Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit.

wtknight · 2024-11-10T15:57:59+00:00

Removed. No posts about looks.

KGmagic52 · 2024-11-10T14:50:24+00:00

Nobody calling them social rejects has actually tried with them.

ThatLeval · 2024-11-10T14:51:12+00:00

Objectively if somebody is a 9/10 they can absolutely get a relationship from a guy who's a 3/10

There are prostitutes that look........like they've had a rough life and they're still getting guys paying for sex. Most Women would find what you wrote Sus. Either way though, wish you luck in whatever it is you're doing

Limp_Celebration6751 · 2024-11-10T14:57:17+00:00

weird flex or straight up lying

edit: i bet she already has some guy on her dms asking for pics lol

SkylineRSR · 2024-11-10T14:54:08+00:00

If you are how you describe yourself you should have none of these issues. You should put yourself out there more and work on your personality.

berichorbeburied · 2024-11-10T14:56:56+00:00

Unless you post what you look like

There’s no way to tell if your opinions of yourself are valid

Or if the people telling you that you are a 9/10 are being truthful

Ofc people might say that if you were a 9/10 men would constantly be lining up to fuck you or date you

Or they might say that’s because you are going after unobtainable men that are out of your league or don’t want you

But I’ll personally say. Maybe it’s because you are not looking to have sex and maybe just want a friend or love

Which in that case looks won’t really help you. And you’d have to work on your character/personality/morals

VWGUYWV · 2024-11-10T14:59:42+00:00

No social skills in that you are shy?

Or on the spectrum?

Or no social skills in that you come off mean and/or not mentally well?

Only the last point would explain what you’ve experienced

A hot autistic girl will have nerd boys drinking her bath water

EqualSea2001 · 2024-11-10T15:04:45+00:00

What AI did you use for the ratings?

LevelCaterpillar1830 · 2024-11-10T15:07:42+00:00

I'm gonna go against the grain here and agree with you for the most part. Looks matter, but if you're mentally stunted or neurodivergent and incapable of picking up on social cues, then social life will be pretty tough.

GurrGurr666 · 2024-11-10T15:01:23+00:00

Idk either you don't actually look that good or guys just give up because they think you're out of their league or you have a very hostile and unwelcoming personality or you just don't meet new people.

IDK can be any of these or a mix of all of them

Main_Following1881 · 2024-11-10T15:01:55+00:00

you dont need to be good looking to get friends lol, but yeh for dating specifically looks matter but they wont keep a partner.

Garfagnana · 2024-11-10T15:06:39+00:00

I just don’t buy this. If you truly have an amazing body, you should have no problem attracting men, unless you have the most tragically unattractive butterface known to mankind or are severely autistic—both of which seem extremely unlikely, since you say strangers compliment you a lot.

Speaking from my own experience, losing weight and hitting the gym has made all the difference in the world for attracting women. When I was fat, I was functionally invisible to women; now that I’m in decent shape, I have a decent amount of success getting dates and getting laid. And I assure you, I’m far from the suavest Casanova of a guy.

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Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-11-10T15:02:06+00:00

Wait, someone used AI to say the are a 9 but not human beings? Riddle me shocked. Humans aren't AI.

onestemcell · 2024-11-10T15:10:46+00:00

Sounds like you're copemaxxing instead. Pics or it isn't true

Ok-Area-9739 · 2024-11-10T15:18:35+00:00

Try cooking or baking instead. I’m so serious and not even trying to taunt you or anything like that. I’m sharing my personal experience as a female who is now happily married.

lolothe2nd · 2024-11-10T15:19:50+00:00

have you ever killed someone? poison their family? scream whenever someone get close to you?

Ganymede309 · 2024-11-10T15:23:58+00:00

If you're an actual 9 there's zero chance you're getting nothing unless you come across as a complete psycho. Simple as that. Just being a 9 walking around ensures men of all types will be giving you all sorts of unwanted attention. I don't know the extent of your bad social skills but women can basically just be a weirdo mute and still get men, much less a 9.

weenieandthebutt · 2024-11-10T15:32:57+00:00

Looksmaxxing is more of a male strategy. If you're too good-looking as a woman, it might serve as a double edge sword - other women might be jealous hence the no friends situation and you're essentially pricing yourself out with most men.

Women also need other attributes like kindness and loyalty (not saying you aren't but pretty girls have a reputation for being stuck up)

G4M35 · 2024-11-10T15:41:21+00:00

All AI ratings place me around 9/10. Perfect body proportions. .....and I haven't dated in 6 years.

If that's the case and you're on apps, a lot of guys swipe right on you, the problem is that you swipe left on them.

And it's not that "looks aren't shit", is that looks aren't everything. Sure that there are guys that just want to get laid, but the other guys want something more besides the looks.

...I have no friends....

That doesn't surprise me, normal looking women won't relate to you and probably resent you.

SHlRANUI · 2024-11-10T15:56:14+00:00

It's a personality problem. Many girls wanted to hook up with me but I now I'm not perceived as relationship material because I'm boring and shy, and when I speak, I'm rude, emotionless and a bit weird. I used to be depressed due to the fact that I'm 5'4, but with a really good face card and incredible good shape, my friends frequently tell me that I'm a "Greek statue" "angel" "Greek god". And I wonder "Why I'm still a virgin?...has to be my height...height, height, height". And then, when I started looking around for reasons, instead of being in my rabbit hole, I began to notice the equally short guys, decent shape but not very pretty, were getting in relationships with nice girls. Why? It was obvious why they were having success, they had opposite traits to those I mentioned, but I never payed attention, that wasn't "real", insisted that looks were everything because I preferred to listen the blackpill and its shallow and small "evidence" and "experiments", I took as reality what I was seeing through the monitor and negate what was going on around me. It was my personality all along, now I'm working on that since a year ago and switching the idea of "this is me, period" to "I'm improving my self", and I had results, there's was some good candidates but, ironically I'm not ready for a relationship 😄. But now I now what is the problem and you too. Be, even more, self critical and look how other people behave, you don't have to imitate them, take what is good and convert it to your personality without losing your essence, find a better version of yourself

ComfortableJeans · 2024-11-10T15:51:39+00:00

Looks are more of a multiplyer for a persons personality.

If you think of it as a as a persons personality scores them a certain number of points. Looks act as a score multipler.

I mean this in the most sincer, sensitive way I can. I'm a 6'3 guy with such a anxious, nervous personality that it's an issue for me to, but 0x10 is still a 0. My height is attractive, but I'm not.

If we think of it a person with a 5 personality and 5 looks that's a 5x5=25. That's higher than a 2 personality with 10 looks, being 2x10=20.

You might just be really, really weird to regular people.

Looks aren't EVERYTHING, but they're incredibly important.

Title	Firsthand experience learning looks aren't shit.
Author	areealdeal
Upvotes	0
Comments	70
Date	November 10, 2024 2:47 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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