You're a shy guy. Your best friends are your mother and the internet. You really want to bag that 10/10 hottie, but you haven't understood that YOU DON'T DESERVE HER YET. There is no skipping ahead when it comes to bagging a 10. Whenever a buddy come to me for advice on meeting women, this is usually what it boils down to. Tips and tricks can help but if that's as far as you're willing to go you're going to fail. If you go out and act like an arrogant twat, without having what you need to back that up, she's going to look at you like you're retarded and call you an asshole.

 

You're that fat bitch with a shitty attitude squeezing herself into spandex and going to yoga class. She's emulating what she perceives to be attractive, but she lacks the fundamental qualities that attractive women actually have.

 

So you want that 10? Well then you need to accept that you have changes to make. If you're not the best available to her, why should she go home with you? This is a real-world interview motherfucker, and you're coming in dressed like a homeless guy for a fortune 500 company interview. You know damn well that you don't deserve her ...not yet. That's the beauty of red pill baby. You're waking up. In addition to a lot of other things, you're no longer trying to Disney your way into the princess's bedroom.

 

Smart. Funny. Athletic. Socially-confident. These the qualities that women find attractive. Reverse-engineer how a guy obtains those qualities. Apply those finding to yourself, and remember that skill is only developed by hours and hours of beating on your craft. Baby steps amigo. Look at the US military. I'd be scared shitless if you dropped me into live combat because I've never had anything close to that sort of experience. I doubt I'd even be able to move, the fear would be crippling for me. Yet there are badass marines that do it everyday. Did they start there? Hell no. And neither should you. You're not on that level yet, and "up up down down left right left right B A start" doesn't work in the real world.

 

So go to the gym. Dress better. Get that higher-paying job or better yet start a business. Talk to people! This is so critical I can't even describe it. You can be a handsome high-earning motherfucker and still be socially retarded. You want that bombshell at the end of the bar, you need to be able to talk to her like it's just another conversation. Like you don't give a fuck. That's not something you can fake, you need to desensitize yourself to talking with beautiful women.

 

Go and cultivate interesting experiences for yourself. Not only will it make you happier, it will make you more interesting. If all you do is go to the gym, go to work, and go home and watch Netflix then those are the only things that you're an expert on. And I see it all the time. Good looking, well-dressed, handsome motherfuckers asking their date about their favorite shows on Netflix... because that's the only thing they can reference! They haven't done anything else! What do you think is a more interesting story, the latest family guy you watched, or the summer where I flew to Panama for a surfing trip and wound up with a dead quad in the middle of the jungle? Which story is more likely to have a girl looking at their phone?

 

You know who's fucking awesome at having conversations? Old people. Because they have nothing but spare time and life stories. Talk to that old lady at the bus stop. Have conversations with the elderly gentlemen at the barber shop. If you haven't mastered basic social interactions with them do you honestly think a line you read on a public forum is going to help you with that bombshell at end of the bar? Embrace crawling through the mud in bootcamp maggot, because that's the kind of low-level training that's going to prepare you for live combat. A sword is sharpened by constant hammering.

 

TL;DR Didn't I just say there were no shortcuts? Read the full thing you chode. I took the time to write it out for you. Humor me.