The Dark Truth about the Game

wtknight · 2022-06-03T22:15:30+00:00

Removed. No rants. If you would like to express your own views, please create a properly formatted CMV post.

YvngDemon300 · 2022-06-03T21:08:03+00:00

Im not even tryna be an asshole but no shit playing the game Is just how u gotta move nowadays cause like you said girls gon do what girls do so why commit ever anyway it’s just your turn that’s been the rule. Nun out here but girls finding themselves, college girls, and city girls. Girls are never single but at the same time they all single for the right guy that ring don’t mean shit. - mind of a player some people call us dirtbags, assholes, toxic it is what it is 🤷🏾‍♂️

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-06-03T21:10:30+00:00

I went through a weird phase from July to August in 2018 where 80% of the women I matched with were either married or in a relationship. What I noticed is that women who are 30+ are very much open to cheating on their boyfriend or husband if the right guy comes along.

Decent_Foundation_62 · 2022-06-03T21:18:06+00:00

>Usually single girls will prioritize relationships first and will try to get commitment from you. Its possible to get NSA sex from them but not common.

Just signal willingness to commit and generally they'll start putting out.

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

jackedsoon · 2022-06-03T21:21:40+00:00

lol most women hooking up are single

also every guy knows its fair game to not ask questions bout relationship status n hit, not some undiscovered dark truth we aint know bout

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-06-03T21:09:20+00:00

its very rare to find a single girl who wants to be a hookup partner. Usually single girls will prioritize relationships first and will try to get commitment from you. Its possible to get NSA sex from them but not common.

Excuse me? What crowds are you running in?

Half the single girls at bars are looking for nothing more than NSA sex. The other half are "let's hook up and see where it goes" girls.

Are your friends picking girls up at the freaking Episcopalian church? Lol

robot_bones · 2022-06-03T21:34:00+00:00

I've never asked a girl their status. They usually add the word "boyfriend" asap in any transaction. Or trying to flirt.

You nailed it though. Actual single women are looking for a relationship. And that time is short.

Maybe this is why sexual repression with focus on women started to begin with, lol. Cultural cycles dude...

Myself, rarely dated a girl that didn't have a lineup. Or straight up sampled other opportunities before breaking up. The poly world seems the way to go if the open communication they sell is true and normalized.

giftedguy4978 · 2022-06-03T21:01:28+00:00

U mean like girls cheat?

midwesternMD · 2022-06-03T21:13:21+00:00

Eh. Maybe, maybe not. I have hooked up with a reasonable number of single women into casual sex over the years. They could’ve been lying for all I know. I always ask, and there have only been 2 times when I learned that they were still in relationships. I did not meet those women.

darkmoon09 · 2022-06-03T22:16:08+00:00

In a way shouldn't this be an advantage for guys? If she's looking for a relationship then signaling a willingness to commit should make things easy in theory, and if she's already in a committed relationship but is looking for some strange, then be the dark/mysterious guy who will give her a good NSA fucking.

It's not an ideal situation, and many guys resent the fact that this is how things are, but guys need to learn to adapt to the harsh landscape that is 21st century dating.

The_Meep_Lord · 2022-06-03T21:07:09+00:00

Uhhh, you can definitely hate the player.

crookedsummer2019 · 2022-06-03T21:21:27+00:00

Most women are not interested in being plates forever. There’s no incentive to give up on finding a relationship with guy who wants to commit, just to be a plate for a guy who doesn’t.

I don’t mean to sound harsh but the reality is dick is not a hot commodity for most women, relationships are. So if there is little benefit for her to be exclusive (ie she’s just a plate, fuck buddy etc), she WILL keep her options open and the plate will break when a better deal comes along.

Also, players attract other players, including married ones. For guys who want to play with no interest in a relationship beyond casual sex, they need to stick with the players and be ok with the fact that they are also being spun as a plate. It’s just par for the course.

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Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-06-03T21:21:36+00:00

Bro, every girl whose cheating is either throwing hints inadvertently or straight up about it. Dudes who claim “I didn’t know” now are probably just really good at looking the other way of they are hooking up with them. And some dudes don’t care. That’s on them I can see both sides (she’s gonna do it with someone anyways might as well me vs “can’t live with myself” doing that to some guy out there). I wouldn’t be able to live with myself, but like I said: it’s not that hard to figure out things if you are really talking or listening.
But, especially if you are young, the majority looking to hookup are either single or (let’s be real) just out if a relationship looking to have some fun.

You don’t have to play the game if you don’t want to. But you also don’t have to let it change your soul if you don’t let it.

2022-06-03T22:16:34+00:00

A lot of the girls/women who guys hookup with arent single. A lot of them are seeing other men, actively dating a guy, have a longterm boyfriend, long distance boyfriend, have a husband or are in some form of a situationship with another guy or guys. I would argue it's the majority/the norm.

Can't hate the player, hate the game

That's a typical nihilist take on anything. Just hate this inanimate abstraction instead of the actors who are pursuing it. I mean, if you can ruin someone else's life or at least cause them heartache but get away with it, are you really a bad person?

Title	The Dark Truth about the Game
Author	rampagekidd
Upvotes	3
Comments	68
Date	June 3, 2022 8:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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