What is the point when most arguments and debate between the genders is just everyone agreeing?

wtknight · 2024-05-27T06:42:42+00:00

Removed. No rants.

AngeCruelle · 2024-05-27T02:15:08+00:00

Entertainment, stimulation. That is what the vast majority of arguments between internet strangers comes down to. Your mistake was believing there was ever some noble or admirable cause behind any of this in the first place.

Wattehfok · 2024-05-27T02:45:26+00:00

The examples you’ve cited don’t really back up your argument.

The first has a lot of comments that go deeper into the topic.

The second is nothing to do with being dumb and horny - it’s all about a dude who won’t take no for an answer.

The third is just about being out of an LTR and wanting a bit of a hoe phase. I was talking with a mate about his post breakup hoe phase yesterday. The only thing I chastised him for was not tarping up.

Literally no one who’s taken seriously is telling men they’re not allowed to want sex - just to remember that there’s another person with needs, wants and feelings involved. Is that really such a difficult idea to grasp?

SmokeySunDrop · 2024-05-27T02:51:01+00:00

You're first three paragraphs are saying that women and men are in the same boat and even their arguments come down to agreements.

Then you bash women for eight paragraphs.

Then in the top comment you say you just want to understand women.

Lol. Good luck

cornersfatly · 2024-05-27T02:54:32+00:00

You spend too much time on the internet. Next time you get the urge to write a reddit post using phrases like ‘slopping down a gang banging criminals cock’ you should look out the window or take a walk with your headphones in or something.

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Currentlycurious1 · 2024-05-27T03:11:12+00:00

There is so much disagreement on this sub, I don't even know where to start...

Authenticity: some people here absolutely swear by it, some people say it'll be the most misleading guide ever.
Black pill stuff: the importance of height is heavily debated.
The importance of looks: heavily debated. Some people say that models slay with no effort, others point out the high variance in female facial preference
The gym and muscles: some guys say it changed the way women look at them, others say it made no difference at all.

I could keep going and keep going. If you're looking for strawmanning, hypocrisy, soapboxing, and bad faith engagement, you'll find it. But there is an incredible amount of deep disagreement in this community and other dating communities online.

You're strawmanning as well by finding the stupidest posts on women subreddits to point out hypocrisy. There are incredibly deep disagreements around here, and if you can't handle them, that's fine, but don't pick on intellectual midgets to make yourself feel better.

EveningSuggestion283 · 2024-05-27T03:55:59+00:00

Typically, if you’re arguing or debating, it’s to present facts to shift an opinion or gain understanding. If you present facts that are valid, and reasonable, the conversation ends amicably and everyone walks away with an expanded perception and understanding which is key to human growth and development. Good practice for emotional intelligence.

Handsome_Goose · 2024-05-27T05:35:40+00:00

I have a slow day at work and RP sub is completely subverted by snake oil salesmen.

DarayRaven · 2024-05-27T04:44:36+00:00

Nothing is really gained in any of these debates, I assumed it was to arrive at some "truth" but truth is that it's all shallow as hell. And we all seem to agree.

Because most people here just want casual entertainment

That's why you've a sea of blackpillers,tradcons and every woman just agreeing with each other over the same talking points

I want to have this intellectual conversations on human dynamics but no let's just focus on asking the bear question, which is why l don't come here to "debate" but educate

januaryphilosopher · 2024-05-27T05:24:02+00:00

Are you on the same subreddit? No, it's not just everyone agreeing. And it's just a few red/black pill people who think dating is just about looks and money. I certainly would not agree with that.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2024-05-27T05:40:12+00:00

Point by point

https://np.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/1d0dkx6/insignificant_lol/ Its ok to generalize men, but its bad when men generalize women. Wahhh wahh, and we both do it.

This is less about generalisation and more about a culmination.

Not all men sexually harass. Yet almost all women are sexually harassed was the point of that.

Essentially no one has a right to treat people like shit. But also, if women are on the defense with strange men then can you blame them?

The problem isn't that it's generalising behaviour to all men. Its the fact that men can't accept that just because not all men doesn't mean that it isn't an insignificant amount. It's significant enough to affect nearly all women.

https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d0xny9/how_do_you_end_things_with_a_guy_like_this/ wahhh wahhh women CAN make dumb decisions due to "being horny" (unsure what this means for women) but if men do it they're monsters.

Is one isn't about being horny. It's about a man needing to take no for an answer

https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cyonfe/i_want_to_have_casual_sex_to_gain_confidence/ here is a woman saying she just wants to have random hookups for "fun" but oh my god men just arent even allowed to express this without women going ape about how they dont see women "as people".

Men are allowed to sleep around and do casual sex. They do it all the time. And in fact women get judged for this more than men so I dont know what you're complaining about.

There's a difference between sexualisation and objectification. You can be sexually attracted to someone, so as long as you acknowledge and behave like they are also people with feelings.

And also men and women who lead people on (vaguely expressing commitment when they only want casual) is what people generally are against. Not two people having sex.

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1cqpehh/comment/l3t6gy0/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

This is about someone saying that raising children is hard. And it becomes harder if you have mental health problems. Therapy to help you navigate those issues are a good thing. But also you are responsible for raising those kids too, not just the mother. So before having kids, think very very hard if it's something you can do, and do as well as you can without your issues affecting your kids negatively. Thats not about men. Thats about everyone. A woman with a host of mental issues should look at that too.

And really anyone who wants to be a parent should think hard about whether they can actually handle it

get therapy" is a flowery and dressed up way of saying "go to re-education" theyre saying youre broken and dont operate like how they want, its no different than the soviet political officer deciding you arent woke enough and need to be sent to a camp to "think right".

Listen don't get therapy if you want. But people are entitled to date you. If your values don't align it's likely a bad relationship anyway. Thats not being sent to camp. It's people individually saying "I refuse to date someone who don't believe in my God" or "I refuse to date people who aren't from my culture" or "I refuse to date people who don't believe my values"

Oh you desire sex? therapy, you need therapy dude, you should be asexual, and shes slopping down a gang banging criminals cock later that night. He just got done slaughtering a family for some jewelry and shes pleasuring him, he doesnt need therapy, the lonely man does lol

Wtf.

You don't need therapy if you like sex. You need therapy if you think it's okay to harass, pester or assault a woman.

And again wtf. Wtf is this scenario?

But sure okay. If you are a murderer you should be in jail. If you are a burglar you should be in jail.

And honestly, if you think this way and that all women are happy being gang banged with murderers...you do need therapy. Not because you're a lonely man but because of your thought process

All of this, when called out, is women saying "well, yeah we are abusing our position, so? men let us." with most the red pill men here saying "i get sex, you dont get sex? well, i get sex! everyone i have sex!" and women dont even bother calling these guys out here its hilarious, or the men just agree with the women and thats the end.

Sigh.

No one is entitled to sex. No one is entitled to a relationship. Consensual sex happens when both people want sex. This is not about "abusing power" it's, matter of yes to have sex the other person needs to want sex with you too.

serpensmercurialis · 2024-05-27T05:59:16+00:00

And the truths i put out here are usually laughed at and not taken seriously.

The "truth" in question on your previous post:

The clitoris isnt even part of the vagina, saying "clitoris stimulation" makes a woman orgasm is like saying picking your itchy nose makes you orgasm.

Which sounds like flat earth for pussy, honestly. That is why it's laughed at.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2024-05-27T06:17:47+00:00

I almost never see men just all high five all in agreement on a thing. I see a lot of push and pull. And there own view points and there own feelings.

I often see feminist places stomping out any free rain of thinking or disagreement with the what's fully accepted by the group. And often see the group turn on its own people. What honestly is kinda cult behavior. Crushing any free thinking. The one of us one of us mind set or your out. And Cheering each other's bad behaviors

But that's just what I see over and over and over again. Cause I find it important to look at both sides lived Experiences. Also cause im a men but i have a wife and soon to have children. So i think just looking at mens isues and how i feel is not the best way of looking at things. So im very open-minded and like to talk to all sides and views. But. Never seen so closed minded bunch of people on one side as that that demand being open minded. But so quick to shutdown anything past there own experience or views. Or so mean to there own group. Cant call it closer to cult behavior. Everything is sunshine and butterfly's as long as you stay in line and dont be thinking for your self and stay on script.

What ia scary honestly

Title	What is the point when most arguments and debate between the genders is just everyone agreeing?
Author	Imissjuicewrld999
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Date	May 27, 2024 2:07 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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