Sometimes I wish I could be as heartless and uncaring as a man.

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EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-06T04:57:37+00:00

No you don’t. I “dated” like a man (if you can even call it dating) in my twenties because I was emotionally dead and while there is a hedonistic sense of self satisfaction and mental escape, it’s not emotionally healthy and it’s self destructive. As soon as I started working on my childhood abuse and reconnecting with my feelings and inner vulnerable self, I had to (wanted to) stop because I realized just how bad it was. That’s why I wholeheartedly believe that any man that operates like this is not worth fucking with, and will not change without it heavy therapy. You have to be dead inside to do what most of them do. Having experienced both, I’ll take how I am now any day.

UnpeacefulLily · 2020-11-06T10:44:16+00:00

Another of his quotes from the same book that I love:

Like a compass pointing north, a man's accusing finger will always find a woman. Remember that, Miriam.

And this is true in every sense of the word.

sassylittlespoon · 2020-11-06T09:06:22+00:00

One of my absolute favorite authors. He has so many quotes that I love. Here’s another, “Marriage can wait. Education cannot...Because a society has no chance of success if its women are uneducated, Laila. No chance.”

thowawaywookie · 2020-11-06T14:29:58+00:00

I would I never want to be like them. They are empty vessels, taking and destroying. They don’t have the capacity to appreciate the beauty of life in the way we do. They lack to ability to connect on a deep level to their environment.

We are the lucky ones. Just protect yourself from them, and reap the benefits of our experience. That way you win.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-11-06T05:27:43+00:00

So you can have self destructing habits and die at the age of 53?

vancityvan7839 · 2020-11-06T16:06:54+00:00

Khalid Hosseini is such a gifted author (on top of already being a doctor). His book A Thousand Splendid Suns made me weep, and the Kite Runner is just beautiful

seraphinelysion · 2020-11-06T20:22:55+00:00

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broggybrog · 2020-11-06T12:29:01+00:00

I don’t, men like this suck 😂

straighthairgreece · 2020-11-06T09:21:23+00:00

Day by day the Scum Manifesto makes more sense to me. ( I disagree with her saying all men are like that but I believe the lowest of men are exactly how she describes).

321tina321 · 2020-11-06T10:12:37+00:00

Lol This is my life's ambition. I feel like I achieved what I wanted after being stalked. Hallelujah.

guacamole1987 · 2020-11-06T17:31:04+00:00

Men are selfish and unless they want to unlearn how everyone has allowed them to be selfish, they’ll just make everyone around them deal with it

Title	Sometimes I wish I could be as heartless and uncaring as a man.
Author	kittycakes22
Upvotes	769
Comments	49
Date	November 6, 2020 4:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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