She knows what the problem is. She knows what needs to be done. She still asks the internet for validation.

mustangfrank · 2023-06-26T13:39:27+00:00

Me: You are over weight. And by a lot.

She: Oh come on. Tell me the truth. I know you are teasing me.

Me: No you are way over weight. You weigh nearly twice as much as me.

She: I can handle the truth, so tell me. Don't play games with me.

Me: WTF is a matter with you? Get on the scale. Look for yourself.

She: I know you are playing games with me.

(Repeat forever)

Overkillengine · 2023-06-26T13:55:04+00:00

Her problem isn't just that she's old and fat.

She also has a very apparent issue with refusing to date on her level. Guarantee she turns her nose up at men 2" taller and 50 lbs lighter who don't have a bodybuilder physique.

Edit: Looked up a BMI calculator specifically meant for women.

https://www.omnicalculator.com/health/bmi-women

According to this, she is severely obese, so severely obese that 95% of the US population in her age category are lighter than her.

She is literally in the bottom 5%.

Active-Razzmatazz-86 · 2023-06-26T13:39:13+00:00

39 yr old fat and entitled .Seems like a real catch

mustangfrank · 2023-06-26T16:45:19+00:00

She says'"guys would you date nearly a 300 pound woman?"

I think men would date a 300 pound woman at the same rate that women would date a 3'5" man. Strange how women sure don't seem to care about weight but they sure care about height which is something no man can control.

notthefuzz99 · 2023-06-26T13:56:35+00:00

Honey, you're a sphere. It's going to dramatically limit your dating pool. No, confidence isn't the solution to the problem. You know this. Either complain about it or do something about it.

SceneAccomplished549 · 2023-06-26T14:20:05+00:00

Your 39, over weight, and by ever metric have been used and "abused," why would any average, decent man want you?

These women truly don't get it.

Joaquino7997 · 2023-06-26T13:44:32+00:00

...and he's always smiling (back) at me

Are you SURE he's smiling at YOU and not your (much cuter) girl friend standing behind you?

I would suggest to her to work on losing 50 pounds and see if that makes any difference. If it does, then that alone should become motivation for her to continue on her journey. If not, then she is indeed a homely woman and no amount of weight loss is going to compensate for that.

papa_elbee · 2023-06-26T23:13:47+00:00

Modern women need to get this straight: Men don't give a single fuck about confidence.

tango-01 · 2023-06-26T14:48:49+00:00

Weights over 120 kilos but men are the problem, right...

iwasntawindow · 2023-06-26T19:03:29+00:00

I don’t understand. She realizes her weight is a problem, men have flat out told her to her face, and she goes on the internet to ask where the men interested in her are? Why doesn’t she just lose the weight?

w0tth0t · 2023-06-26T15:54:49+00:00

“Approached 24 live men” hahaha LIVE

aoxspring · 2023-06-26T18:55:59+00:00

270 at 5ft 8? Hooooooly I'm a 6ft 4 man and I'm only 230! That fucker must be like shifting a wardrobe 😂😂

All jokes aside this woman is dusted and honestly by the sounds of this it's just divine retribution for her past inadequacies

Champter24 · 2023-06-26T14:21:01+00:00

wau she approached 24 men and had 0 takers :P

bigdaveyl · 2023-06-26T22:33:39+00:00

There were at least 2 commenters there that pointed out the obvious: Would she date a man that had the same BMI as her?

The reason she is likely getting rejected is that she is going after men who are at a significantly healthier BMI. As such, they may have more options.

If she really wants to get into an LTR, she may have to reconsider this.

NorbertSpanglehause · 2023-06-26T20:35:41+00:00

"Because my confidence alone is not doing the trick"

Don't confuse confidence with delusion.

KhasingKoochie · 2023-06-26T18:41:52+00:00

40 and 300 pounds? She will only get bigger.

TwizzlersSourz · 2023-06-29T04:05:53+00:00

Welcome to the average male's world.

It sucks, doesn't it? Of course, the average man, if he were female, would be wading through solicitations.

Plazmatron44 · 2023-06-29T21:14:08+00:00

Fat women fart a lot as well, nearly every time someone's shown me a video on their phone of a woman doing a big loud fart it's been a big fatty.

BlowDryerrr · 2023-07-01T06:03:41+00:00

Oh look here, another supersized baconator FAT FUCK!

Women have it so easy: just don't be fat. It's an automatic +3 on a scale of 10, and yet they are still so fucking lazy.

On the other hand, men have to get status, get rich, own a home, get muscles, years and years of grind, for what? Just pussy? What do women offer exactly? At best they are depreciating assets, at worst they are a liability. It's no coincidence that most men nowadays rent instead of own.

JackedJesusLovesYou · 2023-06-29T20:32:36+00:00

I’m not saying you’re fat, but you’re a good size for a quarter beef.

Snoo33176 · 2023-07-03T21:59:32+00:00

This might be appropriate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9h-a9cvsbMM

lIllIlllIl · 2023-06-26T16:32:53+00:00

And people who are losing weight especially will give a lower number than their actual weight.

Title	She knows what the problem is. She knows what needs to be done. She still asks the internet for validation.
Author	MelkorHimself
Upvotes	170
Comments	67
Date	June 26, 2023 1:31 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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