Intro

So you’ve got yourself a LTR that claims she is exclusive to you and isn’t fucking anybody else. Great! It seems like you finally found your unicorn and nothing can go wrong. After all, you’ve handpicked her from tons and tons of women that you’ve ran through and she is by far the best candidate. Everything is great, right? WRONG.

Body:

If you’re a reader of this sub, you know the signs. You’ve been with enough women to see what excuses they use on their boyfriends. You’ve seen her phone with a message from “baby” pop-up while you’re railing her. You’ve heard them confess their lies, and you laugh with them to hide your disdain that lurks in your hindbrain.

Everything is fantastic! Everything is going great! And one day, your precious LTR hits with one of the excuses you’ve heard oh so many times. “I have a doctor’s appointment after work”. You think nothing of it, you know she makes frequent doctor’s visits. And then again a week later, “They want me to stay later at work”. You think nothing of it, you know she frequently works overtime. And then again a week later, “I’ll be out with a couple of my friends today”. You think nothing of it, you know she has plenty of friends. However, something in your gut feels off, and you have a flash of all of the TRP posts you’ve read in the back of your head.

You can’t seem to shake it off, so you scratch the itch. You call her.. She doesn’t answer. You text her.. she doesn’t reply. Two hours later, she sends you a picture of driving home with a text saying, “Heading home now, I love you.” Now your mind is sinking to all the possibilities. Why didn’t she answer? Why didn’t she reply? You know why.. but you deny it. There’s no way she can be cheating, for you have no solid evidence, despite all the signs.

One day you’re with her, and she gets a text from some guy you’ve never heard of. Curious, you ask, “who’s this?”.. “he’s just a coworker”, she responds. You ask to see the text messages. Her phone is in her hand, she shows you the innocent messages and stops scrolling. You ask to see the rest but she deflects, “it’s just all boring work talk why would you want to see that?” At this point, you finally come to your senses and have an inkling that something is definitely going on; she’s hiding something.

You ask her if she’s seeing anybody else. She says “of course not, you’re the only one Daddy”, then she gives you the best sex of your life. You wrap her around your arms and go to sleep. The next day, the cycle begins anew. You sink yet again into those thoughts, “is she lying?”, “she’s definitely lying, all the signs are there!”, “but she’s so good to me, there’s no way”.. STOP.

YOU CANNOT CONTROL HER

Your thoughts are wasted. Your breath is wasted. If you ask, you reveal your insecurities. You are in the right to question if she is seeing someone else, but this will be perceived as weakness and ammunition she can use later.

If she wants to get fucked, she will, and you will never know unless she wants you to. It doesn’t matter what you think, it doesn’t matter how controlling you are, it doesn’t matter what you do. If she wants strange dick, she will get it. The only way to stop yourself from having these thoughts is accept that she probably is, and stop giving a fuck and go fuck other women (and you should be already).

Conclusion:

You cannot control her. She will do what she wants regardless of what she tells you. You can either get stuck in a loop of denial and insecurity, drop her, or stop giving a fuck.