http://realnewspaper.me/2015/05/28/dateamom/

This is my first post after an eternity of lurking on TRP. Saw this little nugget of what initially seemed to be RP advice, which made me foolishly think for a moment that the world had finally seen the light... Until I actually read what was in the post.

This is horrific. The encouragement to wife up these used up women who have been alpha-widowed. He makes it clear at every point that women are not to blame, that they are victims at the hands of the disgusting men, who by the way they themselves picked, but don't focus on that.

Here's the reality, women have a period in their life when they have an almost endless supply of suitors coming to vie for their affections. The issue with single mothers is not that these men change their behavior, but rather that this is who these men were in the first place, and these women simply don't wish to believe it, and all the meanwhile they ignore the men who wanted them.

But now that they have their child and they've struggled, here comes captain save-a-hoe, to provide a nice home, with a care and love. Can men not seek their own level? Why must society constantly force men to look at these women as if they are just the same as us? Why must men step up to the plate, when you couldn't be bothered to even try to make responsible choices for you future, why must a man bring himself down to the level of raising another man's child. The reality is that water seeks its own level, don't ever be twisted like this fool into thinking this drivel of marrying a single mother. Go have your own shot at happiness, these women all had plenty and threw it all away, and all so you could help her pick up the pieces, disgusting.