Amour annihilator asks apropos alleviating anguish. Aflicted about apparent affairs all around, approaching admirer assured acceptable aftermath. Alas, agony arose after attempting apology - and absent accountability alongside artificial atonement attests adulteress' avoidable aberration.

moorekom · 2022-12-18T13:17:56+00:00

This is bullshit.

She was insecure of her own body, but was lazy to do nothing about it. She saw her husband having multiple options in real life and later online and still that did not prompt her to get off her ass, exercise and be a good wife. She relentlessly moved herself and her husband into a corner. And yet, her husband was understanding, encouraging and stood at the front of the corner knowing that they can get out. All she had to do was to follow his lead. What she did was to stab him in his back. She did not cheat because she was sure he was cheating on her, but because she felt inferior and wanted to prove to herself that she too had options. Maybe she got treated like a piece of meat or maybe she got guilty, but she seeked comfort from her husband by asking for forgiveness.

Reading between the lines of her text, he is not a dumb guy. He is smart, attractive, in demand and loyal. His loyalty prevented him from exercising his options. Now that she took the final reason to no longer be loyal to her, he left her. What a train wreck this is and what a loser she is. She lost a great husband, a good family, a good life and her self esteem forever because she was not strong enough to fight her battles herself and not smart enough to ignore her pride and to follow her husband's lead. Now she is what she should be: a cautionary tale for younger, smarter, more loyal women to never fuck up like she did. Those who can see this for what it is can learn from it. It's doubtful how many women these days will actually get that message.

Excellent find, OP.

Edit: Editing to add the update provided by u/biccat.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2022-12-18T06:53:08+00:00

There's just no happy ending with modern women. It doesn't matter if you're tall, dark and handsome - and rich, and easygoing, and interesting, and owner of a huge schlong, and whatever -, if you're that perfect, you have got to be cheating on her. Nevermind that all evidence points to the opposite, she's sure you are cheating - and thus, her cheating is justified.

Also, there is an uptade to the post, but it's not that interesting. The husband came home, packed more things, informed her they're getting a divorce and only wants to be able to see the kid whenever possible. Oh, and she still hasn't told anyone else about her affair (and doesn't know if he did).

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-12-18T09:31:34+00:00

Men don’t red pill other men, women do.

ialwayslurk1362354 · 2022-12-18T07:26:29+00:00

I've seen many of my friend's marriages destroyed by modern women. Then the women are rewarded, and the kids suffer. Nobody wins. Coincidentally, it's often over the women's own insecurities.

Many of us know men who went through experiences like this. Why don't we all vote and elect people to change the laws?

Celticpenguin85 · 2022-12-18T12:27:52+00:00

So basically you can be a total Chad and do everything right and she'll still cheat.

Overkillengine · 2022-12-18T10:58:02+00:00

Her allegedly insecurity driven infidelity is just an excuse to fabricate consent from the audience in order to avoid admitting she was a stupid slut. Turning on the waterworks and emotionally charged rhetoric to get sympathy instead of the castigation she knows she deserves.

Make no mistake, she does not care that what she did was wrong, or she'd have had the moral fiber to not do it to begin with. She's just trying to avoid the consequences.

Boar_excrement · 2022-12-18T12:45:37+00:00

'I will try to keep this short.' Proceeds to write a tome on how her circumstances excuse her actions and that consequences are scary.

Not one bit of regret about the pain she causes him. Hell, her husband is now wondering if the kid is his.

Kudos to the husband as he did everything right. He was probably locked in the bedroom researching what to do next. Leave immediately and go no contact. Best possible thing. It reduces the chances of manipulation or DV charges.

biccat · 2022-12-18T13:04:08+00:00

Update

He'd better get a paternity test.

SealTheSymbol · 2022-12-18T09:07:46+00:00

Man this stuff is sad (for the guy & his kid). Awalt

Land_of_the_Losers · 2022-12-18T09:22:31+00:00

I am from Europe

Europe is such a beautiful country.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2022-12-18T09:23:59+00:00

I kept neglecting him

So why didn't you stop ... ?

Oh, I'm sorry, that was the wrong line of questioning.

vesuvius_1_02 · 2022-12-18T17:11:53+00:00

I love the "one thing lead to another". That implies events were wholly out of ones control and that a force majeure was at work to destroy your plans.

But no. The only thing out of control was her emotions. And her emotions led her to an ex. In a hotel room. We're funky things happen. No this was measured and planned. This is just her trying to avoid accountability.

"She belongs to the streets!"

iiiamAlex · 2022-12-18T14:15:19+00:00

Why I dont even bother pursuing women. Not worth my time or money.

PlainTundra · 2022-12-18T13:16:24+00:00

Literally he was doing everything right (being loyal, being in shape...) and she was doing everything wrong (cheat, let herself go...).

silly_birb_Banned · 2022-12-18T14:13:20+00:00

There should exist a reset button for husband if the woman ruins everything in the first 3 years of marriage.

The woman and the children gets abandoned, get no money from the man and he can start anew.

SceneAccomplished549 · 2022-12-18T22:50:31+00:00

I listened to this story on one of those relationship YouTube channels....what I'm appalled at is that at the end of it....she still hasn't really taken responsibility for it.

If she had both families would have been contacted, friends as well. All she is doing is trying to "shush" it up, you know cause "iT wAs a MiStAkE", also note has she said "He has left me alone with our baby!!"

She isn't even remotely sorry, nor does she truly feel remorseful, she is just sad and scared that the man is going to leave her as a single mother.

This is another prime example of why Red Pill, MGTOW, Passport Bros are a thing nowadays....but it's the man's fault

Internet_Snowflake · 2022-12-18T08:06:10+00:00

Eh heh heh heh heh. I got the big Schadenfreude reading that.

finger_milk · 2022-12-18T14:50:06+00:00

This was incredibly therapeutic to read.

molly_bunny · 2022-12-18T20:08:16+00:00

He was too good for her.

DoDo_01 · 2022-12-18T23:32:00+00:00

The worst thing you can do to a woman is to ignore her

PirateDocBrown · 2022-12-18T16:19:36+00:00

His son does not deserve such a woman as a mother. Once he determines paternity, he should press for full custody, with her paying CS. You all know that's what would happen if this was reversed.

She should count herself lucky to get any part of her child's life.

She should not consider self-termination, until the kid is out of school, but that's likely the best of all possible outcomes.

Or as KS would say, she should get a dog and die alone.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-19T02:10:18+00:00

no wife, happy life

high_sauce · 2022-12-20T12:01:26+00:00

If this happened in Australia. The husband now only be a Disney dad and a visitor in his child's life. He probably will have to bail her out and pay excessive child support.

For those who don't know. child support is just an allowance to lady, not much will reach the child.

RuskinBondFan · 2022-12-19T12:41:47+00:00

Ah yes, the gym invitation.

__Gynotarian__ · 2022-12-22T23:43:58+00:00

It's reaction + decisions after she told him everything gave me justice boner like none I've ever seen.

Loudnoises1379 · 2022-12-27T01:16:09+00:00

Alliteration is not humor.

Loudnoises1379 · 2022-12-27T01:18:27+00:00

Nothing to see here except age and insecurity.

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