Talent you fall in love with?

philomexa · 2017-06-06T16:14:11+00:00

Mad guitar skills. Mad bass skills. The chuptzah to be the lead singer/screamer of an aggressive industrial -or- prog rock- or- metal -or- alternative band. lyricism. Showmanship.

ETA: athletic ability along the lines of professional/indie wrestling.

wub1234 · 2017-06-06T16:06:49+00:00

Dancing is a must for me. Don't think I could date a guy who couldn't dance. He doesn't have to be amazing at it (although one of my exes was a competitive swing dancer and that was fun as shit), but he needs to know how/enjoy dancing.

Also some form of working with your hands. Woodworking, welding, home improvement projects etc.

You other girls can keep the musicians, I have enough of those in my family lol. I always hung out with musicians but never cared to date one.

WhiskersNT · 2017-06-06T16:21:23+00:00

A trait I look for in a partner is that she is artistic or crafty in some way, meaning that she can make some physical thing and employs a sense of style in doing so

I think it's a good balance to my overly logical/analytical nature, and it works well for long term comparability

[deleted] · 2017-06-06T16:40:55+00:00

knowing multiple languages is interesting to me. being a good cook also counts... though overall, i think the most important thing is being around someone excited to learn and try new things. i'm not particularly into some of the tech stuff my husband is into, but i love watching him light up and get all excited when he tries out something new, and i love telling him about whatever new things i've been studying or teaching myself. i also feel pretty happy when i see him teaching himself bass. the desire to know and learn and challenge yourself; that's the really exciting thing, to me.

fiat_lux_ · 2017-06-06T18:10:24+00:00

I'd never "fall in love with" a single talent.

That being said, I got some inspiration from others' answers.

dancing: Good body. The problem with this is that if she's actually good, she'll have other male partners.
gaming: She can keep herself busy gaming, physically isolated, and having fun for all I care.
singing: Sentimental reasons.

[deleted] · 2017-06-06T16:21:09+00:00

Good cooking skills. Artists, like a painter

Electra_Cute · 2017-06-06T16:41:59+00:00

Computer gaming, calligraphy and being able to play an instrument.

Temperfuelmma · 2017-06-06T16:44:56+00:00

If a woman can cook.

Fuck.

If she can cook.

Jesus.

I'll give her my heart on a silver platter and take care of her like my life depended on it.

Shit.

Don't forget dancing. Not the vulgar shit, some classical feminine stuff and ay mama you my queena.

If she can cook and she can dance? Fuck. I'll throw TRP out the window we're going for vacation.

goatismycopilot · 2017-06-06T17:18:22+00:00

Fixing things and doing it well. I have a bunch of small house projects that need tending to. Cooking is not over rated.

Eastuss · 2017-06-06T18:22:50+00:00

I love nerds who are masters at their craft, whatever it is.

[deleted] · 2017-06-06T19:41:31+00:00

I've heard that Kesha is like damn near a genius who makes mindless party music just because she likes it. I like that. I got dibs if my wife ever leaves me.

zerozingzing · 2017-06-07T20:55:52+00:00

dapper..the skill to clean up WELL!

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[deleted] · 2017-06-06T16:38:09+00:00

Being talented at anything is a plus in my book but I can't really think of any talents that I could fall in love with or are overly attracted to. Maybe singing and writing. Athleticism can be pretty attractive as well.

explicit_kraken · 2017-06-06T17:23:02+00:00

A talent for languages. That's the one thing most people I've dated have in common, I think.

I love to dance and I love to sing, but I only require that a partner enjoy those things; they needn't be particularly good at them. Skillful singing and dancing are still sexy af though.

Edit: words are hard.

UhKhat · 2017-06-06T18:32:30+00:00

I second singing - I love voices, so being a good singer is very attractive. Any kind of musicianship is a great talent to have that draws me in. Same with other creative talents like drawing/painting/sculpting/writing.

shoup88 · 2017-06-06T18:43:11+00:00

Maybe not fall in love with, but if a hot guy can play the guitar well (and wants me to sing along) = instant crush.

[deleted] · 2017-06-06T18:56:08+00:00

Singers, guitar/bass players, piano players, artists, creative writers, and men who are good with animals all make me hot under the collar. I go crazy when my current guy is on stage playing bass; not only are his long fingers on the strings sexy, but he has the stage moves and eye-fucking mastered.

alby333 · 2017-06-06T19:50:00+00:00

I have a real soft spot for women who sing beautifully.That being said my current so has a voice that could strip paint from the walls lol

cxj · 2017-06-06T20:01:58+00:00

Cooking, sewing, music/art of any kind, video games. Fitness.

eliechallita · 2017-06-06T22:51:07+00:00

Physical aptitude, mostly: Most of the women I've dated were either athletes, or dancers, or could do at least one thing really well with their hands or bodies in general.

I just love the confidence and self-assuredness that comes with being able to move your body exactly the way you want it to.

despisedlove2 · 2017-06-07T00:46:54+00:00

Smarts. Smarter the woman, the bigger the turn on.

slavicgypsygirl · 2017-06-07T01:17:39+00:00

I admire any form of artistic creativity, physical fitness, team sport or adrenaline junkie interests.

GBBL · 2017-06-07T04:05:36+00:00

Im super attracted to unavailable people. Nothing gets my heart going like a woman i've never met or someone living cross country...

okaygirl123 · 2017-06-07T14:32:18+00:00

Dancing, specifically hip hop and breakdancing. Also, being able to play a string instrument (special points if it's a violin, but guitar works too.) And drawing. If he can draw like his life depends on it, I'd definitely fall for him 😂

Littleknownfacts · 2017-06-06T16:19:28+00:00

Pretty much any talent at a high enough level will do it for me. But I'm a status whore so there's that...

Title	Talent you fall in love with?
Author	Love8Death
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Date	June 6, 2017 4:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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