Sex issues.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-06-11T20:50:57+00:00

“but as soon as I realize it's just going to be starfish sex....”

You are the prize motherfucker.. start acting like it. Pound that pussy.

If she offers starfish, go caveman on her ass. You’re a newbie, practice on your fucking, so when the time comes to ditch her ass for some hot young talent, you’ll be ready.

Your SMV is shit, you’re weak as fuck, you’re t levels are laughable, all you get right now is starfish - so take it. Own that pussy.

shadowycoder · 2018-06-11T20:08:11+00:00

I'm pretty sure the only solution to this is to keep working on myself

yep

Trtntrenbrah · 2018-06-11T20:19:52+00:00

Side note.

But at your BW, you shouldn’t be cutting anything

Focus on clean food and lifting heavy ass shit.

[deleted] · 2018-06-11T22:11:34+00:00

Your dick is a reflection of your state of mind. In short, giving way too many fucks about her opinion / actions toward you. She puts out the starfish and boom: you go into a death spiral of self doubt and pity; losing your confidence and your boner in one fell swoop.

No big deal. You don’t see yourself as the prize yet. That comes with time; as you continue lifting you continue to get stronger and build muscle. As you get stronger and build muscle, you feel more confident and capable. As you feel more confident, you become more attractive. As you become more attractive, you develop more options. As you develop more options, she gets demoted from “pussy with all the power” to “just another pussy.”

You’ll get there. You’ve got the right mentality and that’s what really matters in the end.

RackedRed · 2018-06-11T20:58:58+00:00

Do you watch porn? A lot of younger guys who are heavy into porn have ED issues when their real life doesn’t match the vids they watch. Recommend scaling it back. Besides all that, what everyone else said. And Sex God Method may help her get into it once the gains materialize.

BostonBrakeJob · 2018-06-11T21:31:23+00:00

Caveman the starfish. Grab a handful of her hair (at the scalp, don't be a dipshit about it), pull back and tell her to turn around, or some other command that you want her to do. Make it fun for you (for now)....she's just there.

Once you put some meat on them bones and she starts feelzing the dread she'll come around. Or she won't and you'll have plenty of practice/confidence for the young tail in marketing.

SGM and Revolutionary Sex 3.0 by Alex Allman have some good ideas to get started.

You're in control of your sex life, not her. Start acting like it.

RPAlternate42 · 2018-06-12T18:36:11+00:00

I came from DB... When I started RP, and she's going starfish, I told her to get in her hands and knees, and then I'd fuck her like she was a warm real doll. When I finished, I'd pullout, put my pants on and walk away.

If she wants to act like a despondent hooker I'll treat her like one.

On the flip side, when she does act good and enthusiastic, she gets afterglow time, cuddles, kisses, I interact with her during with DEVI, and she is much happier.

Nowadays, I get a starfish here and there, and I still rail her like a hooker... But because it happens much more rarely, just before I be leave the room, in also her on her ass and say, there, now you can get back to <whatever the fuck she thought was better than me>

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-06-11T20:28:03+00:00

Why is your squat weak as fuck?

red-sfpplus · 2018-06-11T22:07:51+00:00

Sees sex issues in the title.

Sees a squat of 115

Laughs and dies a little inside for OP.

JDRoedell · 2018-06-12T01:36:17+00:00

start leaving the house to get some dread going.

You ain’t done shit yet if you haven’t done this a few times, minimum, when given starfish.

screechhater · 2018-06-12T02:29:37+00:00

Cut the porn and choking the chicken to it Fuck the shit out if her and come when your ready. It’s not that bad compared to some of the others here not getting any

There is only one answer to all of it. Keeo working at it and apply yourself No easy answer.

Silver bullet does not exist

BobbyPeru · 2018-06-12T05:04:59+00:00

Go caveman.

DEVI

Quit being butthurt and make it happen

trpbritguy · 2018-06-12T07:48:05+00:00

Don't let her starfish then.. Get your face down there and give that bean a tongue flick!

You are supposed to be in charge and if you do it right and fuck her good she'll stop star fishing!

Persaeus · 2018-06-12T12:44:49+00:00

unless she's fugly, i agree you not being able to fuck her is a negative to your perceived (by her alone) SMV and isn't doing your confidence (perceived by everyone) any good at all.

you have already gotten the no fap, nutrition/lift, and caveman advice which is all a must.

how old are you and have you had your T checked?

if you can get it, i would recommend you take Ciallis as a bridge to better times and getting out of your head. quite a few guys here, myself included, have used this to deal with problem while getting the T and mindset back in order. by bridge, i mean we used it for awhile and then dialed it back when it wasn't needed.

i can assure you that if you take one of those pills your dick will get and stay hard almost no matter what's inside your head.

RPAlternate42 · 2018-06-12T18:37:37+00:00

Eat at a surplus, and keep lifting. You won't get stronger or bigger if you don't eat.

PBL89 · 2018-06-12T19:14:35+00:00

Holy Shit. Why are you cutting? You should be eating 1000-1500 extra calories a day.

Don't be concerned with the starfish, because right now if you are having metal Olympics while trying to fuck she will feel that and it will be lame sex. Be confident and do what you want to do, don't fear rejection. If its starfish then turn it down and go to the gym.

RedPillCoach · 2018-06-13T03:03:48+00:00

The moment I realize she's just not going to be into it, I'm done, even though mentally I want to keep going.

Once you have the physical under control, and while you are getting it under control, your biggest gains will be from changing your mindset. Start thinking more that she is your lover. Stop caring so much about her immediate reaction. Go for it with complete, 100% gusto and she will be into it and your wee willie wonka will be as well. You are letting her control you and possibly passive aggressively "punishing" her for not being more attracted to you.

Am I wrong?

NevrEndr · 2018-06-18T20:46:50+00:00

I hope those lifts are in Kilos.

If not, shut the fuck up and get to the gym. Eat a fuckton of meat and potatoes afterwards. Go. Now.

DeplorableRay · 2018-06-12T22:30:33+00:00

Stopped reading at “BP 85.”

Title	Sex issues.
Author	shadowycoder
Upvotes	13
Comments	60
Date	June 11, 2018 8:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8qck14/sex_issues/
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