I’m sure it has something to do with my attachment issues, which I’m working on. But it’s almost like I cant control it, but I’ll keep thinking about them and almost forget about my own life and I think it shifts how I interact, and makes me feel insecure. It’s weird. I’ve stopped dating for this reason, but I’ve noticed when I’m not looking to date people and I’m in a great place mentally and goal-wise, men tend to ask me on dates and seem more interested. I’m going on a date soon, and he chases me, is very interested but I’m just so tired and exhausted of dating, and I think I’m just going to maintain that energy. Does anyone else change when they catch feelings?