So about a year ago, my wife and I decided to expand things in the bedroom. Things were looking up, as its been my desire to have experiences that practically every male fantasizes about (I was completely open about these desires from the moment we started dating). She decides we're going to go through with a "threesome" although really i figured out later it was a ruse for her to jump on our "roommate" which didn't work out in her favour as he wanted nothing to do with her. Since that night, its been nothing but constant threats and insults, constant fights. She said later that she only went through with the threesome because she was trying to "pass me off to the other woman" like an old lamp or couch or some shit. i've been lurking for almost a year, been lifting, reading, reading, and more reading... applying the basics, and most importantly learning to STFU... but i'm not convinced this woman is worth the effort anymore. She's always been dramatic from our early dating period right into the 7th year of marriage, but more and more I can't stand being around her, with her bullshit meme wisdom she gets from Facebook and her constant attacks and mind games. Even though I am practicing STFU, my blood boils and I feel like a volcano ready to unleash hell on her verbally almost every moment i'm around her. Is it time to next this bitch?

Update: So, I think I should clear some shit up, simply because many are getting the idea that this was two guys and one woman. This was in fact two women and myself, but roommate was a man that lived in my basement. Myself and the wife were supposed to have a threesome with a woman, the wife decided to go downstairs and try her luck with the roommate (later confirmed that she was wanting to fuck him, which is the reason she contrived the whole threesome and later said that it was her way of passing me off like a piece of meat). One of the things that MRP and askMRP tells us constantly is to watch what she does, not what she says. I think a lot of the comments are reasonable, and right. will continue to give updates, and think things through thoroughly and cerebrally as possible. I would next her immediately if it weren't for the kids and the little kingdom i have amassed. Thanks for all the straight forward assessments and comments. re-listening to /u/bluepillprofessor youtube series and back to basics for me while i decide which road to take.