Why would anyone marry a single mom? WHY?

Battle-Scars · 2016-11-04T05:24:36+00:00

For the false promise of steady pussy.

DomoDoge92 · 2016-11-04T06:27:09+00:00

As someone who used to be married to one, its a combination of oneitis, no abundance mentality, and a sense that this is the best your going to do.

beltwaytr · 2016-11-04T07:23:03+00:00

"Why would any man marry a single mom and raise someone else's discarded progeny? Are people that thirsty?"

In short absolutely yes. Let's be real here guys. The average man gets about as much action as a white crayon and this guy is a bit below the bar. He's aged, and overweight. I can already tell you his partner count is more than likely in the single digits and can tell you he has a dead bedroom guaranteed. For this guy a little sex is better than no sex ever, and unfortunately it's like that for the majority of men.

Men in general are just super weak when it comes to women. How many times have we warned someone about sticking their dick in crazy, dating a single mom, giving your LTR slack because you got comfortable? So many times that if we got a dollar for every time we'd be rich.

In terms of the daughter insulting the old man, this is a mix of shit parenting and feminist upbringing. Women are usually socially aggressive creatures while men are physically aggressive. They will publicly shame and ridicule someone, that is their way of asserting dominance. It goes all the way back to pre school, boys are taught not to hit and girls aren't taught to shut the fuck up sometimes which is why you have this 14 year old berating a grown ass man and since he can't slap her across the face for being a smart ass he has to sit their like a moron. He tolerates all that for a little bit of sex. Priceless.

What's funny is when she is talking to chef Ramsey she is acting like the brave victim, when we all know this kid takes her mother's side in any and all fights. The only reason she is worried about diviorce is that it will fuck up her comfortable little life. It will be a gamble if she gets to sit in that big house her step dad paid for or if she will have to move into a shitty apartment. Unfortunately Ramsey is a sucker for a good sob story and a pretty face.

TrumpTruther · 2016-11-04T07:11:24+00:00

People would rather be in an abusive relationship than alone. I've witnessed it in others and myself.

grewapair · 2016-11-04T16:57:48+00:00

A friend of mine did one better. Married her, then adopted the kid. 6 months later, divorce. Child support for ten years.

VTMSCHVSVCTRY · 2016-11-04T12:17:16+00:00

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Linoran · 2016-11-04T12:11:41+00:00

When even our own goddam Prince that stands to inherit the throne does this you know your country is in a bad shape.

Upon their marriage, Mette-Marit became known as Her Royal Highness Crown Princess Mette-Marit. After the ceremony, the couple appeared with Mette-Marit's son Marius on the balcony of the royal palace in the midst of cannons firing and bands playing.

It's an embarrassment. Would not be surprised to see this go down the toilet in the near future.

On the why question...I blame feminism.

SomeGuyNY · 2016-11-04T14:14:51+00:00

Dang shit is sad brah.

My previous LTR disrespected me in front of her family as well. Women tend to do it when they think you won't leave and you don't tend to put them into their place much. I gave her the silent treatment before, walked out on her and even spanked the shit out of her when she acted up, but unless you beat them to pulp every day, entitled "strong independent" types won't change much.

The guy looks way too worn out from all the restaurant stress to deal with a bitchy step daughter. Whenever you show weakness women will pounce on that shit.

DO NOT LTR IF YOU CAN'T HOLD FRAME 24/7 365!

subjectivealpha · 2016-11-04T09:55:06+00:00

When he asks her about the $1m remodel of the restaurant:

"Why so much? Was there a budget for it?"

"He didn't give me a budget. He told me to get whatever I liked, that's like sending a lady into a designer shoe store without any price tags on the shoes"

She wanted him to tell her exactly what to get and he should have. Lead your lady fellas..or don't get married

Flaye2 · 2016-11-04T09:31:56+00:00

Why would anyone marry a woman?

mlgwarrior420 · 2016-11-04T05:46:11+00:00

He lost power when he gave his "wife" no budget.

Entropy-7 · 2016-11-04T16:27:59+00:00

I was in an LTR with a mother of two from different fathers, and it turned out she was BPD. She was hands down the most spectacular fuck ever. She had, admittedly, a really sweet and romantic side. It was the down side of her personality disorder that brought things crashing down.

The kids were less problem than the dads: I cooked waffles for the former in the morning that those latter idiots had to pay for.

The problems came when one idiot thought his new wife was infertile, so he files for custody and accuses me and my GF of all sorts of ridiculous behavior.

Day to day, it is annoying because the kids don't really respect you.

But everything ended so badly it really turned me off the idea.

Later I set up a date with another single mom. Nothing fancy, just meeting at Starbucks. . . but then she shows up with her kids. . .first date! She was really hot but she displayed such horrible judgment that I never talked to her again.

Single mothers make great plates or fuck buddies as long as it is clear that you never meet their kids. I've had a few ONSs and one that lasted a good six months or so. With the latter she had enough free time that we could bang regularly and just enjoy each other's company without worrying about "where is this going".

NakedAndBehindYou · 2016-11-05T00:53:31+00:00

General rule of thumb for TRP subreddit: we do not use fictional examples for our discussion. Anything on television is scripted and fake.

LeftShark86 · 2016-11-04T08:30:00+00:00

A friend of mine has a thing for attracting single moms via tinder/online dating sites. Or, should I say, single moms are attracted to him. He's your average nice guy, though not bad looking, with a stable job, who's responsible and looking to settle down. The way he tells it, they're crazy in bed. Though, this would obviously dry up pretty quickly after being in a relationship. He also has a strong desire to start a family and feels that this is like walking into a pre-made one. Of course, we tell him this is insane; that he'd be raising another man's child who would alway be around in some degree. He thinks that all he can get. I tell him of the 21-24 yo without kids I'm dating and say he could do better than me without any problem. So, it's a combination of factors.

Phroneo · 2016-11-04T06:16:14+00:00

Simply the feeling today they are easier to get, have theirs priorities straight now and they are probably great in bed due to experience and wanting to find a provider. The latter would disappear soon enough but people aren't good at making long term decisions.

somefrommars · 2016-11-04T08:24:28+00:00

Lack of self-esteem. People feel they don't have many options. People aren't willing to go out there and meet many women.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2016-11-04T09:13:41+00:00

I cant even get into any relationship with single mother without getting a brain tumor.

weirdfish42 · 2016-11-04T18:42:33+00:00

As a newly single man in his 40's with no kids, over weight single moms seem to be the only ones on the dating sites.

Done with the dating sites, done chasing after women. I think it's time to hole up and be a hermit for a while.

jeffmings · 2016-11-05T09:59:58+00:00

A lot of anger without reason here. Let's look at what I've seen in marriages to women with children: -The woman is generally sincere, but doesn't realize what the actual situation will be after the marriage. -The man will be expected to be the provider, and be available for solving problems and meeting the needs of the mother and children, but not have any authority over the children. -The mother has, as a single mother, already been acting as "the man of the family", and expects to be able to make all of the decisions. Since she sees the children as the most important part of the new family, and since she is the most important person in the lives of the children, the husband becomes 3rd in most aspects. So, the mother ends up expecting the man to provide for the family, allow her to make the decisions, and give up his leisure time for events for the children, like soccer games. -The children resent their mother's new husband, seeing him as trying to steal their natural father's place. They will continue to test him and rebel against his instructions in most cases. -The man ends up being expected to work for children who treat him maliciously, and a wife who treats him like an appliance. If he protests, he is seen as acting selfishly. He is relegated to a burdened worker, instead of the respected man of the house.

The vast majority of these marriages fail. Objectively speaking, any man considering a woman with children needs to have detailed negotiations and agreements in place and be certain he can trust her. Otherwise, he is setting himself up for several years of misery.

WillHannover · 2016-11-04T09:30:14+00:00

If you have a failing restaurant and gordo himself says the food is shit, why argue? The restaurant was failing under his leadership and he somehow despite all the evidence he still arguing. He deserves to be mocked.

coolasice007 · 2016-11-04T12:41:32+00:00

lmao...first he looks like a toad, he definitely treats his wife like the prize....second the daughter straight deballed him when she said its as much her restaurant as his...lol..which is true, she lives vicariously thru her mother in a twisted way lol...say no to drugs and marriage

unknowncitzen · 2016-11-04T12:34:30+00:00

I did the whole married thd single mum, but I was clear in my head since I was 16 that I never wanted a kid of my own but was ok raising someone elses kid. Beta you're thinking, probably but it was under my terms and I was happy with that.

When it happened I was clear with the mum and the daughter if the daughter wanted me to be her father then Both of them would listen to me as a father, they agreed and then tested me a number of times which I reaponded with no fucken problem, I am out of here which shut them up and they both fell in line.

My daughter is 29 now, I met her at 7 agreement at 8, she has always listened to me, never disrespected me. Never did my step daughter use the 'you're not my real dad' because in her mind I was.

The mother was fucked up and seriously the pussy was crap, but hey I passed on some of my values to my step daughter and I see them playing out in her life.

Hillarysdilddo_2016 · 2016-11-04T13:26:33+00:00

Why would any man marry a single mom and raise someone else's discarded progeny? Are people that thirsty?

Why, yes. Yes, they are.

They're really dumb. The broad was an insufferable cunt in a previous relationship, lacked commitment values, and they somehow think "this time it's different."

LOL

Literal cuckolds. Raising non-related progeny is the literal definition of cuckold.

SirGaetanDugas · 2016-11-04T13:42:23+00:00

scarcity mentality makes men poor decision makers

NotNormal2 · 2016-11-04T14:54:33+00:00

Deep desire to provide. Part of being a man.

Hydris · 2016-11-04T17:24:00+00:00

Desperation, lack of self respect, stupidity. Take your pick, you're not held to just one.

SouloftheVoid · 2016-11-04T17:53:23+00:00

Nothing makes a woman more unattractive to me than the presence of children that I assume to be hers.

S-Blaze · 2016-11-04T19:32:44+00:00

Poor guy and she was 100% cheating.

In good news he divorced and his business is doing ok.

God_Money · 2016-11-05T00:37:56+00:00

I don't know why any self respecting man would girlfriend one of his plates, let alone get married... Married to a single mom? What the hell? Do you HATE yourself?

boogalooshrimp1103 · 2016-11-05T09:25:17+00:00

Kid has hoop earrings. The bigger the hoops the bigger the hoe

2016-11-05T15:36:39+00:00

Because he subconsciously thinks he can't do better.

JonathanStrange1 · 2016-11-04T15:14:05+00:00

My ex-wife SEEMED perfect, and her/my adopted son was awesome even at Age 2. Then after the marriage, the other side of her BPD personality started to emerge. Long story short, I got hoodwinked by a "unicorn". That being said I'm still a father to my son (I'm sure I'll get Beta hate/whatever) He's awesome and I am the only Dad he's ever had.

aanarchist · 2016-11-04T09:53:32+00:00

they didn't lose respect for him because of him marrying a single mom. he's incompetent and incapable of listening to reason like his restaurant is garbage but he's like nah fuck that. if anything he's got that unshakable frame that trp so loves to glorify, due to the point of outright delusion and ignorance. he's following the red pill tenants of not letting anyone tell him what to do and let them get him down.

she ended up with this goober because a single mother doesn't have better prospects and he's not a complete pussified beta, a woman will settle for a stubborn loser over a flexible winner, because flexibility is "beta" by mainstream woman's standards. either way i'd take her on if it meant i get the daughter too. there's some people that are into that shit and it's like hey man why not. the daughter can be the main girl when she comes of age, and the mom can be like, the cook and the maid. sounds like a pretty good life to me heh, and frankly a great way for her to make up for pissing away her smv and prime years, and a great way to take advantage of some other "alpha" fag's genetic legacy. imagine what the girls biological father would think and feel to find out that his ex's new man is fucking both her and his daughter LOL.

Solpig · 2016-11-04T18:45:03+00:00

I have a GF with kids (grown)... Their Dad is Beta McSnowflake and the cheapest fucker on the planet.

Not being married to their Mom, I owe them nothing but I actually like the little fuckers. Play football with them, go to shows, see bands. I try to reinforce their testosterone as often as possible. They are just as fucked as their dad who paid child support out the ass for 20 years (finally done... poor dude)... Men are last in a Hypergamous world....always.

I flip them cash on the sly whenever I can.... under the radar with only ONE caveat. Do NOT tell your Mom!

I learned that even a Mom puts herself first. She would be pissed that that money wasn't given to HER to dispense (which would mean they wouldn't see it).

Life is about relationships.... TRP is about fixing our primary ones, but you can have good ones with progeny that is not yours... make sure it's honest and authentic

ranci · 2016-11-05T04:40:54+00:00

Because she sucks a good cock basically

victor_knight · 2016-11-04T07:26:44+00:00

What an ugly bastard. He must have been loaded and should have been prepared to take shit after he signed on the dotted line... or been smart and not marry in the first place.

0kool74 · 2016-11-04T12:54:39+00:00

yea I remember this episode. I wanted to slap some sense into him, but moreover, I wanted to punch her in the throat and rip out her larynx through her eye socket!

p3n1x · 2016-11-04T16:46:45+00:00

You are worried about the wrong things. Is this a " I need validation " post?

You are beta if you are still worried about what beta's do.

TrishulatheIceDragon · 2016-11-04T18:28:39+00:00

Not that this is the case here but my dad died and so my mom was a single mother, what is trp's opinion on this type of scenario?

jashleyren2 · 2016-11-04T19:06:36+00:00

BTW, what would be wrong with just taking this little entitled brat by the arm and walking her ass out to be with her mother? Time to be a man, dude, if you really call yourself one.

harkrank · 2016-11-05T02:00:17+00:00

Since nobody else wrote it I guess I have to write it.

"Why would anyone marry a single mom? WHY?"

Because they have a desire to sexually abuse their daughters or even sons. Predators are out there, step-parents are more common as sexual abusers.

With so many betas today, it is thankfully not the case as much anymore.

goldnhorde · 2016-11-07T19:22:58+00:00

Get ready for the old "in my day" .... talk is not enough for this one. that little girl was showing off for the camera.

this is not even a bullshit single mom conversation or a man/woman conversation. this is a child adult conversation.

And if I can't stand one thing, it is the baggage kid who has all kinds of issues and disrespects the mom who stepped up. remember that guy that every oprah watcher yelled at to "STEP UP AND BE A MAN!!!" well our man here took the kid in with the mom and this is what he gets.

I know the consequences, but back in the day if I had said anything like this to my mom, dad, or grandparents, my father would have laid out the backhand and asked "Do you have anything else smart to say today? Or do you feel like an apology is in order?"

while the backhand was by no means "beating", it was done in front of people to be humiliating and it did sting to high heaven. needless to say, I really felt I needed to apologize for my behavior. and right away.

I know Homeland Security and Child services would have been speed dialed if this guy had clocked his step daughter on camera during a cooking show .... but is there any picture more pleasing than a dumb fuck bitch like this getting her ass straightened from 0 to 60 in two seconds flat?

it always took me a long time to just lip off mindlessly .... hey ... maybe Lena Dun-whatever could use an instructional tap.

TACTICALBLONDEBIMBO · 2016-11-04T11:33:57+00:00

Meh. I dont see an issue with what the daughter said, she probably just wants to help her step dad do well. Some girls are just like that OP....

Some cabron marrying some damaged goods bitch who already has children is no bueno...... I dont care how hot a bitch is, if she has a child/children she can take her damaged goods somewhere else. There may be an exception here and there. However, personally I wouldn't want to take care of someone elses baggage.....

These fucking cabrons and sucker ass motherfuckers fall in love with these hos/dolled up bimbos pussy, thats why OP. Obviously the old bitch was good enough at sex to get some other fucking guy to bust a nut in her cum dumpster......

Marrying any bitch that already has baggage in the form of a child, is fucklord type shit.....

Personally if i ever do get suckered into marrying some girl, sex/steady pussy from the girl is not really something that is that important. To each his own, but i really couldnt care less about that for the most part when it comes to a girl I could seriously see as maybe being my wife. Dont get me wrong, its nice if she wants to do it all the time, but its whatever..... If a girls mom is hot, and our slightly attracted to her mom....

Rocky_Bukkake · 2016-11-04T19:34:47+00:00

i would. if i liked her and her kid, and could take care of them, yeah i'd do it. from the clip i'd expect the same from my own teenage girl.. i mean, sometimes they get that way, huh?

Dookiestain_LaFlair · 2016-11-04T19:39:59+00:00

If she was really hot, rich, and didn't mind me having sex with her daughter, I would.

Title	Why would anyone marry a single mom? WHY?
Author	CastratedBetaOrbiter
Upvotes	128
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Date	November 4, 2016 5:15 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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