Whenever I approached a woman and she gave me a chance, it was an uphill battle.

When a woman initiated a conversation with me, the relationship turned out to be much better.

The same thing happens online. A woman online thinks you are just another loser of a man.

She wil project worse male traits on you, and you'll find yourself in an uphill battle to prove her wrong. If a woman forces you to be defensive, leave her right there - find another one.

In the real world, women assign a lot of value to education, wealth status, and how many people actually listen to that guy (his sphere of influence).

But if a man chooses to move away from this little kingdom he built, he's entirely judged by looks.

If men do not build their little kingdom, they'll always be at mercy of their looks.

When i moved to another city and hide my wealth status, women treated me worse as if i was some guy approaching random people for the purpose of religion conversion.

My confidence and looks didn't change. So probably, confidence is seen as arrogance if you are not handsome /rich

That was the first time i started thinking in terms of Looks, before that i never critically analyzed my looks.

I was nothing and had no power over them without my business, money, social circle etc... that's how i learned average male is living a pathetic life and women do not really treat the men who don't have this good.

Sure they can treat him good if he proves to be a good friend (in my experience such friendship was one sided, since woman expected him to do more for her since he has lower value and she does nothing for him)

This is how I learned that primal desire is probably only based on looks.

Most of the time, if a woman learns about me from someone else, she would treat me much better.

Online, most women act very cocky/passive aggressive toward me. They aren't polite, submissive, or agreeable online.

Offline, their power disappears in front of me.

When I was younger, I'd put the arrogant women in their place by asking them, "How much do you even make? My maid makes more than that!"

After realizing the gap between us, either they'd disappear or the next day become submissive and feminine toward me.

I was baffled, is this the true face of women who surround me? They treat me better because I've all those things, not because they actually find me attractive? Are all these women around me being fake for the purpose of ending up in my good books?

If you don't have this superiority gap and she thinks you are equal to or below her, you'll never get that good treatment.

This is how I ended up with so many female friends because I found them online and they talk to me as if I am on their level, even though they hardly make $100K a year and struggle with their lifestyle.

Offline, women become weak when they realize you own a business, have money, or there are people who will support you even if you do bad things.

Most women didn't have good friends; they were friends in name only. When women realized what all my friends do for me, they started feeling little in front of me.!

When they respect you, become weak and approval seeking in front of you, that's when they are more likely to fall in love with you.

If you are not able to sense this gap, sooner or later she will lose attraction /respect.

If she cannot respect you, she will never try conforming to your desires, wants and needs.

There have been women who adopted my hobbies, lifestyle, dressed the way i prefered etc.... all because i was placed higher at the societal totem pole.

So never approach a woman, invade the places where they are, dominate it and let your presence be felt. It will catch her attention