Summary:
Long term girlfriend from years ago cheated on me with one of my best friends. Years later I have my own company and throwing a big office party because to celebrate the year we are having and she is our waitress. Ends up propositioning me and gets denied.
Long story:
This girl was an hb8 I met at a shitty summer job I had while at college. I wasn't rp at the time, this was ages ago (10+ years). She was easily the best looking girl I ever dated at the time, but dumb as blocks with no motiviation. We dated for several years and I think she just assumed I would marry her be successful and take care of her.
Towards the end of our relationship her laziness started showing on her body and I was tired of her but didn't break up with her. Like rp says she wasn't being taken care of so she slept with one of my friends since she had no friends of her own.
No lies I was hurt. It wasn't the first time a girl cheated on me and it made me question things about myself. Fast forward 10+ years. I've learned a lot about personal responsibility and taking care of myself, putting myself first, and trying to be the best version of myself I can be.
I have my own business and although the first few years were rough (lost a lot of money). The last 5 years have been amazing and I should be a millionaire in the next few years. I love my employees and take care of them like family. We won a particularly large contract so I had one of my employees set up a celebration dinner at a 5 star restaurant in town.
I walk in a little late with my hb9 date, we have our own private room open bar etc. Everyone is greeting me and someone goes to grab our waitress to get me a drink. Then I see her. I recognize her through the chubiness and smile to myself. The whole evening I see her checking me out and see the regret on her face. All my employees are getting hammered. I get toasted several times and later that evening I go to the restroom. As I walk out guess who is there to chat. She tells me she misses me and that what happened between us is the biggest regret of her life. Then she says that we should reconnect and hands me a piece of paper with her number on it.
At the end of the night the bill was massive and I gave her a really good tip and left the piece of paper she gave me with the check.
Lessons learned:
It has taken years of work and dedication to become the best version of myself. She was really more of a reminder of how weak I used to be. It showed me how far I have come and although I hadn't thought about this girl in years it still felt amazing to see her realize how wrong she was.
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