Men, why do you want a girlfriend?

LogicalLetterhead272 · 2023-09-30T19:47:31+00:00

Its difficult to describe.

I want a muse to inspire me to become a better and more creative person. I want someone to cook great meals for, and someone who will take care of me when I'm sick. I want someone to build a home with, maybe not in the literal sense, but in the sense that we take a space and make it our own. I want someone to bond with sexually and are able to excite each other with just a touch. I want someone to grow as a person with, someone who is fun to do nothing with, but also wants to take me places to help me get out of my shell a little bit.

EastSideSlasha · 2023-10-01T06:36:25+00:00

I don’t want to be some creepy old dude at the club when I’m older, I want to come home to a wife I can chill with

Curious_Attention719 · 2023-10-01T02:43:27+00:00

Companionship, love, someone to grow with, and yes, sex.

Comfortable-Dare-307 · 2023-10-01T15:43:20+00:00

I don't. I'd rather be alone with my books and video games. Girls are too expensive, and then they leave and take all your stuff. I have too many expensive things to risk that.

Wattehfok · 2023-09-30T23:22:18+00:00

It sounds fun, but it might upset my wife.

Sea-Law4961 · 2023-09-30T19:26:25+00:00

one day i realised i needed a women to hug to sleep with, came out of nowhere...

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-09-30T21:20:19+00:00

To care for someone, to work hard to make someone happy who does the same for me. To raise a family with, to go through the ups and downs of life with, to grow old together.

Nothing is better than a happy caring partner who values and prioritizes family similar to you. Not hookers, drugs, nor hobbies come even close!

Sadly I never found one in my 20s to build a family together with, but there's always hookers drugs and hobbies to help fill the void.

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-09-30T20:56:01+00:00

I am reaching an age where being a fuckboy is getting kinda weird

mvnnyvevwofrb · 2023-09-30T19:57:19+00:00

I don't want a girlfriend. I learned the truth about romantic relationships, and how fucked up I am and other people are.

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Ayaka_Simp_ · 2023-10-01T01:16:31+00:00

Its nice. What's not to like?

Hot_Tradition4523 · 2023-10-01T04:08:17+00:00

To have someone who loves me and see me for me beyond the function I provide.

I would do the same for them.

To have confirmation that I am not broken in some fundamental way that precludes me from a normal life

SentientNose · 2023-10-01T12:25:13+00:00

Same reason I want to breathe,eat,sleep biological hardwiring.

That's the root cause, everything else is just explanation afterward, there are many reasons to enjoy partnership in life but they aren't the root cause of why.

szclimber · 2023-10-01T23:47:04+00:00

Some combination of romance, love, sex, and companionship. Other people may also want a family with children one day.

ShakenEspressoLatte · 2023-10-02T19:56:18+00:00

Because I don’t want to build a life for only myself. What’s the point of life if you build a life if only you by yourself are living it? I want to feel loved, I want to share experiences with a significant other and built a life together. Maybe have children when the right time comes, and when I’m old and she old we can go back in our memories and remember the life we built together. I don’t want to be some lonely 62 year old without no family, that at least for me is a sad life to live.

Anti_Thing · 2023-10-04T05:26:14+00:00

I want companionship, sex, & children. I believe that having sex & having kids should be limited to marriage, but arranged marriages aren't really a thing anymore in the West, so I have no choice but to get a girlfriend & then wife her up.

cassowaryy · 2023-10-04T08:09:55+00:00

She’s a great companion, gorgeous to behold, makes me feel good. Also I’m super kinky and she’s sexually compatible with me on a deeper and rarer level than most hookups have been. Also shes cute and cuddly and cooks so well. She’s the best

Title	Men, why do you want a girlfriend?
Author	Cat_Lover259
Upvotes	5
Comments	27
Date	September 30, 2023 1:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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