askTRP Megathread December 13

MattyAnon · 2017-12-13T13:34:48+00:00

Why is it that I only feel good about myself when I’m doing productive shit? If I don’t I feel like I’m worthless and get stressed out.

Eap123RP · 2017-12-13T14:24:01+00:00

I was wondering if there would be an actual beta uprising/revolt? I know a lot of people have heard of the red pill from the mainstream. But I'm also hearing it from religious conservatives. My dad is a religious nut (it's because he's bipolar), so he listens to these Catholic extremists. I overheard this one extremists named Theodore Shoebat talk about the 80% of women want 20% of men and a couple of red pill topics here and there. The guy is a 27 year old who's been single for years. He sounds like a mixture of black and purple pilled ideas. Because of all this, from leftist to rightists, I am now convinced that we might see some sort of beta revolution. Any thoughts?

Edit: what exactly happens in such a revolution?

Carson1099 · 2017-12-13T16:21:16+00:00

How can I go about being more charismatic in my social circle? I moved away for 3 years after high school - played college basketball, lost over 70lbs, started lifting, etc... but now my primary group of friends all evolved and formed this closed off social circle where I feel barely accepted. This or course could all be in my head. Im currently reading 48 laws of power and been trying to apply concurrently.

MentORPHEUS · 2017-12-13T18:03:13+00:00

How do I get over the feeling that their is not enough hours in the day to do everything I want to ?

I go hard for like 13 hours daily and the other few is food , traffic, family , etc.

But I find it hard to sleep sometimes cause their is still so much shit to do.

Ballsscrape · 2017-12-13T20:31:55+00:00

Saw advice on here last year that talked about how important it is to lift and I started to lift on a small bulk even though i was skinnyfat. Went from 5'6 149lbs 17-18% ish bodyfat to 171lbs with about 21%. My lifts went up a lot but I still am hesitant to cut even though my face is prob at its worst its ever been and ive definitely built some very noticable muscle mass. Even then , I feel like I am too weak to look like I lift in a shirt once im leaner.

My lifts are at 5'6 170lbs are:

230lbs Bench
150lbs OHP
320lbs Squat
400lbs Deadlift

If I cut now to like under 15%(preferably 12-13%), will I end up being skinny lean? Or do you guys think that I should keep bulking until I can hit 2 plate bench for 5 reps atleast? My biggest concern with cutting now is that I am afraid of looking small in a shirt once I cut and not even look muscular in clothes even though I have 1 year lifting experience.

red-arctic-tern · 2017-12-14T04:01:43+00:00

Ive been pulling attention from girls by acting like a chad on social media (playful insults, outrageous remarks, speaking my mind, etc.). Something inside me is screaming I'm doing too much but it works 80% of the time. Would you guys put a limit on this? Is there advice on this kind of approach to society?

jNSKkK · 2017-12-13T23:31:50+00:00

Are there any circumstances where it is acceptable to bring up the concept of an LTR with a woman? The teachings here state that you should always wait for the woman to initiate commitment. Are there any exceptions to this rule?

wander_company · 2017-12-14T05:39:41+00:00

Do i want my chad friends with me when i'm out gaming?

On one hand it definitely boosts my status being with super cool good looking guys. On the other hand they obviously outshine me in all departments when it comes to gaming girls. I find it to be a hard choice to make

Thoughts?

gabilromariz · 2017-12-14T01:04:53+00:00

Only tangentially related to TRP but I figured you guys would have the best suggestions: do you know any good books to help with negotiations tips/techniques/etc? My boyfriend has been promoted and he sometimes mentions difficult negotiations on this new role, I want to help (but have no clue)

BakedPhysicist · 2017-12-14T10:21:29+00:00

How come alot of mothers turn their sons into betas? Should it not be biologically favorable for the mother to make her son into an alpha thus increasing the survival of her genes?

WaT30 · 2017-12-14T13:07:42+00:00

What does it mean when fucking guys compliment your looks the whole time (workplace, gym, clubs) but no chicks seem to be interested in you? Last week when I was out, a random dude started to chat with me in the club, gave me compliments like I look slick, etc. that I should just pull the bitches (he wasn't gay), meanwhile before that literally no luck with girls, and I approached around 5 of them.

Logicien6 · 2017-12-13T19:06:24+00:00

How far in advance do you typically try to schedule plans with a girl?

cherryCanSuckMyDick · 2017-12-14T00:42:00+00:00

At 5'5, seriously is there really any point in trying?

GrimTRP · 2017-12-14T04:59:34+00:00

I was laying in bed with a girl cuddling and she was responsive but I was too scared to go for the sex. After reading post on here about guys getting charges placed on them and shit, I got filled with anxiety and we just ended up falling asleep. Any comments?

ArtistBlock · 2017-12-13T16:12:01+00:00

Can you be a loner and still be the top percent? I don't have a social circle and I'm fine with that. In trp it's recommended that you are socially savy but I'm about that life.

Beachbum74 · 2017-12-14T00:27:15+00:00

How many plates is too many plates

bearockstar23 · 2017-12-14T00:30:53+00:00

I shit where I ate. Had a girl at my work as a FWB. Fucked her brains out, had a lot of fun. We did couple stuff near the end and I didn't mind it. Problem is that I lost frame. I became super stressed about work, developed hardcore insomnia, and was just anxious. I still went to work and did what I had to do but it was survivor mode. Right as I met the worst of my deadlines and going through them, she tells me she is done being FWB and maybe wanted to try dating (she didn't mention me specifically but I was just caught offguard and was just "okay whatever"). I was disappointed but I figured I'd be fine. She started being cold around me at work, ghosting me. No more cooperation at work, no more friendship. That hurt alot. I was confused more than ever. This chick was the best sexual chemistry I've had while unleashing a dominant side of me. I wasn't into her too much at first (too short for me, a little too girlish looking instead of womenly, immature etc.) but that shit seemed to change over the year and half we were together. She cooked for me and was cool with me doing whatever. I'm finishing up work but since I can't go no contact, seeing her hurts. Now I learned she is dating someone and I can't help but feel I may have have fucked up a decent chick for long term stuff. I don't know what the fucks up with my head.

2017-12-14T21:04:07+00:00

Retarded question: Can you support "The Red Pill" and Laissez faire Capitalism but at the same time have a negative view on America Foreing Policy?

slothsenpai · 2017-12-14T22:30:25+00:00

How do I get over the anger and depression knowing what Feminism has done to our society, how heavily they condemn lonely, awkward males despite the virtue signalling (I've dealt with autism) and feeling like I was "robbed" and "lied to" by my own friends, family, teachers etc about the type of guy I should be like?

Chaddeus_Rex · 2017-12-15T00:48:28+00:00

I've been asking girls out from my social circle. Some have gone cold on me, which is irritating. It's too late to rebuild my social circle as I'm in fourth year of college and finishing up this year. Is there any way to recover and get back some of that sweet poontang from my social circle?

dreamscape87 · 2017-12-15T03:27:27+00:00

Hey guy, i have just started swallowing the red pill and in experiencing transition period right now. Hopefully this could help me get better.

I have read most of the side bars but I have a question. Will the IOI/IOD become different in a conservative country like most of the Asian country?

judethedude · 2017-12-15T08:47:17+00:00

Anyone got simple steps for getting back into game after a LTR? Like progression-wise. Even a reference to a solid link would do. I'm trying to find quality but having some trouble

Radinax · 2017-12-15T12:31:18+00:00

Which was the hardest but most rewarding women you've been with?

Carson1099 · 2017-12-13T21:30:02+00:00

Also had poor ass sleep growing up and went on a crazy mdma binge 2 summers ago that fucked me up royally for ateast a year straight. Found solace wth this sub.

2017-12-14T00:25:48+00:00

I'm 45, in good shape, want more. It took me a while to get skinny, 5'9" & 155#'s now. Entirely uninterested in bulk/cut cycles at my age, considering the difficulty in becoming a not fat fuck in the first place. Also, I'm worried about grappling injuries along with hypertrophy.

Google the "Clean bulk" and found the following advice:

"While all your meals are important, special attention should be paid to your post-workout meal or shake. To maximize muscle growth and recovery, a post workout shake consisting of whey protein and a fast-acting carbohydrate (like dextrose) is ideal. Adding supplements like creatine monohydrate (5 grams) and glutamine (5-10 grams) to your post-workout shake will further enhance its effectiveness. Simply adding a post-workout shake to your regime will accelerate your results so don't skimp out on it!"

Good? Bad? Indifferent?

dirks74 · 2017-12-14T23:49:31+00:00

We had our company xmas party last night and I got kino with 4 woman over a span of 7 hours. My target was to only practice my game on 3 selected ones. I ended up talking/flirting with 7 or 8. The last one invited me to her home when her husband is away.

Question, what do I do with the other 3? I dont wanna beta orbit them. Do I invite them for coffee breaks or do I continue with just greeting and short small talks?

I know, you shouldn't eat where you shit, but if you have no kitchen and now dining room avaible, what do you do? (I m married btw)

Title	askTRP Megathread December 13
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Date	December 13, 2017 1:10 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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