Is this guy an Alpha?

Littleknownfacts · 2017-04-10T13:50:57+00:00

Probably not. What's he like in relation to not-women. What does he do for a living? What are his bros like? How does he dress? How does he carry himself in conversation with those superior to him, equal to him, or below him?

ManSentHisOwnWay · 2017-04-10T14:31:00+00:00

One of my buddies is Indian (from Suriname), smaller than average (for a Hindu, let alone compared to the Dutch average) and he's overweight bordering on obese. A complete omega going by RP's standards. Yet, he also got probably one of the higher N-counts of anyone I know. He just tries so goddamn hard and so goddamn often. He is never not chasing after girls. He adds girls on every social media and tries his luck. He tries so often that even with a high failure rate he still gets more than enough to keep him happy. I think that's separates the really successful dudes from those who aren't. A great thirst and the perseverance to quench that thirst at all costs.

Don't know if that makes someone Alpha or not but it certainly helps a dude get laid.

funny_lyfe · 2017-04-10T14:04:02+00:00

That just sounds like someone with high self confidence. Maybe even bordering on some narcissistic tendencies. I consider a true alpha as being genetically gifted with strong leadership qualities. I have known guys like mentioned iin op they can score but they get rejected 90% of the time. At that point he is just a natural pick up artist.

Unabummer80 · 2017-04-10T14:14:53+00:00

This is just a tactic for scoring. If you have no fear of rejection it is pretty easy. I wouldnt say it makes you alpha, but you do have to respect the balls to be able to do it. I know some people who do it, they know it's a numbers game.

However alpha most might get, there is always plenty of rejection going on behind the scenes if they are getting it on the reg.

Im well over the sting of rejection, wouldnt say Im especially alpha though.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-04-10T14:09:33+00:00

He has alpha traits

SkinnySweaty · 2017-04-10T15:17:44+00:00

Getting laid is not alpha, is just getting laid.

One more example of RP not even understanding their own terms.

wub1234 · 2017-04-10T15:21:53+00:00

Undoubtedly he has alpha traits.

UA_Hammer · 2017-04-10T14:29:45+00:00

He's skinny, 5'7

Nope

prodigy2throw · 2017-04-10T15:07:48+00:00

I don't think so. He's just a guy playing the numbers game. That's what a lot of PUA is. Handling rejections.

manletttime · 2017-04-10T16:04:18+00:00

Lmfao.

relative to who

Alpha, used correctly, describes some kind of status. So, you can't just ask us if this individual, in isolation, is an alpha.

Relative to who?

Relative to the average dude?

Way alpha.

Relative to a rock star?

Way beta.

There are no individual traits, just traits that arise upon comparison.

EliteSpartanRanger · 2017-04-10T23:13:35+00:00

Yes.

Alpha is not equal to looks. Someone can look like Brad Pitt and be beta. Alpha is about a set of personality and behaviors.

ClarityofDisaster · 2017-04-11T01:48:34+00:00

I'm sure he's an Alpha in his own mind...

alreadyredschool · 2017-04-10T13:50:51+00:00

I know a male model that does the exact same thing. He gets rejected like 95% of the time.

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wtknight · 2017-04-10T13:59:58+00:00

If he's getting sex in this way I would say that he's likely a low alpha. There can be guys that look like male models who act like betas just like there can be unattractive but confident guys who are alphas.

CrazyTom54 · 2017-04-10T14:14:24+00:00

What's his personal life like? Does he take care of himself properly? In terms of a social setting, yeah he's displaying some alpha traits. But what about in a non-social setting? What about when he isn't around girls?

GuitarsAreGettingOld · 2017-04-10T14:31:51+00:00

Probably yes.

fetchyminx · 2017-04-10T14:47:44+00:00

Sounds boring

SetConsumes · 2017-04-10T16:56:42+00:00

Sounds like alpha mentality.

Going for the best vs going for the easy.

says_harsh_things · 2017-04-10T20:08:37+00:00

Not really. When someone 6', well built, and with great features comes along, nobody (man or woman) is going to defer to the forst guy for his personality or attitude.

Women will prefer the taller guy to date, men will assume the bigger guy is tougher, and generally more successful.

SockSage · 2017-04-11T05:32:12+00:00

No. There is no such thing as an "Alpha".

reepbot · 2017-04-11T07:46:08+00:00

Nope.

IIHotelYorba · 2017-04-11T10:20:14+00:00

100%, that's all an alpha is. This is what makes you successful with women.

midnightvulpine · 2017-04-11T10:23:36+00:00

Dunno, that's only one aspect of his personality. Confidence around women and charisma are just one part of it.

GroovyEFS · 2017-04-11T11:21:37+00:00

If he gets brushed off, no problem, he finds the next hottest, and carries on until he hooks up. He has had some seriously hot girls this way, and some hot long term girlfriends.

If we use the most commonly accepted definition of being successful with women then the answer is obviously yes going off this.

anon1moos · 2017-04-11T16:32:13+00:00

why does it matter?

stonepimpletilists · 2017-04-11T18:57:26+00:00

Is he getting laid? in RP terms, alpha is specifically the guy who gets pussy

Title	Is this guy an Alpha?
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Date	April 10, 2017 1:48 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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