AWALT - a short confirmation

globst · 2016-09-17T20:24:59+00:00

....and you're still going to move in with her after these revelations?

scarletspider3 · 2016-09-17T20:28:14+00:00

Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.

https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/

Edit:

This recent revelation however made me feel once again like a beta chump whom the girl wants to settle down with once carousel years are over.

Betas in waiting

trippinallday · 2016-09-17T20:43:28+00:00

"AWALT"

Proceeds to cohabitate after learning she has an N count of AT LEAST 22 (under the assumption she was being totally honest which is, unlikely).

What are you doing bro lmfao. Have you internalized ANYTHING from here?

RealMcGonzo · 2016-09-18T00:19:18+00:00

she had a LTR when she was 20 and after that ended she was totally heartbroken and lonely and did a lot of traveling to find herself.

I read that and immediately interpreted it as

She dumped her first BF cuz he was a beta chump then fucked more guys than she can remember.

Because it didn't happen the way she said. She didn't fuck all those guys because she was lonely, heart-broken or trying to "find herself" LOL. She fucked all those guys because she liked it. Then after she fucked more guys than she could remember, the hamster took over. She's not a slut just because she fucked one guy after another, no - not her. She's a special case. There had to be other reasons. And presto! There are, finding herself, lonely, heartbroken. Plus many did not count for one reason or another so she can scale down to a couple dozen. There were all those times she was drunk, plus all those other guys that had some great hooch/drugs back at their place, plus all those "hyt" guys, plus those foursomes - can't pass up those rare opportunities - I mean, it could be weeks before she got another shot like that.

You'll get there. This sort of instant interp will come with time.

KyfhoMyoba · 2016-09-17T22:49:34+00:00

did a lot of traveling to find herself.

That was your clue/red flag right there. She did a lot of travelling and found herself impaled on various cocks in various countries.

Handsome_Stud · 2016-09-17T21:00:55+00:00

You're moving in with an AWALT??? I guess we will see more of your life stories here.

melxer · 2016-09-17T22:56:51+00:00

You know the rule in here. She admited that she hosted 22 cocks of different shape and color, so you can multiply this number by 2 or 3 and you'll have an estimate closer to reality.

sd4c · 2016-09-18T01:18:31+00:00

You are completely fucked, OP. The fact that you would even CONSIDER, EVER, moving in with a man or a woman who has lied to your face demonstrates that you have very little self-respect, and that you have oneitis for her, and that you're unable to get/spin plates reliably. What did she do to atone for her mistake of lying to you? Sniffles and promises? An apology absent of reparations of some kind (giving you passwords, taking you on a trip, paying for couples therapy) is simply an excuse to be shit on again.

You might as well stock up on anti-depressants and whiskey. You're going to need them when you find out she's cheating, or she leave suddenly for little given reason.

If you want to win this- DUMP HER. You can go back in a month after lifting your ass off to see if she's contrite. Then she will know you mean business. Don't discuss what you did inbetween. It's none of her business, tame or wild.

RS73 · 2016-09-17T22:04:42+00:00

I'll just leave this here: "Teacher admits to sex with 16-year-old; sent selfies during honeymoon, according to complaint" http://fox13now.com/2016/08/05/teacher-admits-to-sex-with-16-year-old-sent-selfies-during-honeymoon-complaint/

103342 · 2016-09-17T20:31:51+00:00

It always amazes me how oblivious some guys are. A girl that is single at 27 is never going to be LTR material.

A real "relationship material girl" won't be going through the dating market for so long. She has seen and done everything there was to see and do by that age. Her looks and patience are all going downhill from there.

If you plan on having a serious LTR don't go much over 25, if you do, just accept that she is settling for you.

I know how appealing more mature women can be, they seem more rational and easygoing than younger girls a lot of the time, and some of them can even make good conversation and also be great in bed.

But, let me be real with you, this will be over as soon as she gets you. If a guy wasn't good enough for her when she was younger, or she couldn't keep a guy around then, she isn't going to be much better now.

Dayman_ah-ah-ah · 2016-09-18T15:52:28+00:00

She's 27, of course her name n-count won't be low. I swear some guys on her expect to find a fucking virgin to settle down with. The real problem here is she expected you to pay the bills. She sees you as a provider and that's where you fucked up

WillMeatLover · 2016-09-18T06:39:31+00:00

Break up with her you beta loser.

_the_shape_ · 2016-09-17T22:04:23+00:00

Are you prepared to give her the boot should she come up short on her contribution, perhaps once or twice, perhaps indefinitely?

Because from what you've written, you're dealing with someone who determines what 'counts' and what doesn't according to her quite fluid interpretation of reality (i.e. "if we were never 'official' or if it was just like an on and off thing, then like whatever it doesn't like really count ughh")

Enjoy ~~Hope for~~ the best, don't be surprised at ~~expect~~ the worst - let that be your new understanding of AWALT

RolleTheStoneAlone · 2016-09-18T01:17:47+00:00

And even if you somehow discovered a women is actually a NAWALT, there is no guarantee she will remain that way. Time, boredom, age and entitlement settles in like dust on a windowsill.

aherne18 · 2016-09-18T05:23:59+00:00

sweet 27 year old HB8

Take her off the pedestal...

did a lot of traveling to find herself

This is the reddest of flags. Translated from slutspeak, it means she had sex with people all over the world...

Well tonight after a bottle of wine it turns out these traveling years weren't that lonely after all. An international cock carousel of around 20 dicks is what it was.

Don't make any bets on that number. She doesn't count ONS or, given the number is high, she can claim to have "forgot" some partners!. Once again, the reddest of flags: that very statement would have dried me like Sahara. The very fact you continue with her is beyond my understanding...

I was surprised to learn that she thought she won't have to contribute to utility bills etc because "I would use the apartment anyway" and I earn a lot more than her

Once again a BIG red flag: she's searching for a BB to home in and you definitely look like a right target (you act thirsty and gullible, you are rich).

I pushed back hard until she agreed to 50/50 and was quite proud.

Don't bet on that! Remember that ATTRACTION IS NON-NEGOCIABLE. Instead of pleading like a thirsty guy does, just leave and never look back. Also don't believe you got your way out of this: if you carry on with her YOU will pay for everything (she always has the excuse: "man, I'm short of money, PAY!".

Equality means equal payments, too.

She's not your equal! You should have DOMINATED her!!!

Fuck this shit, I really thought this one was different.

Before getting a moment of honesty from her, which is always unlikely, keep the slut detector (TM) at highest sensitivity.

feminists_are_dumb · 2016-09-18T03:52:10+00:00

Fuck this shit, I really thought this one was different.

That's the hardest lie to let go of. Even the ones who haven't actually had a turn on the CC totally would if they could get away with it.

ShunterAlhena · 2016-09-18T12:54:37+00:00

Thanks for the passionate replies guys. The Red Pill is a bitter thing to swallow. I reread my own post with fresh eyes and realized how fucking beta this all sounds.

Moving in together is now out of the question (she made her revelations only last night, I didn't know about this shit before). Marriage I wholeheartedly reject after ingesting TRP. And I've been committed childfree for many years.

The only thing I'm now debating is whether I should break up with her. Without moving in together, there is absolutely no financial commitment or other risks. And as she is a regular gym goer she has a tight beautiful body, most assuredly pre-Wall, and is passionate about sex.

vagiants · 2016-09-18T05:37:30+00:00

all aboard the cock carousel!

allrandomworldnews · 2016-09-18T11:08:44+00:00

HB8

Only 2 guys in her life

Dude get real maybe an unfuckable 3 or less could reach that or a nun that does not see men all day. Your girl looks(looked???) too good for that.

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2016-09-20T16:04:13+00:00

27

High speed wall impact imminent! Jump ship, jump ship!

20 dicks

But those don't count to her.

Mods, can we get a BP example flair?

WineConnoisseur · 2016-09-18T21:10:39+00:00

So a selling point for her to you is that she's "passionate about sex". But you may breakup with her because she's HAD sex. Makes complete sense. Yep.

Bielzabutt · 2016-09-17T21:12:25+00:00

Why would you let her move in at all??

Ultimate_Failure · 2016-09-18T02:01:17+00:00

Welp, it won't be long before this lazy bitch is pregnant.

iamthetable · 2016-09-18T02:52:45+00:00

Signed 3 different leases with the same girl under (first LTR ever) the pretense we would be splitting things equally. I got taken for 3 rides because I was beta bux. Learn from my mistake, DON'T FUCKING DO IT.

RationalKing · 2016-09-18T08:07:54+00:00

If you still move in with her after this, you got some issues bro.

real-boethius · 2016-09-18T08:20:43+00:00

Rule 1. There are no unicorns.

Rule 2. If yours is a unicorn, see rule 1.

ReddittFeist · 2016-09-18T12:57:24+00:00

Hey @ShunterAlhena

There's something you should think about here.

This girl was being absolutely consistent with what she told you before- in chick logic.

You see, unlike guys, girls divide physical sex into 2 categories: 1 is long term, relationship sex and 2 is sex that "doesn't count"

So you see, in her chick view of the world, she really had only been with 2 guys. Most chicks are so caught up in the way they experience the world don't get that guys don't feel the same way about provider vs. lover sex.

Anyhow, it seems like she passes the Boner Test, so why not keep sexing her until it's time for both of you to move on?

_PowerBull · 2016-09-18T21:38:48+00:00

She is slowly trying to rope you in into marriage through a relationship and is not going to be pleased after you refuse her :D

Also provider status confirmed.

EStriker18 · 2016-09-18T17:19:20+00:00

No shit. Even the ugliest hag on average has 5-6 sex partners by age 15 , the better looking women you can multiply any number they give you by 10. There's a reason why women have double the rate of Gonorrhea men do (amongst whites, at least).

They're morally bankrupt, infected with god knows what, offer very little companionship outside of sex, and despite being empowered career womyn want you to pay for everything.

Fuck her and toss her back into the sea. Your high paying career makes you a target for predators, just warning you.

king_of_red_alphas · 2016-09-18T03:10:40+00:00

"Carousel rider" Your fucking subreddit advises you to go spin plates and have frequent sex, while you demonize women do the exact same fucking thing as you.

You say women act special because they have vaginas. You act like entitled pricks because you have a dick. Feel free to enlighten me on your logic on how all women are the same and are whores for doing the exact same things as you do.

Strum_Gewehr · 2016-09-18T08:01:56+00:00

It is amply clear that this one is just Plate worthy. It is foolish to let her stay in your house.

ReddittFeist · 2016-09-18T13:01:49+00:00

It seems like you're the kinda guy who would like to cohabitate. From your short account above, though, it seems like you made a few mistakes.

If you'd like to find out about how to set up living arrangements properly with a chick, this blog post is the best guide I've seen:

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/02/19/how-to-move-in-with-a-woman/

Title	AWALT - a short confirmation
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Upvotes	81
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Date	September 17, 2016 8:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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