When I hear the name Chad, I image a bro-duche. Maybe a frat-boy in a striped polo shirt, drinking a PBR with his blonde hair flipped up in the front. But thinking back on my pre-RP days, this was the minority of Chads I ran into, because I thought, hey if I can stay away from that obvious d-bag frat Chad, I won't get my heart broken. But Chad isn't a stereotype.

Do you know what Chad looks like? He's that broody artist in your film class that's so passionate about his career. He's that guy you met at Comicon wearing your favorite band T-shirt that has actually heard of that obscure anime your so into right now. He's that guy in medical school that looks more like he should play a doctor on TV than an actual physician. And do you know what all of these Chad's have in common? They would have sex with you but not commit to you. And do you know what makes a Chad a Chad? Your relative relationship value.

That's right, that jerk that won't give you a call after making out with you all night at that party, isn't a jerk at all. He is reacting to your RV. Let that sink in for a moment. The fact that you weren't good enough for a relationship with this Chad, doesn't reflect poorly on Chad at all, only yourself. That means that your Chad may be another woman's, a better woman's, perfect Captain.

TL;DR - Chad is any guy that will have sex with you but not commit to you. If you are running into many Chads, you need to work on your RV. Chad isn't inherently an asshole, he may be another woman's ideal captain.