminists do not promote this, they just promote a sexually free environment that in effect, produces a carousel.

HugeSaladFork · 2015-12-24T15:49:03+00:00

Let me try:

You fuck carousel riders, you consider commitment with non-riders. If you decide you do in fact want kids (the only reason to commit), you look for a non-rider.

What is frustrating is when a carousel rider feels entitled to commitment. It's laughably stupid. They will chew you up and spit you out using the rigged system.

Title	Cock carousel or commitment???
Author	qburtreynolds
Upvotes	3
Comments	91
Date	December 24, 2015 11:10 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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