Don't be a hater

rosbergsessa420 · 2019-07-26T19:05:06+00:00

All of this stuff spans from insecurity.

A secure man that owns the fuck of whatever he is doing doesn't need to hate anything or anyone. Just walks away.

Anger, impotence (not sexual but general), hate, negativity, sadness, it all spans from a deep place where the ego knows that you are not really "owning it". If you have all your shit together there will be no insecurity cutting through.

leftajar · 2019-07-26T19:08:51+00:00

Yeah, what the hell happened. The point of the red pill is to build the life that you want.

Yes, most Western women are fucked in the head; that is a correct premise. But the conclusion of this sub seems be, "therefore, become an amoral assholes who pumps and dumps every bitch in sight."

That's called a "non sequitur," meaning the conclusion doesn't follow from the premise.

Use this knowledge to SCREEN women, so you can find one of the good ones. Because casual sex makes your dick happy and your heart cold and calloused.

The true love of a woman is enlivening; it makes you want to be better. That's what men sacrifice when they pursue rampant hedonism.

Sisyphus_XIV · 2019-07-26T19:15:11+00:00

I had been thinking of writing a similar post, I couldn’t agree more. TRP isn’t PUA: it’s not just about displaying value, it’s about becoming valuable - which means bettering yourself. Vengefulness, cynicism, anger... aren’t signs of power, but rather of weakness: they are the result of not being able to accept the world as it is, or to shape it into what one wants.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t focus on displaying value (game), don’t get me wrong: TRP IS a « sexual strategy » sub after all. It does mean however, that forsaking yourself in order to have sex, is still giving too much importance to women: it is still, albeit in a reverse manner, pedestaling them.

Looking forward to more content from you.

thechopps · 2019-07-26T18:46:25+00:00

That is a really good observation.

okuli · 2019-07-26T19:07:56+00:00

Negativity comes from all the lies and manipulation men experienced with women. Most men who come here do that after being burned with women, cheated on and being used by them in financial or emotional way.

After reading RedPill at least I started to understand what kind of game we're playing. It's much easier to recover when you know that any day could be last with her if she decides to "light switch" you off.

RivenHalf · 2019-07-26T19:09:45+00:00

I agree with all...but bitches still ain't shit lol

mr_sandmam · 2019-07-26T19:07:04+00:00

I'm reading 48 laws of power and getting those kind of vibes. Too extreme for my style

AlphaTrumpsfapping · 2019-07-26T18:58:13+00:00

Where's all this negativity coming from?

Porn

CainPrice · 2019-07-26T18:55:53+00:00

Sex is one of many things to pursue in life. It's not really better or worse than pursuing money or a hobby you really like, or anything else. But it is definitely as important of a thing to experience and enjoy as any of your other pursuits, and if you are unable to obtain it, there is something wrong with you. Being able to meet your sexual needs with another person is an adult skill, like being toilet trained and knowing how to tie your shoes and cook dinner. If you don't know how to meet your sexual needs, you're not a grown-up yet.

Sex is important, and if you don't actually pursue it, you won't have it.

It's a popular fallacy to believe that if you just live a great life, women will magically fall into it. But that's not the case. It doesn't matter how much you work out or what job you get or how much money you bank or how cool your hobbies are. Women don't just magically appear with their mouth around your dick because you do all of that. You have to specifically do the work to meet your sexual needs.

Which means that it's not enough to run around hitting the gym and saving money, while sitting around puzzled that women aren't kicking your door down to fuck you. If that's what you do, you're not a grown-up yet.

Doing the work to meet your sexual needs is part of being a grown-up.

goldenshoelace8 · 2019-07-26T19:30:43+00:00

Dude this is a message for me, i’ve been like this a couple weeks now, i have become such a jerk, i mean i stay always in my lane and on my business and by that i tend to isolate, i need to practice being more approachable and talkative

AnEyeForAnAye · 2019-07-26T19:16:15+00:00

I think this reminder is good from time to time, especially for people who have swallowed the pill but have not internalized it. Hating people "just because " is retarded and you should deffinetly strive to be a "decent " person.

But let's not kid ourselves. This is 2019. Most people are so fucked up where men are girls women are - I was gonna say boys but that's a bit too much.

There are good on both male and female sides sure, but when you have the unfortunate "pleasure" of traveling on a public transport in a big city, you can't help but look at people and simple think to yourself " what the fuck man "

Be positive and move forward in your mission like you say sure, but at the end of the day simply by the 80 / 20 rule , most women AND men ain't shit in 2019.

_Ulan_ · 2019-07-26T19:46:13+00:00

It's not about thinking negatively. It's about being capable of thinking negatively.

You don't loose your BP habits by being an "overall decent person"

GayLubeOil · 2019-07-26T19:18:34+00:00

When 100 IQ normlords are confronted with serious critique (which is exactly what the Red Pill is,) they do exactly what you have done in this post. Reduce broad social critique to a personal psychological issue.

The middle class is collapsing, the economy is teetering on the brink of a major recession, housing costs are sky high. So women arnt fucking men because men have less resources and feminism has brainwashed them to be less fertile.

The normlord can't comprehend these issues because normlords can't abstract enough to see the big picture.

However the normlord can understand people at the level emotions hence the feelz-policing.

Sort yourself out bucko! Life isn't about competing with other men. It's about being a cheerful narrow minded faggot.

No thanks dog 🐕 This is a big yikes from me.

0io- · 2019-07-26T19:07:41+00:00

Haters gonna hate. Put the work in on yourself, and then focus on what you want and getting your own needs met. People are getting mad because the world doesn't work the way they think it should and they feel like they've been lied to. They have been lied to. You want to be a happy guy who is in great shape and fun to be around. Generally speaking when you get your mind and body where you want them to be, it's pretty easy to get girls to come along for the ride. Like anything else, the better you get at it, the more fun it is.

Nighthawkdragon8 · 2019-07-26T19:16:27+00:00

Women love positivity and good emotions, so people who leave negative comments are usually the people not getting laid. Your behavior during the day manifests how you will be when you go out to game.

barb9212 · 2019-07-26T20:06:10+00:00

This was a much-needed post. A lot of posts these days have gone to crap and in my opinion and contributed to getting this Reddit guaranteed IMO. Funny this started happening around the same time that loser Reddit, which won't be named, got shutdown. TRP is not women ain't shit. It's first trying to make yourself a better man. More women being more attracted to you will be a result of that. It's never been I'm a scumbag but I want women and I'm going to use these techniques to I saw on the internet to manipulate yourself. Thank you for this post OP.

TigerXtrm · 2019-07-26T20:10:32+00:00

Finally, someone fucking said it.

guywhoisambitious · 2019-07-26T21:06:12+00:00

This! Most of the crap on this sub is a bunch of people overthinking everything. Work on becoming a healthy person, raise your SMV, take care of your finances, your body/mind, your character, learn how to draw boundaries, learn who YOU are... all of the basic common sense stuff.

Everything else will come naturally.

You see a cute girl? You wanna approach her? Do it! You wanna compliment her? Do it! Fuck what trp says. Learn as part of your process. Experiment with things. Become a good person and a great person. In philosophical terms, find a balance between morality and competence (they’re two sides of the same coin, but that’s a conversation for another day).

I can keep on going. I guess my point is that most of the nuances talked about here come as side effects of you becoming a better person. 80/20. Focus on the main stuff and everything will flow naturally.

NYCMusicMarathon · 2019-07-26T21:11:04+00:00

Integrity ...
the one trait Warren Buffet requires
in all his hires.

be fair and honorable.

Be Fair, Honorable = Integrity

A powerful tool in one's tool box.

Rudd504 · 2019-07-26T21:21:51+00:00

This is the most truthful, well adjusted and productive thing I've seen on here in a long time.

the_Milkweed · 2019-07-26T19:42:06+00:00

PREACH, I just made a post about a similiar topic and the top comment is 'u must be gay'. Good fucking argument broski, I can tell youre doing well in life.

Theophagist · 2019-07-26T19:08:22+00:00

It's not about being mean, it's about not placating, not pandering, and not being subservient. It's about being realistic, pragmatic, honest, and stoic. Many of these things can be perceived as being "mean" and that has a lot of men throwing their arms up and saying "OK fuck it, I'm mean then." Treat her badly doesn't mean treat her badly, it means don't treat her the way TV told her she should want to be treated.

I have no doubt in my mind that meanness is the purview of the incel, not the alpha, and you my nigga are preaching to the choir.

Maybe some 19 year old who still doesn't have hair on her pussy properly.

Noice.

broader context than just sitting at home scheming how to manipulate a bitch to fuck with you tonight.

How is this mean? It ain't mean to give a woman what she wants nor is it evil to only want this out of your relationships.

sadomasochrist · 2019-07-26T19:07:51+00:00

High beta... The post.

[deleted] · 2019-07-26T19:58:19+00:00

I agree with you OP and that's why you should get off this sub cause its 90% what you just described.

l4w_z0ne · 2019-07-26T20:05:58+00:00

Women are like children is so much preached here. Would you be a shitbag towards kiddos?

imheregonow004 · 2019-07-26T20:43:36+00:00

Finally a positive post on here. For a place where it’s about being ‘woke’ there’s too much negativity. A lot of ppl on here have insecurities which they reflect on others. Being street wise, and confident is enough. Manipulating to get pussy is weak shit but this happens all the time and women are dumb enough to fall for it every time so you can also see why it happens.

[deleted] · 2019-07-26T21:08:32+00:00

tbh though dude are probably just in the anger phase. I really resonated with the angry dudes on TRP when I first found it and I was looking at women like "you whores, die". Legit even was looking at my own GF and relatives like "you ain't shit".

now that the anger phase is over I see the angry Red pill posts and I"m like "that's a bit much".

point is that I think it's just the anger phase, eventually you get over it.

YouNeverKnowAnyone · 2019-07-26T21:21:59+00:00

Men with high scores in dark triad traits breed 2.7x as much. So I’m just gonna keep doing what I’m doing. Pretty sure “no moralizing” is a rule in this sub.

yairof · 2019-07-27T02:35:00+00:00

Why did you remove it! This was a really good point that needs to be brought to light.

Vaerr · 2019-07-26T19:06:06+00:00

Pretty much. No girl wants a guy with a pointless bad attidue in her life. Especially since most of the guys taking the "exude confidence" advice don't have the actual lifestyle/experience to back it up, they're just faking it. Acting like a bad boy/player peaks her interest short term, but eventually if she figures out you're worse off than the last guy she dated, and you just have a bad additude all the time, no girl wants that in her life.

OSaraiva · 2019-07-26T19:28:00+00:00

So what, some people are manipulative fuckers, some are decent and well behaved, some are fair and strong, some are crooks.

Some want to be strong, some have the focus on being rich, some cannot give a fuck.

You're no one to say what one should be. Strive for what you want, get good at it. Unless you're beyond the realm of basic morals and humanity, the hell with it.

nobody_thinks · 2019-07-26T19:37:27+00:00

Nah my friends, graduate, get a MSc, master a craft, indulge in a hobby and be good at it, excel at your job, establish financial independence or whatever floats your boat.

none of this has anything to do with sexual strategy.

all I see is dudes telling other dudes women ain't shit, treat her badly, manipulate her etc etc.

are you a male feminist?

Imperator_Red · 2019-07-26T21:58:24+00:00

Sub gets gayer every day. Maybe we need an age 25 min to post?

Title	Don't be a hater
Author	drumperion
Upvotes	195
Comments	69
Date	July 26, 2019 6:43 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/ci6qy9/dont_be_a_hater/
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