How many orbiters does a "Stacy" have, on average?

ferociousFerret7 · 2022-02-19T22:06:30+00:00

A sufficiently attractive woman has, for practical purposes, unlimited options. This is not to say they can have anyone they want, but the options are more than they could act on in a meaningful way.

I don't even consider them, tho' I'd be open to something organic developing (say, we're in proximity on a regular basis and an actionable vibe develops on its own).

LittyKitsune · 2022-02-19T22:02:23+00:00

It depends on how common "Stacy" is in a given place.

If you live in a college town where Stacy is literally a dime a dozen, it doesn't mean very much. You're hot, but also interchangeable with the 50 other girls in your sorority who look and behave exactly like you.

XanthicStatue · 2022-02-19T22:07:49+00:00

I think it depends on the amount of attention she actually wants. My ex, for example, is insanely attractive but the amount of orbiters was very low, if any at all. She just doesn’t want the attention and will only date one guy at a time, which has been pretty much only me off/on for the past two years.

On the other hand, I know this woman who is very attractive and I’d say the amount of orbiters is anywhere from 10-30. Every time she posts on FB there are dozens of thirsty dudes telling her how hot she is. She loves the attention and keeps these guys around.

daniellederek · 2022-02-20T03:16:14+00:00

Becky has more orbiters she has more open options

Stacey will lock down a chad lite on a career path or high prospect athlete and not fuck around till he's secured.

A 6-7 Becky who looks maxxxes and will send bobs and vagene has no end to possibilities. They'll think nothing of having 18 different guys send coffe or Uber eats to her door and rotate through after they figure out that meetup ain't ever happening. Seriously eating pizza some random from an hour away sent then plowing her as violently as you wish is a bit of an ego boost.

Preme2 · 2022-02-19T23:01:29+00:00

I don’t think Stacey has any more orbiters than Becky. Stacey is usually in a relationship so she doesn’t need the orbiters for validation. She doesn’t entertain them. Becky is single and usually gets played by chad so she needs them much more than Stacey does for reassurance and attention.

I even think men gravitate more towards the single above average girl that’s obtainable rather than the Stacey who is out of their league.

JacobMugatu666 · 2022-02-19T22:37:00+00:00

It's funny to me that you self reject and deprive the woman of maki g a decision on her own. If she really thinks you are a worthless loser with zero chances, she can make that decision herself.

Pola_Lita · 2022-02-20T02:07:21+00:00

How could anyone even know this and what good would it do if you did?

TRMking · 2022-02-20T20:45:05+00:00

Honestly I’ve noticed the girls with a ton of “orbiters” are usually less attractive, more attainable types.

AquaChip · 2022-02-20T00:46:01+00:00

Why does it matter? If you feel insecure about having to compete for Stacey then Stacey isn’t for you. Leave her to the men who want to play ball.

2022-02-20T07:01:31+00:00

A shit ton. Alas, orbiters typically aren't competition. They're in orbit for a reason.

iamthemovie1992 · 2022-02-20T16:51:41+00:00

Don’t know until you try. You could literally be the option she chooses in that moment and jumping to the front of the queue, being in the right place at the right time. Maybe you’re enough to be the “maybe” to a “yes” at the bar, club, party, etc. Maybe to her you are a “yes” and maybe she’s one of the women super attracted to you. Idk what you look like, so I can’t say if you’re conventionally attractive or not.

However, if it doesn’t happen for you in that moment, do not stick around and become an orbiter yourself. She may have a bunch of orbiters, but don’t become one of them. Move on, unless she’s chill and you vibe as friends, and even then unless you truly know you can keep it platonic throughout the rest of your relationship, it might be better to move right along

gimpgirl555 · 2022-02-19T22:18:19+00:00

However, I always wonder how many guys are in queue before me. When you factor in social media followers, I imagine the number of orbiters such a woman has is pretty damn high. I also wonder how many high value men are orbiting her.

Stacies don't usually have a lot of orbiters. Normie guys know that it's not gonna happen. It's either autistic weirdos or high tier normies who feel that they have money/status.

Note that Stacies and Stacy-lites are different things. It's the second category that gets all the orbiters because they seem attainable.

Superannuatedpunk · 2022-02-20T10:58:43+00:00

Man - you guys really trip over your own dicks overthinking things.

Sure - a good looking chick probably has a bunch of thirsty guys lusting after her. But are they actually putting any real effort in?

95% of them are probably doing nothing more involved than commenting on her Insta.

Of the remainder, most probably don’t have the stones to actually ask her out.

You’re waaaay ahead of the curve if you actually get in her face and ask her out.

It probably won’t amount to much; but maybe it will.

Grown a pair boys.

Noodles_R · 2022-02-20T00:21:59+00:00

Honestly the Stacy grouping is not that relevant - it’s easy to find guys, generally. I am not a Stacy but if I put myself out there there is no shortage of a queue.

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How many orbiters does a "Stacy" have, on average?

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Title	How many orbiters does a "Stacy" have, on average?
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Date	February 19, 2022 9:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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