SUMMARY

Caught a glimpse of true abundance mentality by having the balls to walk away

BODY

My ex drove from another city this weekend to pick up her furniture that was left at my place. For some quick background, we were together 2 years (pre RP), I had more BP tendencies, but I left her because I was growing on my own and realized it wasn't time for a serious relationship, no matter how much I cared for her.

Fast forward almost a year, we've not talked much, I've found RP, and started implementing it (typical story on here so I won't go into it).

On her way over we exchanged a few texts, I was just being a smart ass, amusing myself. She was furious and called me to say that she wasn't for my entertainment. Later, she arrives with a truck and a couple people to help us move. After all the moving and some fun with her friends, these people leave in their own car and it's just us.

Her: Do you do it on purpose?

Me: Do what?

Her: You were so charismatic with them and you've been mean to me.

Me: They loved me didn't they? with a smirk.

She followed me into my apartment and says she has a favor to ask of me.

Her: I need you to give me a ride to their place so I can pick up my stuff, I can't drive that truck

I smiled while I thought of how I was gonna say no.

Her: Well, will you or should I just go?

Me: You should just go

I knew I had to say no. I wanted to say no. I've always been too fucking nice. I knew that moment was important in changing that.

She turned around and walked out. I was standing in my kitchen drinking some water. I stood there and thought. I thought about TRP. I thought she'd probably come back, but also that if she didn't, I'd be fine. I already had other plans anyway.

5...........4..........3.........2......1..... Knock Knock

No. Fucking. Way.

I open the door, she takes one step forward and I kiss her. She is the most receptive she's ever been, starts undressing, and you know how the rest goes.

During sex, a couple times when I said something cocky, she replied with "I already came, I don't need you anymore". Both times, I stopped, sat back and said, "okay, then go". This made her so crazy..

These moments actually blew my mind. Not only because it made her want me more, but because for the first time I genuinely didn't care if she left. I've faked abundance for a while now, I've seen how acting that way is attractive, but for the first time I felt it.

I've been thinking about how TRP makes us good fishermen. It teaches us how to cast our net wide and catch some fucking fish so we don't starve. But what's more important is that it makes us confident fishermen. If I pull back my net and I didn't catch anything, it's no big deal, because I know how to do it again, and again. This makes any one fish insignificant.

After having sex my ex waited for me while I took a shower and got dressed up to go out (without her). She told me about all the nice guys that take her out to dinner and buy her drinks. She told me how tired she is of them, and how she keeps looking for a copy of me. This surprised me because I was a total pussy back then, but I always fucked her like an animal (her words).

I did end up giving her a ride (if I shouldn't have I'd definitely like to hear it - I got what I wanted so I rewarded her for it). On the way over she asked if I'd give her one last kiss goodbye. I said maybe.

Before she left, she told me to give her a call when I was in town so we could get together. She basically plated herself..

LESSONS LEARNED

-Never be afraid to walk away. It not only makes the hamster spin but it sets you free.

-Seeing your ex may be TRP on easy mode. It helped me see key principles taught here first hand

-Women will always rather fuck us to the nice guy faggots giving her whatever she wants