Why are men so obssessed with women ??? I am asking this question as a man myself. I really want to know. I ask this question the last time and my post was taken down "as low effort" so I hope this time it will not be the case.

-I cannot be obssessed about someone who doesn't even know that I exist. Because yeah except handsome men, and men with money, other guys don't exist in their worlds. So why ?

-Some men complain about not having "sexual access" to women. Why not just deal with escorts ? I mean I find it better than dealing with "regular" women. No ambiguity, no need to court her, no emotional involvement, no failure, no need to match any standards to stand a chance, just direct talks and we get the business done by the next hour.

-Weird question but some men fantasize about violence happening to women in a sort of "revenge". I don't know dude. Someone ignores me, I will ignore this person as well. Not wishing her any harm.

-Why women want to make us believe they are not shallow ?

I mean, all men from kindergarten to College and later professional world (in short throughout their lives) see how women throw themselves at the feet of handsome men. I am not saying that to shame women or belittle them. That's your nature. Nothing wrong with that. But why trying so hard to prove the contrary ???