I don't have my card.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-02-23T23:23:51+00:00

We've all been there. I know I've been stuck for a few $100 meals in my lifetime. Just stop doing dinner dates.

moodymela · 2015-02-23T23:20:06+00:00

"Equal right equal rights equal rights, but pay for all my shit."

jb_trp · 2015-02-24T00:13:57+00:00

she knew what I wasn't interested in a LTR and we were just there to fuck. So last weekend I take her to a nice restaurant.

Huh? If you both agreed to just have sex why did you meet at a nice restaurant? Had you guys even hooked up before things? Sounds like she had you pegged as a beta bux.

If this was your first time meeting, like off of Tinder or OkC, you should have just met for a drink, so if she pulls the "I don't have my card" ploy you're not stuck with a hefty bill.

Any way I pay for our combined meal and I drive her home. She hops straight out of the car, walks up to her door and shuts it all in the space of 5 seconds. Anyway I keep talking to her because she is good looking and is alright to talk to.

She got what she wanted out of you. When men don't care about women they often treat sex objects, women don't care about men they often treat them as success objects. Sounds like she used you, man.

The idea that she was going to control me with her vagina is ridiculous.

I think that idea doesn't sound ridiculous to her. She's been doing it since she was 16--I guarantee it. Hell, if women thought I was cute enough to buy me drinks or dinner I would take it, even if I wasn't interested in them.

I'm glad you stood up for yourself the second time. Now lose her number--she's a leech.

brooksyx93 · 2015-02-23T23:49:02+00:00

My ex would pull this crap all the time, she would come over to my house and order a pizza or something for delivery. When it got there I would have to pay because she didn't "have her card". I can't believe I put up with that BS.

CapnDancyPants · 2015-02-24T00:16:49+00:00

Buying a meal for a fwb or ltr has always gone well for me...but before regular sex it always broke the deal! You can have sex before dinner or not at all, apparently.

Invalidity · 2015-02-24T01:31:47+00:00

Question, did you want to eat at these nice restaurants or did you want to take her out to the restaurants? If the interaction is simply limited to casual sex, you should keep it as such to avoid confusion because you're blurring the lines between plate and something more.

It's unreasonable to US that you told her to bring her card to chip in for the bill and she didnt want to, but it doesn't mean jack to her because she's not thinking about what is reasonable, she's thinking, "He covered me once, he'll do it again."

nemaxofredpill · 2015-02-24T04:58:32+00:00

What comedian said that if she accepts payment but doesn't provide the service it doesn't make her look better it just makes her a shitty whore.

aguy01 · 2015-02-24T16:51:17+00:00

I was with a girl going for coffee and she told me she forgot her wallet. Turned the car around and told her to get it. She paid for me and we hooked up after.

Doomsday_ · 2015-02-24T05:51:42+00:00

Don't take a girl out to dinner unless you're already fucking her regularly. It's just stupid.
Make your intentions clear by getting her over at your place and making out and having sex with her.

PlebDestroyer · 2015-02-24T05:06:42+00:00

Okay yeah life is a struggle but are you dumb? Why are you taking a potential plate to restaurants? The phrase we use here is, "come over".

dabrah1 · 2015-02-24T02:43:44+00:00

Glad to see that you stood up for yourself. This vicious cycle could have easily continued indefinietely.

BlakeRidley · 2015-02-25T01:25:13+00:00

You made a lot of mistakes, namely taking her to two restaurant's when you apparently established that this was a casual thing.

hrm0894 · 2015-02-24T02:23:06+00:00

Sorry but I thought the only time it is acceptable to pay for a girl when you two are out is if she gives something in return (in the case, sex).

When is it "okay" to pay for a girl?

Can someone clarify this for me please?

bondage_ · 2015-02-23T23:54:37+00:00

I think its just polite to split the bill even on first dates or at least pay the tip, however I've seen articles about this before telling girls that men should always pay on the first date or two just preparing girls to expect men to pay their way all the time.

Title	I don't have my card.
Author	Elatea
Upvotes	40
Comments	39
Date	February 23, 2015 11:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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